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How can I get him to lighten up and feel more comfortable during sex?

Q.   Been going out with my boyfriend for the last couple of months and we started sleeping together just before Christmas. Everything has been going fine but I'm finding my boyfriend is a bit reserved sexually. He doesn't want to try new things. It's ...

A.   3 January 2009: Well, you make the first move, and chances are, he'll follow you... the last thing he'll want to do is let you down, good luck! - Lily... (read in full...)

Love at first sight - do you believe?

Q.   do you guys believe in love at first sight? ...

A.   3 January 2009: I didn't use to, until I experienced it for myself... all my other bf's were friends of mine before I dated them and they only lasted a couple of weeks. But then I met a guy on my way to my friend's house and we've been going out now for 8 months!... (read in full...)

He's a friend did I ruin our friendship by telling him to back off?

Q.   hi... i am a 12 year old gurl... I have a bf who i am REALLY in luv with { i posted a question about him not to long ago} anyway, i also have this friend, he is deeply in luv with me and is always trying to interfere with my relationship. Recently I ...

A.   3 January 2009: Thanks for all the help! I really needed it!... (read in full...)

My friend is spreading rumors about me, what should I do??

Q.   I have this friend who is really mad at me right now. It all started last year when she was datin this guy. they only went out for a week and then she broke up with him. She says she broke up with him because he was a year younger and people were ...

A.   5 December 2008: #1- I am not 10 - 12, i just picked a random age, i didn't know it would show, i'm really 15. #2- the rumors JUST started, so i have a reason to be mad ... (read in full...)

Should I do something a little more special and sincere since we have been together for quite a while?

Q.   So me and my boyfriend have been together for almost a year now (in January it'll be a year) and he's really not into much so I don't know what to get him. He hates sports or anything to do with them, he loves music but he has every song and CD out ...

A.   30 November 2008: You shouldn't give him somethin too expensive, considering he won't give you something too expensive back, so your first idea would have been perfect!!... (read in full...)

What to do if a boy is flirting with other girls?

Q.   If your boyfriend is flirting with other girls , does that mean that he likes them or no???? What should I do?...

A.   29 November 2008: I am in the same boat gurl, {same age too}. I confronted my man and he told me that he didn't like any other gurl but me and that he was sorry, so don't be afraid to tell him how you feel!... (read in full...)

I want my boyfriend to kiss me!

Q.   hey evereyone, i really want my bf to kiss me, but we are still on our hugging phase. i think he wants to kiss me but is to scared and i'm just as nerves. i'm just to shy around him i need to know how to open up! Plus he says he is th...

A.   29 November 2008: I am in the exact same boat as u r, me and my bf have been datin for almost 8 months, and i am SO ready to kiss him, my only advice is to wait for the perfect moment when ur both comfortable and everything will fall into place!! Good Luck!... (read in full...)

Wanted to get married and made HUGE mistake!

Q.   My boyfriend and I had been together for five years, but he always changed the subject when I brought up marriage. One night, I broke down and told him that I thought we should either get married or split up, but he didn't respond well to the ...

A.   29 November 2008: Everybody makes mistakes, but this was a BIG one!... (read in full...)

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