How do I stop loving this mean manipulative man? I have to see him almost every day
Q. My boyfriend of three yrs recently broke up with me and we have a daufhter together. This man is mean and manipulative but i still love him. I dont know why i would love someone who calls me names and hurts me because he doesnt love me back anymore. ...
A. 15 April 2013: Time is all we have. I left my boyfriend almost 11 months ago and I still love and miss him deeply everyday I left because of his disrespect for me. I tell you it wasn't easy but I didn't want our daughter going up and thinking his behaviour is ... (read in full...)
What should I read into her comment?
Q. Ok, So I was seeing this girl which I worked with for a while, we started just running together after work, which lead to us sleeping together and going out, dinners, concerts etc. She has children but she had them at an early age, I wanted t...
A. 15 April 2013: Gosh you are two adults. Tell her what you are telling us. I think you are a super guy.. It sounds from the way you wrote it that you were sort of dating. How can you fault a women who loves her kids enough that they our her priority. It sounds to ... (read in full...)
I am his first girlfriend and he isn't sure that I am the one. Should I let him go?
Q. I'm really confused right now. My boyfriend and I have been going out together for 6 months. He's 31 and i am his first gf. So he has nothing to compare to when something doesn't feel right in the relationship. He told me he had this feeling that he ...
A. 13 April 2013: You seem like a nice gal. As hard as you try to convince him your the one, he is convince your are not. If you have to convince someone into anything, it is wrong. At 31 he should know what his needs are in a relationship. It appears to me that he ... (read in full...)
Feeling guilty that I haven't told my wife about the emotional affair
Q. I have been married for four and a half years. We have a two-year old. We have much in common, but when my wife gets upset and high strung (she is a self-described "uptight" person), she shuts down emotionally. While we were engaged, she would ...
A. 3 April 2013: I understand that you feel guilty. An affair is an affair. But you have to ask yourself.....what is this going to accomplish? Who is this going to benefit? Are you trying to releave yourself of hurt and pain? Will my wife suffer from my ... (read in full...)
I found out that my ex slept with his ex while we were apart and he lied to me about it
Q. I already made a research on this topic, tried some of the advices that other people post on random forums, blogs, etc, but non of this actually helped. So, here's the thing, and I'm hoping You have something clever to say, or some tips if you have...
A. 5 March 2013: Everyone lies about their sex life or lack of it. This is an issue and you need to discuss this with him. Express your lack of trust with him. Express your expectations. If you are still not satisfied, you need to move on.
Good luck... (read in full...)
Was I dumped on Valentine's Day and I just didn't realize it?
Q. I've been dating a woman since Nov 2012 and we are intimate. I sent her a Valentine's day card where I refer to her as my girlfriend and tell her how I appreciate her. She never responded to my Valentine's day card even though she did receive it. ...
A. 4 March 2013: Sweet Man, move on. This was not a relationship to her..it was to you.
Go and find that gal who is going to appreciate your kind ways. Don't waste anymore time.
Good Luck!... (read in full...)
Sneaky girlfriend, should I dump her??
Q. Greetings, im just going to be straight about this. Ok, so this is what happend: i've been with this person (girl) for almost a year now, infact we will be making a year next week friday! She bookd herself in a hotel for the weekend, so we could sp...
A. 24 February 2013: Your question is a little unclear. She booked the hotel for you guys to spend the weekend together. That was was the plan? If that was the plan totally suspicious. She cancelled Friday to have some time to herself, which is ok but the second night. ... (read in full...)
How do I tell my soulmate that I can't be with her?
Q. There is really only one question that I have, how do I tell the woman I love, the woman I feel is my soulmate, that I cannot be with her?...
A. 24 February 2013: Your question is really simple. You tell why you can't be together . Be honest with her. Don't tell her you love her and she is your soulmate. Way too hurtful!
Let her go. Move on. Stop wasting time.... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is in prison and I think she's developed feelings for another girl in there
Q. So my girlfriend is in prison. She has been locked up for thirteen months. There is this other girl that she has developed and emotional attachment to.My girlfriend says that they are just friends, but there are little things that they do to make me ...
A. 24 February 2013: Wow! You are special or is that her? You sound like a nice guy. I would love to know why your gf is in prison. Why you are choosing to wait for her.
It is natural for your gf to have an emotional bond with her. Your gf is in prison and lean... (read in full...)
Would a guy text you every day if he just wanted sex?
Q. Hi, Would a guy text you every single day if he was just after sex. Me and this guy ( i know him yrs as were in the same group of friends years) had a drunken kiss at christmas. He had been trying it on a few times over the last couple of y...
A. 24 February 2013: This guys just wants sex.........been there done that, broke my heart. Don't get caught in this trap. It is not worth it.
What if he was your boyfriend and doing this to you. Think about her. Think about what you want and what your needs ar... (read in full...)
My father in law creeps me out. I spoke to him, but what more can I do?
Q. My father in law is always staring at me and gives me long hugs where I feel he tries to get a grab. I've told my fiancé I don't feel comfortable being alone with his dad so he really tries to stick around. Yesterday though they were both outside ...
A. 21 February 2013: Next time your father in law to be ask you to speak with him. Bring your phone with you and record the conversation for your boyfriend to hear. That way there will be no misunderstanding of he said. No he said she said BS.
Just remember... (read in full...)
Afraid she didn't enjoy her first time -- how can I be better?
Q. How To Sexually Connect with my girlfriend? Hey everyone, I've been going out with my girlfriend for 4 months now, and recently she's started hinting that she might want to have sex. She is a virgin. However, I've never had sex with a vir...
A. 12 February 2013: The first time is hard.....as a female we have ideas in our head of what our first time should be like. A first time is going to be flowers, fireworks, the earth will move and I will be a woman. If that makes sense.
You need to be sensitiv... (read in full...)
Advice needed regarding catching my girlfriend sexting
Q. I am a 36 year old guy who has been in a relationship with a lady whom I met online 6 months ago. We have become very close but last weekend I found text messages on her phone to at least 3 other men that were explicit in nature ( in both words and ...
A. 29 January 2013: The relationship is over. You clearly stated that you care for her but do not love her. It is not your responsibility to monitor her drinking habits. I agree with the message of above, delete her number and move on. You will find some one who values ... (read in full...)
My wife is constantly texting another man, asked me to move out and yet says she wants to work on things!
Q. Hi. I have used this site a few times and thank those who have added comments, it helps. Will try to be brief here... Married for 12 years, 3 great kids. Wife and I have always been great friends, quite a bit in common but our sex life has...
A. 29 January 2013: You are a very smart and well written man. You have answered your own question. There is something going on. She doesn't want to admit it. She might lose the best thing that ever happened to her........YOU. You need to focus on you and your needs ... (read in full...)
My wife is constantly texting another man, asked me to move out and yet says she wants to work on things!
Q. Hi. I have used this site a few times and thank those who have added comments, it helps. Will try to be brief here... Married for 12 years, 3 great kids. Wife and I have always been great friends, quite a bit in common but our sex life has...
A. 29 January 2013: I think you are a super guy.......but you know what is going on. As I read your request I can tell you are hanging on to something that isn't there for her. She is texting with another male over thousand times. It is more than work related. She is ... (read in full...)
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