He's just too into me! How can I tell him to bug off?
Q. Hello everyone, I need some help here. There's this guy at my workplace who really likes me. I mean even after I told him I have a boyfriend, he still tells me I'm his type of girl and that he'd love to marry me. At first I thought he was k...
A. 22 November 2010: I know it's wrong that I flirted with him, but I didn't think he'll insist even after telling him that I have a boyfriend.
As for the phone number, we all have mutual access to the phone numbers and e-mail adresses, in order to contact each oth... (read in full...)
How do I get my self esteem back?
Q. HI The Break Up was emotionally draining and I have now settled at a more peaceful place which is liberating. My feelings are still bruised and my hear is still very sensitive but im trying to make small steps to move on with my life.....I need ...
A. 15 November 2010: It's a very long way to regaining self-esteem. It's long, hard but NOT impossible. You can start by focusing on WHAT you do, rather than HOW you do it, because the latter must be a natural impulse, not an attempt to make the others accept/like you. ... (read in full...)
Abdomen aches and we only dry humped!
Q. hey.... i was with my bf yesterday and he was on top of me .... he was just pushing his hard penis on my vagina... he did it alot... but he with his boxers and me with my underwear... so we did not take off all our clothes... and as far as i know i...
A. 13 November 2010: From what I can tell... isn't this pain a psychological one? I mean you imagine it and it's there. Maybe there's nothing real to worry about, just stop thinking about the pain and it will go away. Go out, go have fun, get busy, don't let other ... (read in full...)
He wants me to go on top but I don't know how!
Q. I had sex with my boyfriend for the first time the other day, i was a virgin but he wasnt. He said next time we have sex he wants me to be on top of him but i dont know how to, i really want to do this for him. Need advice on how i do this f...
A. 9 November 2010: Don't think too much. Just climb on him and TRUST ME: everything, every move will come naturally. Being on top means that you take the lead, aka allowing him to penetrate you as deep as YOU like. The moves will just flow naturally.
Don't be scare... (read in full...)
Will you marry me?
Q. That's how everything started. Before the dating phase, my boyfriend and I used to go out in a huge group and have fun. I liked him a lot, but I didn't know if he reciprocated my feelings, so all I could do is flirt with him, hoping that some...
A. 3 November 2010: Thank you for the feedback ! :)... (read in full...)
He says he will call me right back and does not...smh...why do men do that?
Q. Why does he sometimes say "stay by the phone, imma call you right back," and does not??? I admit it is annoying. What should I do in that situation?...
A. 30 October 2010: For how long have you been going out ? It's important, because he might have lost interest or who knows, you fell to easy for him, he got you now so he doesn't have to do the cashing anymore.
Anyway, let's say he's either too busy or he simply f... (read in full...)
It was my first time without a condom and I'm very nervous!
Q. Okay so I've been with my boyfriend for about 3 months. WE've had sex before but today I let him cum inside me for the first time. I'm on birth control and I've been on it for a while. I'm just a little nervous because my whole family is very ...
A. 29 October 2010: Yes, you should be worried, because if you've made it until here (having sex that is), you probably know that birth control pills are not always effective. There's always a slight chance to get pregnant when on pills only. Be careful next time, if ... (read in full...)
My wife thinks that my ejaculating inside of her will make her fat!
Q. My wife does not want me to ejaculate inside her because she thinks sperm will make her fat, even though she doesn't eats junk food all the time. We have been married 18 months and I have to pull out just before I cum or wear condoms. This has been ...
A. 29 October 2010: Ok, this a psychological issue, she probably heard it somewhere and now she's over-cautious. But still, I've NEVER heard someone who encountered this sort of situation. Sperm can't make you fat, it can only make you pregnant (thus, fat). It ... (read in full...)
Why does he ignore me and stare at other girls? I cant take much more of this but he keeps begging for a second chance....
Q. Why would my boyfriend do that? am really hurt:(? my boyfriend claims he loves me very much but i dont feel his love..he doesn't make me feel special, he doesn't give me the attention i need.. me on the other hand gives him all the love and a...
A. 29 October 2010: For how long have you been going out? What's his experience with girls? If that's how he is, I'm afraid that you cannot change him and he cannot "learn to be the guy" you want, people DON'T change, people make COMPROMISE, which is a big differe... (read in full...)
Why do men think of women as slaves?
Q. why do men think of women as slaves?...
A. 29 October 2010: It depends on the man. Don't make it sound like EVERY man thinks of women as slaves. The men from my life (father, boyfriend, cousins, friends, uncles) are the most caring, loving and respectful men on Earth. You just need to find the right one. A ... (read in full...)
Is he only interested in me for the sex?
Q. hi everyone at dear cupid Im very lost and confused at the moment i really really like this guy have done for many months even when he got a gf i liked him,(which he has since split with) Anyway yes i have slept with him a few times but nothing...
A. 24 October 2010: Find something better to do. Stop being available for a guy who's just rewarding you with sex for looking after his dog.
By the way, I've just remembered a movie quote:
Him: Hey, do you have any plans for tonight?
Her: No...
Him: Great! Can y... (read in full...)
Girlfreind masterbates even with regular sex. help
Q. i am a 18yr old guy. i have been having regular sex with my girlfreind for 6months. but the sex is not great most of the time due to her being a vergin and hurting really easily(i assume). she has not had an orgasm from me in general (including ...
A. 20 October 2010: Masturbating it's normal, healthy and pleasurable.
I masturbate in front of my boyfriend, sometimes I show him some moves that stimulate my pleasure.
Your gf is still in the phase when she's looking for the move/touch that stimulates her, ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend thinks I don't understand so he wont talk to me
Q. My boyfriend thinks i dont understand so he wont tell me whats been bothering him what should i do ?...
A. 17 October 2010: Well, it probably depends on your reactions towards his confessions. Maybe he once told you something and you criticized him harsh. Or maybe you didn't pay enough attention to what he had to say, I don't know. You should give us more details, it's ... (read in full...)
I want to be more comfortable with my curves! Any ideas?
Q. i know its a girl thing to have self esteem issues, but i alway feel really inscure about my weight.I know im not huge but im not small either Im trying to change but i have two jobs and its hard. I just dont know how anyone could be attracted to a ...
A. 17 October 2010: Whenever you have free time, run, go to aerobics, physical exercise in the house, try a little diet, remove unhealthy food, drink liquids even if you're not thirsty. I doubt that you can't find a few minutes to do some sport between the 2 jobs. All ... (read in full...)
Men like girls who are bald?
Q. I've always shaved down there. I can't always get the hair completely bald off of the lip area though, so there is always hair though. I recently got in a relationship, and I am kind of worried that the guy might be turned off by a bit of the hair. ...
A. 16 October 2010: No it's not true.
It depends on the guy. Some like it bald, some like it bushy, some don't even care about it. It depends on every guy. But I think most important is that you feel comfortable with it. ... (read in full...)
He was seeing somebody else all during my pregnancy!
Q. My boyfriend I have been together for almost 2 years. 4 months ago I gave birth to his son and not long after that I found out he had been seeing someone for a year. But he said nothing was going on and she said the same, though people have sai...
A. 15 October 2010: It wouldn't be fair to your baby to grow up without his biological father, but if that's getting you down, he's not supportive at all, he's making you feel bad about yourself and your body, you don't need to sacrifice yourself for him. He also has ... (read in full...)
He said that if we break up, it will be because of me.
Q. My boyfriend of more than one year told me that he loves me and that he'll never break up with me. He said that if we break up, it will be because of me. My brain went blank for a few moments when he told me this, so I don't want to re-open this ...
A. 14 October 2010: We have a good communication, but he said it while stroking my hair, my face and my lips and I found this kind of scary... I mean talking to me on a reassuring way, but firm and made it sound like a menace. We don't have too many conversations of ... (read in full...)
I think my b/f is just waiting for me to dump him
Q. Hi everyone! I checked my bf on facebook, his status says "i am separated and i am looking for dating" and the other one says " if your gf slap you what can you do?tell me then i wil tell you what i did", since we have been together(3 yrs) i never ...
A. 14 October 2010: He's obviously unable to tell you where you went wrong (if you did that is). If you know you didn't, he's making you look like the bad guy, because he's too coward to assume the responsibility of a break up. And if he's doing this, he's just sick of ... (read in full...)
My lovely little ball of stress takes out her stress on me!
Q. Hello, I am currently 19 and I have been with my girlfriend for 2 years. I have noticed she is an extremely stressed out person. Everything seems so hard for her to do because it usually requires her to complain a little or anger her. As our ...
A. 14 October 2010: I know it might sound weird, but that's her defense mechanism. Being stressed out, feeling miserable about not being able to accomplish certain tasks that require more effort is part of her. When someone's trying to help her, she'd turn it down, ... (read in full...)
I feel invisible and lonely...
Q. I feel invisible and lonely? I have friends on Facebook but I really feel like I don't have anything in common with and don't know them that much; I just want to be their friends becuse they seem interesting. Some of the do play games with me but I ...
A. 13 October 2010: How about making REAL friends? In real life that is. Internet only gives you the impression of a perfect world. The idea is to be able to make the difference between these worlds and separate necessary from unnecessary friendships/relationships. You ... (read in full...)
Why do you answer to these questions?
Q. I just want to know something, why do you guys answer to these people? what do you plan to get out of it? do you think "God" will reimburse you for your efforts and "love"? do you feel better by helping others you don't know? I really don't see any ...
A. 12 October 2010: Because I know that, whenever i'll have a problem, they (members from this site) will read my post and try to give advice and help. So you could say it's simply MUTUAL. What's in it for me? Good question. I don't expect to go to Heaven or anything, ... (read in full...)
Does regular shaving down there causes darkening?
Q. Does regular shaving down there causes darkening?...
A. 10 October 2010: If you shave it with a razor, it grows back darker and thicker, I know from my own experience. That's why I refrained from using it, because it cuts hair off from the skin.
That's why I now use wax, because the hair is ripped off with it's roo... (read in full...)
Does regular shaving down there causes darkening?
Q. Does regular shaving down there causes darkening?...
A. 10 October 2010: Yes, regular shaving, with a classic razor, makes the hair grow back thicker and darker. ... (read in full...)
Too difficult to have sex, what do I do?
Q. My girlfriend and I are having an issue having sex, she's a virgin and she's really petite. So she told me she wanted to have sex, so i start to touch her and i realize shes really tight, i barely fit my middle finger inside her. so when i try to ...
A. 9 October 2010: She's not ready to be penetrated so she needs foreplay. A lot of foreplay, she has to be extremely wet down there, so you can slide in.
On the other hand she might not be ready to have sex yet, so it's an emotional issue. Whatever it is, don't pu... (read in full...)
I keep on dreaming that one day she will come back to me...
Q. I broke up with my girlfriend few months ago. I made many attemps at reconciliation, but non of them work. FINALLY I GAVE UP. She has cut all contacts with me. She has even changed her phone number. She never reflected on my emails which i recently ...
A. 9 October 2010: Move on with your life, because she already did. I don't know why you guys broke up, but people come and people go from our lives and we have to deal with it. If you've done something wrong in this relationship, think of what you did and never make ... (read in full...)
How do I gain that trust in guys back?
Q. Ok, here's the deal... Back in the first half of this year, I was in a relationship with this really nice guy. Or at least.. he was nice at the beginning of the relationship. Anyways, long story short.. we crossed boundaries that I never wan...
A. 9 October 2010: Well, they all DO want sex, even the most innocent ones, it's just that some of them know how to control their urges.
Just give this guy a chance. You can't find out his intentions unless you go out dating him and taking risks. Usually, after a ... (read in full...)
Peoples sudden ability to rip apart ones heart that they loved, one time!
Q. How is it so easy for humans to just fucking shred the life and heart out of another in any instance, but im speaking of 2 people as deeply in love as you can get, who stay with each other for along time, one of them starts to lose it, but they do ...
A. 9 October 2010: It depends on what side of the fence you are... They are selfish, they are careless and they are certain that you will get over them, because it is said that nobody literally died from being cheated on or after a break up. They're shallow and they ... (read in full...)
Getting a boner just by kissing?
Q. heyy.. i was wondering, is it normal for a boy to get a boner just by kissing the girl? thanks...
A. 9 October 2010: Yes. A guy gets random boners from mostly every thing that implies feminine context :)... (read in full...)
He doesn't want a girlfriend because "things are too crazy"
Q. I'm just wondering.i had a boyfriend,he always saying that he's so lucky for having me.that he want to share his life with me.but why?he broke up wth me,why is it?i thought he loves me,and it's breaking my heart.those promises.why?he said he decided ...
A. 9 October 2010: Yeah, that is all and I'm afraid you have to get over it and never look back. He gave you hopes, but in time he realized that he can't keep up with your enthusiasm.
People talk a lot and when it comes to actions, they block because they realize ... (read in full...)
"Enjoy the moment!"
Q. What does it mean when a guy says to "enjoy the moment." we've been in a monogamous relationship about 6 months and have talked about how seriously committed we are to the relationship. But every time he says that line, I feel like he's saying he ...
A. 8 October 2010: I told my boyfriend that I can't imagine my life without him, after 14 months of relationship, and he comes up with "me neither, but that doesn't have to make you scared of what's next". For some reason, reading all your answers and your post make ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is too busy for me, what can I do?
Q. Hello guys My boyfriend and have been together for 5months,but we've known each other for 3years. last year I moved but we kept in touch. we would email and text a lot and at some point we realized we had feelings for each other then we started ...
A. 8 October 2010: There's nothing wrong with wanting his attention, just don't be clingy, that's my point. My boyfriend is the same as yours, and I've had the same problems, so I know how it feels, that's why I'm, telling you these things.
We couldn't see each oth... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is too busy for me, what can I do?
Q. Hello guys My boyfriend and have been together for 5months,but we've known each other for 3years. last year I moved but we kept in touch. we would email and text a lot and at some point we realized we had feelings for each other then we started ...
A. 7 October 2010: How is he supposed to give you that affection? Through emails?
I'm sorry to say this, but I think that you're looking for attention. He's been very clear when he told you that he loves you, but he's too busy with other things too. He knows ho... (read in full...)
I almost raped my girlfiend. HELP!!
Q. ok so me and my girl have talked about sex. i'm ready she's not. i'm happy with that. she's happy with that. right? so then, we're happily making out when i feel i'm starting to lose control. i'm starting to go further automatically. so we stop and ...
A. 7 October 2010: If you want to help it, let her go, so you can avoid any contact with her. There are plenty of other girls who are keen to see Mr. snake from your pants.
This girl will probably lose her trust in men, because she thinks they will only use her for ... (read in full...)
He used me, than says he wants to be single!
Q. I've been seeing a guy for about 2 months. Today he told me that he couldn't do this anymore and isn't ready for a relationship. Why didn't he just say so, in the first place? Why did he lead me on for 2 months? He promised me that we'd go out this...
A. 7 October 2010: Have you ever went to his place, slept with him? Because if you haven't, it's pretty obvious why he dumped you. He himself said that he isn't ready for a relationship. We all know that a relationship requires feelings, being serious about the other ... (read in full...)
I love her, and I want to be with her, but I can't resist this pressure anymore.
Q. I've been seeing this girl, for some 5 months. In the beginning everything was great, we were both very happy. In fact I never felt so happy in my life. We went in a few trips together and everything was just fine.We talked about getting married and ...
A. 7 October 2010: OK, first off, once a woman smells a lie or let's say "not telling ALL the truth", you can say good bye to her trust. We tend to over-analyze everything, we feel left out if you don't give us the attention we need. The realistic need of attention ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants me to be more sexual?
Q. Hi, I'm 13 years old. My boyfriend is 16 last week. The problem is, im a virgin...he isn't. He wants me to be more sexual, and i don't know what to say! He is really nice but he said it will never work unless i try to become a little bit more...
A. 3 October 2010: It's not like he's "the one", you're still young and you have so many other things to enjoy and worry about. This guy's hormones run like mad due to the age. Don't let it get you overwhelmed or intimidated. If you feel like you can't or don't w... (read in full...)
My boyfriend of three years tells me I am ugly!
Q. Hi everyone! What can you do if your bf told you that your ugly? I have beem with my bf for 3yrs, last year he told that im ugly and he don't know why he's in love with me, he says may is because of im good in sex, i was realy hurt and after that ...
A. 3 October 2010: Well, he DOESN'T love you. Buying you an expensive gift just to forgive him so he can still have sex with you it's the most PATHETIC behavior. He's treating you like this because you accept him around, with his insults. Love is about accepting the ... (read in full...)
Does weight matter to men?
Q. Does weight matter to men? I am 5 feet 6.5 inches and i wear a size 15 pants. (i dont know what i weigh but i think i am about 180) So tell honestly do men care about weight?...
A. 2 October 2010: Weight matters fore some. While some guys like their girls to be chubby, curvy, some others like them skinny or thin, the "ideal" model shape, those we see on the catwalk. It's a natural ability to make difference. It depends on the guy. Some of... (read in full...)
When he just wants to get into your pants...
Q. Simple question: how do you know when a guy just wants to get in your pants? What are the sure fire signs?...
A. 2 October 2010: For starters, ALL men want to get into a woman's pants. There are just 2 types of them - those who have sex and use you for that and those who want to develop this relationship on a higher level, in order to set with you. Now listen up:
When he's... (read in full...)
I want to tell him I want to spend the rest of my life with him, but how?
Q. I've always been told that in an emotional sense you should never give a guy more than you're getting from him. What I mean is by telling him how you feel about him and so on...you know, let him be the first to say I love you, and so on. This is a...
A. 30 September 2010: Telling him about your feelings will boost his ego a lot and he'll probably won't make the chase, because he's already got you. Most people think this is loss of interest, I just think it depends on every couple.
"I'm scared to do it because ... (read in full...)
Why is my boyfriend so angry and why did he stop responding to my messages?
Q. know it sounds childish but Need advice to handle this prickly situation...wid my bf..? ok my bf and me have been dating for 10 months...and yes he has some trust issues cos he has been cheated on before.He is pretty quick tempered..and moody at...
A. 29 September 2010: OK, he's tendentious and can't tell you straight what's bothering him and can't be honest to tell you it's finished. You're humiliating yourself in front of him too much. Having financial issues doesn't make an excuse for his behavior. I think he's ... (read in full...)
Why is my boyfriend so angry and why did he stop responding to my messages?
Q. know it sounds childish but Need advice to handle this prickly situation...wid my bf..? ok my bf and me have been dating for 10 months...and yes he has some trust issues cos he has been cheated on before.He is pretty quick tempered..and moody at...
A. 26 September 2010: Maybe you've done something wrong and he found out about it? Or maybe he's just having too much free time and he's VERY bored and he's having, oh, so much fun doing this to you. He's kinda pulling your leg, he's not into anything serious w... (read in full...)
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