My dance teacher and I were a couple for about a month, next week I will see him again, should I talk to him or ignore him?
Q. hey everyone...well i liked this guy who was my dance teacher..he liked me too and he asked me out...we were together for a month and i fell inlove with him.. we were together everyday and on the fone everyday....then he called later then usual to ...
A. 22 June 2008: see how it goes. if it feels right to talk to him then do. don't make the conversation really "heavy" keep it chatty (eg. how hes been, "up to much"?). don't worry about him so much that you don't enjoy the party
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I'm caught up between my best friend and boyfriend - help!
Q. my boyfriend and best friend hate eachother...but for some reason i think its because there attracted to each other...but they are cousins so idk...and everytime i wanna be with my best friend my boyfriend's wants me to be with him and i dont wanna ...
A. 15 June 2008: okay if they both want you to see them then there is one easy solution in my mind. there are two days to a weekend each gets you for one day. and for the attraction thing- give it a couple of weeks and if your still seeing red talk to him. why don't ... (read in full...)
I've missed coursework deadlines and now I'm worried my overall grade may suffer. How can I calm myself down??
Q. Hello all. This may not be a relationship question, but I could really use your advice. All of my college assignments must be handed in by Monday afternoon. I have been a good student. I've put a lot of effort into my work over the past 2 years...
A. 14 June 2008: okay get some music tell no one to call you and get on with it. there is still time i'm sure. and if not and you get to monday and its not done ask for an extension of just one day to boost you up.
good luck
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How do I go about getting a boyfriend?
Q. This is going to sound so strange... I'm sixteen and I've never had a real boyfriend. I had a girlfriend for about seven months late last year/early this year which is now a complete train wreck (I think I'm bi), but I haven't kissed a guy sin...
A. 9 June 2008: find a guy you really like the look of and maybe just ask outright for his msn or mobile to get to know him better? it will get easier once your schools become co-ed trust me :D
good luck
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Is it bad to keep painting and repainting your nails?!?
Q. Hey everyone I don't know if any of you will know the answer to this question but every question I have asked so far has been answered so maybe I'll get lucky and someone will know this one I like to paint my nails alot and I like to change ...
A. 9 June 2008: not going to repeat what everyone is saying :] but why not use a clear strengthening varnish for a couple of days, i can understand why you would want to match your outift...but is there a colour you wear most..if there is wear that nail ... (read in full...)
How can I make her see that we'd be perfect together as we share the same interests?
Q. I fell in love with the most beautiful, talented, amazing girl in the world and well she dosn't fell the same. I love her more than anything in the world. There was a time when I thought that perhaps she loved me and it was the best moment of my ...
A. 9 June 2008: try and continue the friendship even though it hurts, be yourself and don't let her see that your in pain with this but also try and move on, if she has feelings for this other guy then it is clear you will only get hurt.
if u want anymore ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend and I are both really shy around each other. Does anyone have any tips?
Q. dear cupid, my boyfriend and i have been going out for over a year now and we are both still really shy around each other. can you please give us some tips on how to overcome that shyness? ...
A. 8 June 2008: when you say shy what do you mean? just try a bit more talking, ask about the day try a few hugs and see how he takes it
good luck
email if you want anymore advice
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Should I let her know how I feel before she leaves forever?
Q. Ive known this girl for 2 years now. At first things were kind of confusing and many awkward/embarrassing situations occurred. We got to know each other and over time, we became good friends and after a while best friends. During the first year o...
A. 7 June 2008: definetely tell her :] itll not only make you feel better but give you closure and you can then both decide what to do. keep chatting to her and keep in touch make sure she knows that your not gonna forget about her.
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I need both guys and girls points of view!
Q. I need both guys and girls points of view! Basically,I am 14 and have given and recieved oral and today at school i stupidley let it slip. None of my friends have even given a hand job. i am very old in my year (year 9)as my b'day is in sep and wi...
A. 6 June 2008: its fine not to regret it. just keep to yourself for a while. don't let anyone know whats going on and work out who and who not to trust with your problems and life. we will always be judged by what we do...its really stupid :(... (read in full...)
How often do people see or contact their boyfriends and girlfriends each week on average?
Q. I'm just curious as to how often people see their bfs/gfs each week on average? And on the days that you do not see your bf/gf do you always contact them by phone/email/text message to see how they are going? Thanks for the replies in advance :...
A. 3 June 2008: Id have to say me and my boyfriend see each other 3 maybe 4 times a week and we text constantly...my poor phone bill :(
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Any suggestions on how to reach an orgasm?
Q. I've tried masturbating but i cant orgasm. i think i might have orgasms when i let water run on my clit in the bath but im not sure. Any suggestions on how to reach and orgasm?...
A. 28 May 2008: not many women can orgasm but if you think you can just try out different methods...vibrator maybe? there should be some ideas on google if that is any help
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Can circumcision be reversed?
Q. i have a girlfriend and we been together for like 6 months and were planning on having sex but i have a circumsised penis....can i asked a docter to uncircumsise is or no??...
A. 27 May 2008: it is not possible to uncircumscise a penis but there are other ways of being together and horny or whatever, not just sex. it says your 10-12 and that really isn't a good time to start having sex, as said below your girl's hormones are prob all ... (read in full...)
We know what a 69 is but whats a 35?? Are there any more numbers that mean sexual acts??
Q. me and my friend were wondering whats 35, we know whats a 69...and would there happen to be more of these that mean sexual acts??...
A. 27 May 2008: http://www.sensualinteractive.com/si/position.php?posID=1035
[NSFW]
not sure if this is what your looking for but hey :]
sparkii x... (read in full...)
Please take a minute to pray for me...
Q. My heart cant take much more! Well i've still been sticking it out with my boyfriend who is still talking and kissing his ex's behind, just so he can have a calm relationship with his kids. I need a prayer request please!!! I want to be strong eno...
A. 21 May 2008: Your in my prayers darling :]
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Are teenage girls so worried about pubic hair?
Q. Hello I was talking to my girlfriend about "stuff" yesterday and turns out that herself and most of her friends are all a little worried about how their pubes look, like how they shave them or how they don't shave them. Can any other women ...
A. 11 May 2008: well yeah im a teenager...and i gotta admit i do worry, its worse when a girl gets into a relationship because then its like "will he laugh at me for having them" and "should i shave them off" etc.
why do you ask...if i'm allowed to wonder?... (read in full...)
What's a corsage, where would I get one, and how much?
Q. People suggested for prom a corsage. What is it? How much? Where from in uk?...
A. 11 May 2008: most florists will do them, just a small bunch of flowers, tie it in with the colour of your dates dress :]
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I want to go on the pill. Will the doctor tell anyone?
Q. hey i am worried i am 14 and want to go on the pill but i cnt let my mum find out so i was just wondring if i sneack to the doctors will they tell my mum or any of the family ...
A. 4 May 2008: They can't its patient confidentiality, unless the parents demand to see it.... (read in full...)
I don't think he went all the way, but he said he did cum. Now I don't know what to do. Help!
Q. I had sex with my boyfriend for the first time yesteday, i don't think he went all the way but he said he did cum. I'm so worried i don't know what to do! I can't tell my parents, and i don't know if i can go doctor's without them? HELP!...
A. 4 May 2008: you should be able to go to the school nurse and get help. but can i ask where the condom was? try and remember next time so that this doesn't happen again hun :]... (read in full...)
What can I do for our 2 years anniversary?
Q. its coming up to me and my girlfriends 2 years together and i wanted to do something for her that shows her how much i love her because last year we just went to dinner and came home and she didnt seem too impressed. any ideas? ...
A. 27 April 2008: something completely romantic...whats she like with heights and things? but make it romantic AND enjoyable think what she likes and work round that
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In medicine school and only one month until exams-how many hours a day study should I do?
Q. hey i am in medicine school and i have less than one month for my exams..i wanted to know how many hours per day of study is required???i tend to get distracted by phone,or just log on facebook for hours.how do i keep myself foucussed.....
A. 27 April 2008: i would say keep the music but get rid of facebook and the tv. it might just be me coz i love music but i do find with something tiny in the background it does help :] and it depends how large the topic is. couple of hours a night, give it a break ... (read in full...)
How to I get the guy who is my almost boyfriend to kiss me?
Q. How to I get the guy who is my almost boyfriend to kiss me? He and I see each other on average once every two weeks, because we go to different schools, and he lives near my BFF and every time i go to her house, we head over to his on bike and ...
A. 27 April 2008: okay see how he feels...but why not try starting the kiss...if he reacts then he likes it...if not well then u really know whats going on.
just another perspective on it :]
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What is the exact meaning of this quote?
Q. I like this quote,it reminds me of my best friend and I.. but will somone tell me what the meaning of it is? The friendship between a man and a woman which does not lead to marriage or desire for marriage may be a life long experience of the g...
A. 27 April 2008: something along the lines of its very rare and special to find a man and women in a friendship where there is no lust and then if they want to get married they need to a) find someone and b)don't let go of there friend
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not sure if thts right t... (read in full...)
Any advice on how to man up and ask her out? She seems out of my league.
Q. Hello, I'm a 15 year old guy, a bit tall, a bit overweight, brown hair, hazel eyes. And, I haven't had a girlfriend. Yeah, it's not a big deal, yeah I've still got a long ways to go, but god is it annoying when I hear some punk go "Hey, how'd your...
A. 27 April 2008: okay people are never "out of your league" unless u let them be. try getting her msn or mobile number getting to know her, and meeting up and see how it goes.
good luck :]
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Feeling insecure about the little scarring on my face...
Q. i have a little scarring on my face and tend to have breakouts now and then. there is a boy who keeps staring at me everytime he sees me and i don't know why. is it because he likes me or does he think i'm ugly?...
A. 19 April 2008: okay i dont think there would be a problem with this, if you are really self conscious i would suggest concealer [not as thick and gloopy as foundation :P]
dont worry about this guy just see how things progress... (read in full...)
Are these sexual thoughts wrong?
Q. im 15 n ive recently started having serious sexual thoughts about a lad i know. ive never thought like this before n it shocked me a bit. he says he thinks about me in THAT way too - he texts me all the time saying things about sex n like 'imagine ...
A. 19 April 2008: i wouldnt be able to see a problem in this. but make sure he is telling the truth and find out where you stand before anything more happens
sparkii x... (read in full...)
Stuck in the middle so please HELP!!
Q. ok i think im in love with these two really great guys and i need help choosing between them i dont know who i love more one guys new and the other one broke my heart but says hes willing to change what can i do to choose between them ????...
A. 19 April 2008: why not try going out with each for a day see how they are around you and you could decide from there. however without much information like ordinaryrisktaker said we can't do much sorry
personal message with the situation and i may be able to help... (read in full...)
What are the signs that he likes me?
Q. ok so ive known this lad for just over a year now n i REALLY REALLY like him as a friend n recently felt much more for him! my feelings for him are really strong - im wondering if the feelings mutual? i mean, he texts me all the time, talks to me ...
A. 19 April 2008: so im guessing hours are spent on msn and lots of credit used up :] it does sound like he likes you whats he like in school/college. coz usually from that u can tell whether the feelings mutual.
if you want any more help give me an email :]
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SITE NEWS: New feature, "watched questions" list
Q. I've added a new feature that lets you add questions to your "watched questions" page. It's just an easy way to make a list of questions that interest you and that you want to keep track of. It's easy to remove items from the list or clear it. ...
A. 17 April 2008: that sounds really good
nice one Andrew :]... (read in full...)
Poll Question, Please answer: Are you closer to your Mom, or to your Dad?
Q. Hi Guys! This isnt really a romance question, but a relationship one nonetheless, and I would really like as many answers as possible. My boyfriend and I have a differance of opinion on familial relationships. One of us says that boys generall...
A. 15 April 2008: Erm would have to be my dad...me and my mum have a fall out once every two days sometimes everyday :P my dads cool about everything :D
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Guys call me fat - this makes other guys unwilling to make a move.
Q. Guys have mixed opinions on me... I am not fat(as far as i'm concerned!) i'm size 14,but some guys often call me fat. Most of them don't,i'm CURVY.LITTERALY ..But the few guys that call me fat make it hard for the guys who tell me they like me to ...
A. 14 April 2008: okay..one thing the average size is a 16...you are not fat! and the curves...well everybody has curves use them to your advantage. ignore the people who are making critscims [spelt wrong i guess :P] there either jealous of what you've got or jealous ... (read in full...)
I'm scared i'll mess up, I really need this degree!!
Q. I know this has got nothing to do with love, but i wanted to ask some advice please. I am in my final year of my degree and really want to get a 2.1 which is a good pass. However, I have this fear that I am going to fail or not get a good mark! M...
A. 14 April 2008: And I'm sure I answered this one too...something along the lines of make a timetable relax and try not to worry too much because it will muck up your exam....
hmmmm... (read in full...)
Not sure if I should go to the prom or not, because her 'fling' may be there.
Q. In a few weeks there's a ball/prom that I may be going to. However, I am worried about going and am having second thoughts. I am meant to be going with my G/F but i have a feeling that this guy she sort of had a fling with is going to be there. ...
A. 14 April 2008: I'm sure I answered this question....
:S
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Can I become an Agony Aunt?
Q. Hey, I'm Chloe, i'm using dear cupid, because i used to love talking to agony aunts, and they always gave good advice when i didn't know who to ask. So i would like to become like that, and help others out from my experience, can i? Chloe x...
A. 12 April 2008: just reply to other peoples questions.
good luck :]
sure u will be awesome at it :]
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Do you only bleed a bit with your first intercourse?
Q. I had first time intercourse last night. We'd prepared well, and relaxed, and did lots of foreplay. We didn't expect too much. At first we fumbled and giggled our way through it!! But we enjoyed ourselves. I did bleed a bit but I expected it ...
A. 12 April 2008: you may get it for a couple of times, or this may be it. depends on your body.
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The guy my partner had a fling with will also be at the ball, I fear this will ruin the enjoyment for me!
Q. In a few weeks theres a ball that I may be going to. However, I am worried aboout going and am having second thoughts. I am meant to be going with my GF bt i have a feeling that this guy she sort of had a fling with is going to be there. I dont know...
A. 12 April 2008: okay, don't worry about your girlfriend becuase if shes silly enough to walk off and go with some other guy then no offence she may not be worth the worry :S.
keep yourself distracted...and is this ball like a prom?
and if she won't tell you..the... (read in full...)
My ex kissed me several times, although he has another GF. How do I stop ceding to this temptation?
Q. Hey Guys (: . Im 15 turning 16 =] Recently I broke up with my boyfriend of 6 months. Our relasionship was nothing serious but I ended it cause it's our GCSE year at school and felt like I needed to concertrate on my studies. Wich i was to...
A. 12 April 2008: you just have to come out with it I guess...just tell him you don't want to hurt his girlfriend or get hurt yourself. but do it when the girlfriend can't listen in. but it needs to be done face to face.
good luck
if you need anything just email :]... (read in full...)
I'm in a panic over my Final Exams!
Q. I know this has got nothing to do with love but i wanted to ask some advice please. I am in my final year of my degree and really want to get a 2.1 which is a good pass. However, I have this fear that I am going to fail or not get a good mark! my ...
A. 12 April 2008: okay...relax...dnt revise tooo much...take time out when you need it...and don't worry becuase that will give you blocks where you just don't get the subject
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Is it ok to kiss a friend on the lips?
Q. Is it ok to kiss a friend on the lips? x...
A. 12 April 2008: female is fine surely...male just be careful that nobody assumes anything :] theres enuf relationship pickles going on in the world as it is lol
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How can I let him down without spoiling our friendship?
Q. A guy keeps in asking me to go out with him, but i really don't want to. It's not like i don't like him, but he's more of a mate, and i don't want to ruin that. How do i let him down gently? ...
A. 12 April 2008: Tell him that your friendship means the world to you however it feels like nothing more just yet. if he is a good friend he will support you and be happy for you whatever you do :]
good luck
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Do guys mind if when you ruffle their hair?
Q. Hi, this may sound a little random but i was just wondering... do guys mind when you ruffle their hair or run your fingers through it? i was just fantasising about doing that to a guy i like today and thought, cos i'm a girl, if someone ruffled my ...
A. 11 April 2008: okay with my boyfriend right now...gotta say he don't mind. its prob personal opinion tho babe
depends on the guy and how vain they are [no offence to guys out there]
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What would you change about your life?
Q. If you were able to change anything about your life, what would you change?...
A. 11 April 2008: i would change how moody i can get...but also make sure that the guy i led on didn't get led on. :D
apart from that its all good...why do you ask sweetie?... (read in full...)
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