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He's stopped texting me -- have we broken up?

Q.   he just stopped texting me and im assuming we're broken up. its painful to just act like nothing happened and move on. i know it will not be a good idea to contact him. all my friends say wait for him to contact you, but im in pain. what do i do?? ...

A.   27 June 2009: It is SO hard to do anything. I feel like he made things better for me. Like having him around made me feel less lonely and that i had someone there for me and just felt like i had something to look forward to. But i gotta admit that im not ... (read in full...)

He's stopped texting me -- have we broken up?

Q.   he just stopped texting me and im assuming we're broken up. its painful to just act like nothing happened and move on. i know it will not be a good idea to contact him. all my friends say wait for him to contact you, but im in pain. what do i do?? ...

A.   27 June 2009: The last time we were texting was 2 nights ago. We were talking about schools and I said to him "bristol pike community college is only ten miles away from my house". Then he didn't responde, i assumed he fell asleep or something. I woke up the next ... (read in full...)

I want to go out and have a life but don't know how to do it!

Q.   Im really happy with my boyfriend and im really happy when my boyfriends around but heres the issue. I moved in with my boyfriend a few months ago. Ive been searching for jobs for months and months, right since i was back at home and am having no...

A.   27 June 2009: I just moved to philly 3 months ago and this area its not a really nice area either. I have no friends and and i've also been looking for a job but no luck. I got a gym membership and thats where i meet people all the time. It's better than staying ... (read in full...)

Having a child with a man who doesn't know what his sexual preference is!

Q.   I started dating this guy about three years ago before we ended it. We dated 3 months before we had sex and after that we only had sex once a week for about 2 months. I asked why were we only having sex once a week or 4 times a month - his answer ...

A.   23 June 2009: Okay I had sex on the 11th, my last period was on the 25th, my period usually comes from 25-29 days. Today is day 29th, and it's not coming. About 3 days after my new bf and i stared having sex (the 11th), my breast got bigger, just like when I took ... (read in full...)

My mom said things years ago that still bother me -- could she be the one with issues?

Q.   When I was 13 my mom and I got in an arguement and she told me I was so ugly. Her saying that had absolutely nothing to do with what we were arguing about. I actually can't even remember what we were arguing about, but I do remember her telling me ...

A.   8 June 2009: Thanks Full moon temptress1 I liked your advice you seem to understand how I feel.... (read in full...)

My mom said things years ago that still bother me -- could she be the one with issues?

Q.   When I was 13 my mom and I got in an arguement and she told me I was so ugly. Her saying that had absolutely nothing to do with what we were arguing about. I actually can't even remember what we were arguing about, but I do remember her telling me ...

A.   8 June 2009: i'm wasting my time with you people. ... (read in full...)

Said he'd text me but he hasn't yet

Q.   Okay new boyfriend. It's been a week officially. We've been talking everyday since he got my number, but yesterday he REA llY dessapointed me. I have bipolar disorder and havent been taking my meds because i dont like the side effects, so maybe i'...

A.   14 May 2009: Well duh, I understand its wrong im not crazy i know i dont need medication to see that, but thats part of being bipolar, i'm impulsive. I do things i will probably regret later but at the moment i cant stop myself. Thats why my doctor says im in ... (read in full...)

Said he'd text me but he hasn't yet

Q.   Okay new boyfriend. It's been a week officially. We've been talking everyday since he got my number, but yesterday he REA llY dessapointed me. I have bipolar disorder and havent been taking my meds because i dont like the side effects, so maybe i'...

A.   13 May 2009: I'm embarrassed of my actions. He's probably gonna tell people and they're gonna think i'm crazy. I'm impulsive without meds. But I hate the side effects.... (read in full...)

Said he'd text me but he hasn't yet

Q.   Okay new boyfriend. It's been a week officially. We've been talking everyday since he got my number, but yesterday he REA llY dessapointed me. I have bipolar disorder and havent been taking my meds because i dont like the side effects, so maybe i'...

A.   13 May 2009: What do I do with this depression now???... (read in full...)

Will he ever forgive me and take me back?

Q.   On May 5th my boyfriend of 2 years dumped me. I feel like my wold has fallen apart, can't eat or sleep and the doctor has me on 3 types of tranqulisers.. Another couple that we had associated closely with split up 4 weeks ago - he just wasn't in l...

A.   13 May 2009: Oh my god! I'm SO sorry, I really am. Please be stronge, the more you beg him the worst your chances of getting back together. I will give you a book about gettinf back together, its called the mahgic of making up. My e-mail is ... (read in full...)

Said he'd text me but he hasn't yet

Q.   Okay new boyfriend. It's been a week officially. We've been talking everyday since he got my number, but yesterday he REA llY dessapointed me. I have bipolar disorder and havent been taking my meds because i dont like the side effects, so maybe i'...

A.   13 May 2009: Okay he started to oficially ignore me cuz his friend calle dhim and he answered for him but when i called he didn't answer. And guess what he just sent me a text. And he broke up with me because i called him 24 times last night. I saw it coming. ... (read in full...)

Said he'd text me but he hasn't yet

Q.   Okay new boyfriend. It's been a week officially. We've been talking everyday since he got my number, but yesterday he REA llY dessapointed me. I have bipolar disorder and havent been taking my meds because i dont like the side effects, so maybe i'...

A.   13 May 2009: He's officially ignoring me right now. His friend called him and he answered but when i call him he doesn't and he's not responding any of my text messages either.... (read in full...)

Sad and depressed and can't cope with problems

Q.   I just can't seem to deal with all these problems. My car broke down about 2 months ago. My life is so much more difficult now without a car. I'm very sure I got an STD and scared of not being able to get pregnant because of it. Just everything ...

A.   24 April 2009: Listen Pebble, I asked for advice on how to overcome such bad experiences, I didn't ask if you think it was right for them to send me there or not, I know it wasn't, it was a horrible experience and I was asking people how to overcome my depression ... (read in full...)

Sad and depressed and can't cope with problems

Q.   I just can't seem to deal with all these problems. My car broke down about 2 months ago. My life is so much more difficult now without a car. I'm very sure I got an STD and scared of not being able to get pregnant because of it. Just everything ...

A.   23 April 2009: Pebble you don't know what you're talking about. My therapist made a mistake for sending me there period.... (read in full...)

Sad and depressed and can't cope with problems

Q.   I just can't seem to deal with all these problems. My car broke down about 2 months ago. My life is so much more difficult now without a car. I'm very sure I got an STD and scared of not being able to get pregnant because of it. Just everything ...

A.   22 April 2009: PEBBLE you are insane!!!! I cam't believe you said it was for a good reason for me to get locked up in a mental hospital!!!! I was NOT in danger my therapisy is just a dumb bitch. You don't know the whole story so whatever. All I know is that that ... (read in full...)

Unprotected sex, partner got a STD -- I'm scared!

Q.   I'm 21 years old. I've had 9 parteners in my life. I used protection with only half of them. I heard my ex recently got tested for gonorrhea and got positive. I'm going to get tested and treated this week and i'm soooo scared!!!!! I'm so scared I ...

A.   22 April 2009: I understand that's they're different diseases but for some reason I got scared I might have gotten something else besides the gonorrhea. Idk I guess I just got paranoid, but I will be cautious from now on ... (read in full...)

My teacher has a crush on me!

Q.   What should I do?! My Maths teacher has a crush on me since about 2 years ago. And it is bothering me. I can't concentrate in class , while she stares at me occasionally. She even thinks i like her as well! But I don't! She's annoying me sooo...

A.   21 April 2009: How do u know she likes you? Just cuz she looks at you? Maybe she's just looking to see if you're behaving or something... (read in full...)

Unprotected sex, partner got a STD -- I'm scared!

Q.   I'm 21 years old. I've had 9 parteners in my life. I used protection with only half of them. I heard my ex recently got tested for gonorrhea and got positive. I'm going to get tested and treated this week and i'm soooo scared!!!!! I'm so scared I ...

A.   21 April 2009: Thanks. So since he's tested positive for gonorrhea the chances I got it too are really really high right? ... (read in full...)

What do they mean by "you're amazing!"

Q.   What do guys mean when they say ur amazing to a girl? I mean I always hear a guy say that about a girl who he thinks she's great in bed but we didn't even kiss!!! Male advice please?...

A.   7 March 2009: You were right!!!! He is a jerk!!! Thank God I didn't kiss him or anything. He told people that him and I hooked up when we didn't!!! I'm so mad about that. One of his closest friends also told me that he has cheated on his girlfriend with other ... (read in full...)

What do they mean by "you're amazing!"

Q.   What do guys mean when they say ur amazing to a girl? I mean I always hear a guy say that about a girl who he thinks she's great in bed but we didn't even kiss!!! Male advice please?...

A.   3 March 2009: Thanks i'm exited cuz I like him alot too but he has a girlfriend of 3 years!!! Do u think he might leave her for me? ... (read in full...)

What do they mean by "you're amazing!"

Q.   What do guys mean when they say ur amazing to a girl? I mean I always hear a guy say that about a girl who he thinks she's great in bed but we didn't even kiss!!! Male advice please?...

A.   3 March 2009: We went on a first date and just hung out and after he dropped me off he said you're amazing i def wanna do this again i had fun. That's what he wrote.... (read in full...)

What do you think? I don't want to be the girl he cheats on his g/f with!

Q.   I've had a crush on this guy since my freshman year in High school, i'm 20 now. I recently got a Facebook account and added him as a friend. He e-mailed me so we've been talking. He asked me to hang out and gave me his cellphone number. I text him ...

A.   3 March 2009: but thanks so much for your advice you were very heplful... (read in full...)

Should I just hang out with him as friends and see if maybe he ends up with me??

Q.   I've had a crush on this guy since my freshman year in High school, i'm 20 now. I recently got a Facebook account and added him as a friend. He e-mailed me so we've been talking. He asked me to hang out and gave me his cellphone number. I text him ...

A.   3 March 2009: One more thing. What do guys mean when they say ur amazing to a girl? I mean I always hear a guy say that about a girl who he thinks she's great in bed but we didn't even kiss!!! Male advice please?... (read in full...)

What do you think? I don't want to be the girl he cheats on his g/f with!

Q.   I've had a crush on this guy since my freshman year in High school, i'm 20 now. I recently got a Facebook account and added him as a friend. He e-mailed me so we've been talking. He asked me to hang out and gave me his cellphone number. I text him ...

A.   3 March 2009: yeah that was another concern I had. If he's trying to cheat on her now he might cheat on me too. I think I will always be paranoid about him if we end up together.... (read in full...)

Should I just hang out with him as friends and see if maybe he ends up with me??

Q.   I've had a crush on this guy since my freshman year in High school, i'm 20 now. I recently got a Facebook account and added him as a friend. He e-mailed me so we've been talking. He asked me to hang out and gave me his cellphone number. I text him ...

A.   2 March 2009: Okay so he picked me up saturday night very late because he ws at the library studying before. He is going to become a doctor. We have never talked in high school before more than a hello and we both knew each other's name. When he picked me up and ... (read in full...)

No more sex!

Q.   My boyfriend stopped wanting to have sex with me completely!!! we were together for almost a year. Him and I used to have sex 4 times a day in the beggining and it was the best sex I've ever had in my life and he said the same for him. This whole ...

A.   26 December 2008: i'm 20 and he's 21. He's american and i'm hispanic. I came here when i was 13 and learned english here. He was always a little weird with his phone ever since we started dating. After i left him for not wanting sex with me i contacted him after two ... (read in full...)

No more sex!

Q.   My boyfriend stopped wanting to have sex with me completely!!! we were together for almost a year. Him and I used to have sex 4 times a day in the beggining and it was the best sex I've ever had in my life and he said the same for him. This whole ...

A.   26 December 2008: and no our sex life only got worse after we got back together. Then HE dumped me. And now i'm heartbroken. And i only went with that other guy to try to forget about him because he wasn't coming back to me. If that guy wasn't a liar i don't think ... (read in full...)

No more sex!

Q.   My boyfriend stopped wanting to have sex with me completely!!! we were together for almost a year. Him and I used to have sex 4 times a day in the beggining and it was the best sex I've ever had in my life and he said the same for him. This whole ...

A.   26 December 2008: wait a minute!!! I broke up with him because he stopped wanting to have sex with me completely and i waited around for four months to see if things changed but it didn't, so i couldn't continue to live my life feeling undesireable and frustrated and ... (read in full...)

No more sex!

Q.   My boyfriend stopped wanting to have sex with me completely!!! we were together for almost a year. Him and I used to have sex 4 times a day in the beggining and it was the best sex I've ever had in my life and he said the same for him. This whole ...

A.   26 December 2008: wait a minute. What did i do wrong here!!! He stopped wanting to have sex with him so i ended things with him thinking if he really loved me he would come back and try to fix things. It's not like i dumped him for no reason. Since he wasn't coming ... (read in full...)

We broke up because she wanted to commit her time to her education. I still want her in my life! Will she come back to me?

Q.   I just broke up with my girlfriend of 6 months. She and I were perfect. I truly loved this girl with all of me. She just got back from her break from school and she had changed. Our relationship was SOO strong before she left and I knew somethin...

A.   1 February 2007: I was going throught the SAME thing. My boyfriend broke up with me cuz he said he was gonna get bad grades being in a realtionship, but in your case she DIDN'T break up with you, she wanted to work things out. Are you sure that staying in a ... (read in full...)

Is it normal for guys to look at porn even though they are dating someone?

Q.   This may be a stupid question, but is it normal for guys to look at porn even though they are dating someone?...

A.   28 December 2006: i'm extremely good looking and my bf looked at porn and masturbated to women that were not nearly as pretty as me. Why is that? Can a guy answer me this? ... (read in full...)

It's a new relationship, so should I dump him for not getting me anything for christmas?

Q.   My bf didn't get me anything for christmas. He asked me what size i am and I said small or x small, and then he said i'm not getting u anything!!! so don't think i'm gonna buy u anything. He didn't get me anything for christmas. The relationship is ...

A.   26 December 2006: Well I didn't get him anything cuz he told m he wasn't gonna get me anything. Also, on our first date he was joking all the time by asking me what I was gonna get him for christmas and that i'm gonna be paying for our next date and stuff like that. ... (read in full...)

After he sent me these obscene messages..I get the feeling he doesn't like me anymore. Any advice?

Q.   This is what my bf wrote on a text message after we got into an arguement. I was just asking him to stay on the phone with me longer because I felt lonely and he got frustrated and hung up on my face. Here is what he wrote on his text message "You ...

A.   21 December 2006: yeah I tried talking to him but even my friedns who heard him on the phone think that he's a phyco. He said that tere's no way we're getting back together and he doesn't wanna be with me anymore and that i'm annoying as hell and stuff. I guess I ... (read in full...)

Is it normal for guys to look at porn even though they are dating someone?

Q.   This may be a stupid question, but is it normal for guys to look at porn even though they are dating someone?...

A.   20 December 2006: I don't agree with it. Our bfs will get pissed if they found out that we had pictures of other guys with huge penises and that we masturbate while looking at it and fantazise about these guys. Come on! How would you boys feel??... (read in full...)

My mom is going to report the vice principle who hit on me - we need to know if it constitutes sexual harassment, though!

Q.   hi i posted the question 'my vice principle at school winks at me and says things that make me feel uncomfortable. what should i do?' (13th december 2006). Well anyway my moms going to report it after the festive break but she needs a bit more ...

A.   20 December 2006: oh I remember you! Well, I'm not sure if he's really hitting on you. He hasn't said anything that is that obvious. I think you should just wait til he's really obvious about it, cuz what if he's just trying to be nice to you because he thinks you're ... (read in full...)

How do I learn to forgive my Mother for all the emotional abuse she inflicted on me?

Q.   im trying it hard for long time to forgive my mother inside of my heart, since i was young she abuse my emotion so much, she hurt my feeling so much, she tell me all the worst word that you can not imagine that mother can tell to her daughter. i go ...

A.   19 December 2006: well I think you should be nice to her but don't force your self to forgive her. Maybe she doesn't deserve you to forgive her. Did she even say sorry about all this?? If she did and you guys talked about it maybe you should consider forgiving her, ... (read in full...)

He split w/ me, but when we're together we still cuddle, kiss and flirt!

Q.   Im 19 and was with my ex for 2 years. He told me he loved me after 1 month together, and from there we had a really good relationship. We were best friends and both loved each other so much. We split up just under a month ago on his terms. He said ...

A.   19 December 2006: You should either be in a relationship, or not. What you guys are doing right now is called friends with benefits. This means he'll have sex with you AND other people and you won't be able to get mad at him cuz you're not together anymore. Don't let ... (read in full...)

What does dating mean??

Q.   I was on a date with this guy and he asked me: Do u want to start dating? What does that mean exactly?...

A.   19 December 2006: Well he just asked me to be exclusive and to be his girlfriend two nights ago. I'm happy with him. We haven't even hooked up yet but there's a very close friendship between us, whih is something very important in a relationship.... (read in full...)

My bf constantly stares at other females until they notice him! Is he desperate for attention, is he insecure?

Q.   My boyfriend of 4 years drives me nuts by constantly staring at other girls until they notice and then start returning the stares enjoying the attention...eye ping-pong begins! Why does he do this? Is he desperate for attention, is he insecure or ...

A.   19 December 2006: yeah I know how you feel. My ex bf of 3 years and 5 months is the exact same way. He's paranoid as hell, he gets all weird every time i'm gonna go out somewhere without him and stuff. Don't worry, he's just very insecure. I bet you're too pretty for ... (read in full...)

My ex bf made fun of my blowjob techniques! Can I have tips from people on how to be better at it?

Q.   Hey there, I am 16, quite experienced....BUT....a few years ago, I gave my boyfriend(at the time)head....I knew that it wasn't very good. It was my first time giving and his first time recieving. Afterwards, he made funn of me for it. Then as the m...

A.   19 December 2006: well first of all your ex bf is a jerk for making fun of you. Second of all, don't let your new boy feel your teeth at all when doing it. Third, squeeze your lips a little when doing it. Go fast but not that fast. Use your right hand on the bottom ... (read in full...)

My bf constantly stares at other females until they notice him! Is he desperate for attention, is he insecure?

Q.   My boyfriend of 4 years drives me nuts by constantly staring at other girls until they notice and then start returning the stares enjoying the attention...eye ping-pong begins! Why does he do this? Is he desperate for attention, is he insecure or ...

A.   13 December 2006: I think he does this because he wants u to think that if u guys break up he can easily get other girls. He wants u to appriciate him more I guess. He's begging for attention. And like every men, he enjoys looking at other women, but there's no ... (read in full...)

What does dating mean??

Q.   I was on a date with this guy and he asked me: Do u want to start dating? What does that mean exactly?...

A.   13 December 2006: yeah I do think he's a good guy. he calls me every night and we just talk about nothing. He picks on me a lot thought but he says he only does that because he likes me. He texted me last night after we were done talking on the phone and this is what ... (read in full...)

What does dating mean??

Q.   I was on a date with this guy and he asked me: Do u want to start dating? What does that mean exactly?...

A.   13 December 2006: well, then let's say we start dating, then when do I know when he wants to go steady? Will he ask me?... (read in full...)

What does dating mean??

Q.   I was on a date with this guy and he asked me: Do u want to start dating? What does that mean exactly?...

A.   11 December 2006: is there a different between dating and a relationship?? ... (read in full...)

What does dating mean??

Q.   I was on a date with this guy and he asked me: Do u want to start dating? What does that mean exactly?...

A.   11 December 2006: oh that's cool I guess. We didn't even kiss when the date was over thought. ... (read in full...)

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