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| | *HateWomanBeaters's profile:In my short life, I have seen some amazing things and some equally disgusting things.
I am here to turn the disgusting things amazing.
A few examples might be
A. helping a child get out of a household where the step father abuses her and her mother sits by idly, whether out of fear or simple malice is beside the point.
B. Helping a victim of abuse become an independent individual that can accomplish his or her goals that he or she wanted to do for so long. (an example would be a 17 year old that was not allowed to go to school by her pedophile 27 year old bf that is now in premed to become an anesthesiologist)
C. In one case, getting a female police officer to arrest her own abuser.
Together we can do things to make this world a better place.
I intend on doing more than give advice. I will do what it takes to help others.
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What is your take on this love letter?
Q. XXX is to protect my ex's name, and mine. Please tell me of the tone of the letter, and the idea of the ballet tix. I am asking of as many people's feedback as possible. ----- Dear XXXX, I ask you to read these words with an open mind and he...
A. 15 April 2010: be nice to her All I respond to is trash and people that are dealing with trash. Good luck sir, You are good guy. keep it up.... (read in full...)
What is your take on this love letter?
Q. XXX is to protect my ex's name, and mine. Please tell me of the tone of the letter, and the idea of the ballet tix. I am asking of as many people's feedback as possible. ----- Dear XXXX, I ask you to read these words with an open mind and he...
A. 13 April 2010: haha just messin...
congratulations, first guy who deserves a second chance!
go get her...
make her happy...
so you can be happy!
... (read in full...)
What is your take on this love letter?
Q. XXX is to protect my ex's name, and mine. Please tell me of the tone of the letter, and the idea of the ballet tix. I am asking of as many people's feedback as possible. ----- Dear XXXX, I ask you to read these words with an open mind and he...
A. 31 March 2010: dude!
go get her!
i have never said on this site.
go get her and find out what is wrong with your dick!
seriously!
I am the first one to say, BREAK UP. or He is a fucking asshole. He is a punk etc.
I have nothing negative to... (read in full...)
What is your take on this love letter?
Q. XXX is to protect my ex's name, and mine. Please tell me of the tone of the letter, and the idea of the ballet tix. I am asking of as many people's feedback as possible. ----- Dear XXXX, I ask you to read these words with an open mind and he...
A. 30 March 2010: I say as long as you were not physically or emotionally abusive towards her, why not?
I say that, because you were married, and you had all that time to fix yourself.
Coming back with something like, not being able to give affection as nee... (read in full...)
Embarrassing BDSM fetish....
Q. I have a really embarrassing BDSM fetish. I have always had a deep desire to be humiliated, degraded, and owned. The problem is that my boyfriend and I were both raised very traditionally and when I brought up the subject he completely freaked out. ...
A. 30 March 2010: And no, there is no way to get this guy to do what you want.
And you SHOULD NOT get counseling for something like this.
I have been into BDSM for years in a healthy and productive manner.
I personally have had women with his mentality... (read in full...)
Embarrassing BDSM fetish....
Q. I have a really embarrassing BDSM fetish. I have always had a deep desire to be humiliated, degraded, and owned. The problem is that my boyfriend and I were both raised very traditionally and when I brought up the subject he completely freaked out. ...
A. 30 March 2010: yeah, get out...
this guy is a dumby...
if you like to be humiliated during sex with the right guy, then get humiliated.
If he doesn't want to do it, but he wants you to do stuff for him, its not a good relationship.... (read in full...)
Do men become possesive after sex?
Q. Do men become possesive after sex? I've been with a guy for nearly a year now, and we recently started having sex around the beginning of the year. I've noticed now he occasionally refers to me as me 'my girl' . He wants to see me the whole weekend ...
A. 29 March 2010: wow this is thread is filled with crazy people!
CLOTHES HAVE NOTHING TO DO WITH SEXUAL INTENTIONS!
Get a grip, folks.
The OP's boyfriend is flat WRONG and insecure.
OP find a guy that can appreciate you and not give a fuck how you dres... (read in full...)
Do men become possesive after sex?
Q. Do men become possesive after sex? I've been with a guy for nearly a year now, and we recently started having sex around the beginning of the year. I've noticed now he occasionally refers to me as me 'my girl' . He wants to see me the whole weekend ...
A. 29 March 2010: OP...
The stuff about it is natural for men to be angry if a man is looking at their girl is untrue.
However, say you were my girfriend and someone were to be staring at you, you said stop, and they continue?
I would be pissed then.
... (read in full...)
Do men become possesive after sex?
Q. Do men become possesive after sex? I've been with a guy for nearly a year now, and we recently started having sex around the beginning of the year. I've noticed now he occasionally refers to me as me 'my girl' . He wants to see me the whole weekend ...
A. 28 March 2010: haha strong fp... YOU become jealous and possessive. When a guy looks at women I am with, I don't give a f***. No, men SHOULD NOT do what he is doing. It is the beginnings of an abusive relationship. I am telling you right now, what ... (read in full...)
I've been offered to appear in an adult film. Any advice as to what goes on behind the scenes?
Q. I have been with my partner for 8 years and we have a solid relationship, in the past we have had threesomes with single men/woman and couples, it's never been something we do all of the time, just on the odd occasion, I have recently been offered ...
A. 27 March 2010: You are risking a lot for little in return.
Again, I whole-heartedly am in support of legalized and regulated businesses, prostitution, all drugs, and all other vice sin businesses as well.
However, until they have the medical technology to do... (read in full...)
I've been offered to appear in an adult film. Any advice as to what goes on behind the scenes?
Q. I have been with my partner for 8 years and we have a solid relationship, in the past we have had threesomes with single men/woman and couples, it's never been something we do all of the time, just on the odd occasion, I have recently been offered ...
A. 27 March 2010: Plus, testing is not good enough, as antibodies take up to six months to become detected in tests, including HIV antibodies.
80% of people have HPV when 35 or 40 or so
60% have oral herpes (which is super common)
I've read 20% (double check th... (read in full...)
I've been offered to appear in an adult film. Any advice as to what goes on behind the scenes?
Q. I have been with my partner for 8 years and we have a solid relationship, in the past we have had threesomes with single men/woman and couples, it's never been something we do all of the time, just on the odd occasion, I have recently been offered ...
A. 27 March 2010: Don't do it.
AS much as I hate to admit it, porn is not safe disease wise.
I was looking into becoming a male pornstar and am easily hung enough to be one.
However, the non-lethal diseases are not checked for.
The only testing the... (read in full...)
My partner keeps having sex with me in my sleep, even if we have had sex before sleeping!
Q. my partner and i have a very active sex life, we have been together 14 years, we still have sex 3-4 times a week, however he goes through phases, of having sex whilst im sleepin, my partner is quite a dominate man, and ive let him be, when i start ...
A. 25 March 2010: leave him... (read in full...)
How can I stop this constant fighting?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for two and a half years lately we've been fighting a lot. We fight over petty little things and they get blown out of proportion or we fight over big things and seem to never get dropped. I love him so much, I ...
A. 25 March 2010: commnicate with him ... (read in full...)
Feel let down that my husband has gotten lazy, fat and less attractive since we married! I haven't so why has he?
Q. Short Version: If I am taking pride in my physical being-looking after my health and wellbeing as well as my sexual attractiveness for my husband then is it wrong to expect him to do the same? He disapproves of other women "letting themselves go" ...
A. 25 March 2010: March 4, 2010 poster with the fat 40 year old husband that is rich...
He does not love you, and you should not fool yourself into thinking that.
The ONLY thing that is good about dating that guy is his money, and you wouldn't get any of it! ... (read in full...)
Feel let down that my husband has gotten lazy, fat and less attractive since we married! I haven't so why has he?
Q. Short Version: If I am taking pride in my physical being-looking after my health and wellbeing as well as my sexual attractiveness for my husband then is it wrong to expect him to do the same? He disapproves of other women "letting themselves go" ...
A. 25 March 2010: If you do not love or like someone anymore and feel like they are a changed person, in the bad way, then tal to him.
If he does not want to change, divorce him.
Weight is not just about weight and looks. If you are attracted to healthy peopl... (read in full...)
She said my penis was "kinda thin". What is normal and what can I do?
Q. I was with this girl and she told me that my penis' erect length (4.7 inches) was just fine, but that it was "kinda thin"... My penis is about 4 inches in girth and 1.5 inches wide when fully erect. I read somewhere the average was 6 inches in ...
A. 23 March 2010: As an exercise science major who trains college athletes, is a personal trainer, and someone who is going to start their own fitness consulting business, I can tell you that you lose fat and gain fat (per square inch) evenly. This means, you will ... (read in full...)
How can I relax during sex after having been abused?
Q. I've been in therapy the past five years because I was sexually abused repeatly. Things are recently getting better but sex still makes me very nervous at times. I've been in a relationship with my bf for two years now and is very supportive in the ...
A. 22 March 2010: If there is any guy who has been in the situation, same thing applies.... (read in full...)
How can I relax during sex after having been abused?
Q. I've been in therapy the past five years because I was sexually abused repeatly. Things are recently getting better but sex still makes me very nervous at times. I've been in a relationship with my bf for two years now and is very supportive in the ...
A. 22 March 2010: Dear anon,
----------------------MENTALLY----------------------------
I can only begin to guess how sex may be for you.
However, all I can say is, you are going to find, that your boyfriend, if what you are saying is true, is a loving person,... (read in full...)
She said my penis was "kinda thin". What is normal and what can I do?
Q. I was with this girl and she told me that my penis' erect length (4.7 inches) was just fine, but that it was "kinda thin"... My penis is about 4 inches in girth and 1.5 inches wide when fully erect. I read somewhere the average was 6 inches in ...
A. 22 March 2010: as someone who prides himself on a big dick I will gladly and honestly admit that having a big dick is NOT everything.
Be attentive and be loving to a woman that you feel you should be with. A woman that says, "you have a small penis you suck... (read in full...)
Husband walks out while we are on vacation. Should I put the effort in to stay with him?
Q. Hi, I am a 32 y/o woman who has been in a relationship for the past 6 years and I am totally confused as to whether I should leave my fiance or or not. I really need some help with this. My fiance can be quite controlling and aggresive toward...
A. 21 March 2010: OP you are young and do not need to work on anything that does not work...
you have so many options out there.
you don't love him, you love the illusion that he presented himself as. You love what he claimed to be in the beginning of the... (read in full...)
She said my penis was "kinda thin". What is normal and what can I do?
Q. I was with this girl and she told me that my penis' erect length (4.7 inches) was just fine, but that it was "kinda thin"... My penis is about 4 inches in girth and 1.5 inches wide when fully erect. I read somewhere the average was 6 inches in ...
A. 21 March 2010: the average is not 6 inches long 2.5 inches in diameter...
the average is 5.5 inches long 1.7 inches wide and 5 inches around
also, your weight has a large part in not being able to see it...
#1. for every 35 pounds you lose, you gain... (read in full...)
How can I stop this constant fighting?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for two and a half years lately we've been fighting a lot. We fight over petty little things and they get blown out of proportion or we fight over big things and seem to never get dropped. I love him so much, I ...
A. 21 March 2010: Depends on what you are fighting about?
What exactly is it?
That is going to be something we will need to know, before we can help.
So, what are you fighting about? ... (read in full...)
Should I leave him because he keeps stalling on having children?
Q. My husband is incredibly selfish. I am feeling right now like I am living his life with him, and I have nothing that I want, nothing of my own. I am from a different country than him, right now neither of us live in our own country, but he wants me ...
A. 21 March 2010: You don't want what he wants and he doesn't want what you want....
Don't stay with someone that does not make you happy.
You are young and have a life ahead of you.
Its not worth it to stay.
... (read in full...)
Is this guy crazy? Is he dangerous?
Q. It is me again. Thank you to everyone for thier wonderful words of advice and wisdom. I met a charming man online. we have been communicating mostly through email and a few phone calls for three months. I have not had sex for years and years as I ...
A. 21 March 2010: He is being sarcastic and throwing it in your face that you would say that he could be an axe murderer and a rapist.
I am sure you said it like this ,,"I hope you aren't an axe murderer or rapist".
As opposed to, "I hope you aren't an axe mu... (read in full...)
How can I say what I mean to him without getting all tongue tied?
Q. I have seen this guy for about two weeks. He seems like a good guy and I would like it to work out for us. Unfortunately, I am not very good at reading people's character and know about them deep down. I can have a good laugh but when it comes to ...
A. 21 March 2010: explain whatever you want to say as simply as possible...
I HATE to beat around the bush constantly with people.
Say what you mean, and mean what you say.
Be direct.
He would appreciate it in every circumstance, as any adult shoul... (read in full...)
I'm concernd about the size of my penis?
Q. My current girlfriend, who had sex with one person before told me that he had a small penis, but she later told me that it was 6 inches, which I certainly don't consider small. She also told me that having sex didn't feel good at all with him. She ...
A. 20 March 2010: PS
think about your penis like a cylinder.
the VOLUME is what you would go by.
assuming it is cylindrical, which they aren't, but for simpllicity's sake lets say it is, then you are 1.5 times his size.
She means his penis was thin.... (read in full...)
I'm concernd about the size of my penis?
Q. My current girlfriend, who had sex with one person before told me that he had a small penis, but she later told me that it was 6 inches, which I certainly don't consider small. She also told me that having sex didn't feel good at all with him. She ...
A. 20 March 2010: Dude, you have nothing to worry about. 2 inches in diameter is definitely big enough thickness wise. You totally have the better end of the deal. Width is WAY more important than length. i have had women that have been with 9 inch ... (read in full...)
Advice on oral sex techniques
Q. Need some advice on better oral sex techniques. The problem is that I used to be able to get my girlfriend to cum fairly easily. She explained that it's hard for her to do it so the oral sessions would last up to 40mins. She used to ask me if my ...
A. 20 March 2010: Soul83, First get the woman warmed up by kissing her, her neck, and going down her body, until you get down to her vaginal area. Kiss the inside of her legs, and then start. At a rate of 60 strokes of the tongue per minute start from the... (read in full...)
I don't know what to do anymore, should I move on?
Q. hi everyone i live with my boyfriend and think that he is really immature because i just caught him watching porn in the living room when i went to sleep. we haven't had sex in like a week and everytime I try to make love to him, he rejects me and ...
A. 20 March 2010: leave him.
relationships are supposed to be fun and loving.... (read in full...)
What's the most important thing in a relationship?
Q. Love is really confusing. I've never experienced it, maybe that's why I can't get my head around it. What's the most important thing in a relationship? I know different people will have different opinions but I'm curious. The majority of us have ...
A. 20 March 2010: the connection and molding those outside factors into your relationship or disregarding them totally.
... (read in full...)
Lost, don't know what to do?
Q. Hi, I've been married for 17 years. There is a 12 year age gap between me and my husband. At first it did not seem to matter, but now he has turned 50 and has no teeth, i'm struggling. I have had 2 one night stands in the past and felt very g...
A. 20 March 2010: When i said, "Hey anon" that was in reference to the last anon poster.
OP, you are referred to as OP. ... (read in full...)
Lost, don't know what to do?
Q. Hi, I've been married for 17 years. There is a 12 year age gap between me and my husband. At first it did not seem to matter, but now he has turned 50 and has no teeth, i'm struggling. I have had 2 one night stands in the past and felt very g...
A. 20 March 2010: Hey anon.
Why don't you think before you speak.
Marriage is a commitment both ways, and it is not something where you can belittle your partner, prevent her from working, etc.
The man is 50 and has no fucking teeth.
This is not the ston... (read in full...)
Lost, don't know what to do?
Q. Hi, I've been married for 17 years. There is a 12 year age gap between me and my husband. At first it did not seem to matter, but now he has turned 50 and has no teeth, i'm struggling. I have had 2 one night stands in the past and felt very g...
A. 19 March 2010: leave him
not worth it
he is ugly inside and out
He is not worth your time...
the reason why he is doing that is because he is afraid that you will find someone better. That is why he is keeping you from going out and getting a job.
... (read in full...)
I want sex every day, but I'm lucky if hubby wants it once every three months, please help!!
Q. i am 35 and want sex everyday but my 33 year old husband wont. We went from everyday when we got married to twice a week to once a week to once a month and now only seven years into our marriage I'm lucky if i get it once every three months. What ...
A. 19 March 2010: divorce him
physical touch is the one thing that separates any intimate couple from friends and the rest of the world.
It is the ultimate expression of love. Love trhough words is easy, love through action is harder.
If I am with a woman ... (read in full...)
Loose? Or control issues?
Q. Ok...I have visited this site on several occassions with the same dilemma...my boyfriend complains about sex with me. He says that my vagina and anus are loose and I do not feel the same way I did when he met me one year ago. The anus I can ...
A. 19 March 2010: Your boyfriend has what we call, a very small penis.
It is common for people of this "short stature" to get angry at individuals (women especially) after they don't live up to the stereotypical large dicked status.
Fact is, you could have s... (read in full...)
Husband walks out while we are on vacation. Should I put the effort in to stay with him?
Q. Hi, I am a 32 y/o woman who has been in a relationship for the past 6 years and I am totally confused as to whether I should leave my fiance or or not. I really need some help with this. My fiance can be quite controlling and aggresive toward...
A. 19 March 2010: Do not listen to laura318 or anyone else who says that people can change.
IF someone does change? it is because they fear for themselves, not for their loved ones.
I say that you leave.
Basic rules of psychology back me up. ... (read in full...)
Husband walks out while we are on vacation. Should I put the effort in to stay with him?
Q. Hi, I am a 32 y/o woman who has been in a relationship for the past 6 years and I am totally confused as to whether I should leave my fiance or or not. I really need some help with this. My fiance can be quite controlling and aggresive toward...
A. 19 March 2010: no point in staying...
once an asshole to you always and asshole to you...
do not stay... (read in full...)
Should I stay in a sour relationship with a much older man for the sake of my son?
Q. my boyfriend is 53 and I 21 have been together for 2 years and we have a son together he is a very mean person, he never shows me any affection and and when i try to confont him about it he says wait and see. which is funny because its been this ...
A. 18 March 2010: I just read the last part of your question, and you answered it already.
Happiness will pass on to the next generation.
OR
Sadness and anger will
Happiness with the 29 year old
Sadness with the 53 year old
You know which choice... (read in full...)
Should I stay in a sour relationship with a much older man for the sake of my son?
Q. my boyfriend is 53 and I 21 have been together for 2 years and we have a son together he is a very mean person, he never shows me any affection and and when i try to confont him about it he says wait and see. which is funny because its been this ...
A. 18 March 2010: LEAVE-
a mean person to you is a cruel person to your son.
A mother and he child is the one thing in this world, if anything, that you should not mess around with.
He may be the father, but he is not acting like one.
A father has a d... (read in full...)
Is it harmless or should I be moving on?
Q. My boyfriend of several years is looking at online dating sites and "classified ads." I have caught him emailing some of the girls and when I confront him he says he is "just looking" and would never do anything. Is it harmless or should I be ...
A. 17 March 2010: break it off ... (read in full...)
B/f is secure but I don't love him; other guy now wants me
Q. I have a boyfriend of 5 yrs whom I live with, I also have a friend that I met around the same time. I chose my boyfriend because of the stability he provides me with, but honestly I don't love him. If he did not take care of me I would not be with ...
A. 17 March 2010: I would leave.
I would become self-sufficient.
In order to get what we want, to be in love, we have to work.
Do you really want to not be happy and in love, because you don't want to be steadily employed.
The unknown road is the excit... (read in full...)
Years later and things have changed, I've changed...but she doesn't trust me because of what happened before...
Q. Hi, I have a major issue…… Firstly a little background info. I’m 31 years old and live in Australia. From the ages of 19 to 24 I lived in Europe and other parts of the world. During my two years living in the mediterranean, I was 21 at the time, I ...
A. 16 March 2010: Now this is a story where you were a jackass as a kid and where you CAN change. However, you have to understand her, and not only feel depressed for yourself.
I read hundreds of stories and responded to over 100 on this site. I rarely see some... (read in full...)
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