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Should I date a guy that doesn't go to college?

Q.   So I'm 20 and I met this really really awesomely nice guy. He's not your typical nice guy: he's a singer in a band, has tattoos and piercings, skateboards and doesn't go to college. But he has a job and works. He's 18. I'm a junior in college trying ...

A.   27 October 2009: thanks everyone for your advice. i really appreciate it!!!!!... (read in full...)

My girlfriend and porn

Q.   My girlfriend looks at porn and it annoys the heck out of me. I don't think it would annoy me if she was more open about it (I.E. watch it with me), but she is very closed minded when it comes to it. I've also noticed when she looks at porn, w...

A.   29 March 2009: Everyone else's ideas are good, but I was wondering if she gets to orgasm after sex with you. Do you give her oral until she comes? Because if you don' might be a hint that she'd like you to. If I had sex with my boyfriend and he would come ... (read in full...)

He's being appropriate with me

Q.   I went on a date with a boy 2 weeks ago and we had a really good time. Afterward, we went back to my room and made out for a little and then he was the one that ended it and said he should go. A few days later, we talked and he told me that he ...

A.   29 March 2009: Thanks so much you guys for the advice. We're stilling hanging out and stuff and he still isn't pressuring for sex. I appreciate it.... (read in full...)

Talking dirty!

Q.   My girlfriend is in a driffent town and we can't see each other so she wants to talk drity on the phone and she wants to talk drity over the computer too so can some one help me with talking dirty? ...

A.   29 March 2009: talking dirty isn't too difficult. Start off by saying things you want to do to her or things you wish she could do to you. Tell her what you like about her body. If she has a hot ass, tell her. It's pretty easy once you get into it. Have fun!... (read in full...)

Why would a guy ask a girl to call him?

Q.   Why would a guy ask a girl to call him? Ok so i am seeing this guy and whenever he calls me before he gets off the phone (if at night) he will say "call me tomorrow". When i call him all i say is I'll talk to you tomorrow - pretty much meaning eith...

A.   16 March 2009: Hmm, well, maybe he doesn't know when you will be available to talk and instead of calling you at an inconvenient time, he'd prefer that you call him and talk to him. He could also be a shy guy and is trying to see if you like him. If he calls you, ... (read in full...)

How do I tell the father that I'm pregnant?

Q.   I'm 18 and definitely pregnant. my mom and dad knows but the father doesn't know. how do i tell him also i used a condom but I'm sitting here pregnant?...

A.   14 March 2009: This is one of those things that you just have to tell him. It's not your fault or his fault and you shouldn't be afraid to tell him. Together you guys need to decide what to do about it. I really wish you luck with everything.... (read in full...)

Is it just flirting or something more?

Q.   I'm 19, going to be 20 in two weeks. I go to school 7 hours from here but my family lives here and I come home and work during breaks and such. I work at an insurance company. Basically, we have a lawyer who just turned 37 a few days ago who works ...

A.   18 December 2008: thanks so much for the advice!!! i'll give it my best shot these next two weeks and see how it goes. annd, i'll be sure to keep you all posted on what happens! =D... (read in full...)

My life is finished and I don't know what to do...

Q.   This is my first question cuz I just signed up... sorry if this is long. My gf and I met when I was 17 an she was 16 we started dating and we both were always excited to see each other an plan days ahead. We didn't go to the same schools and we ...

A.   2 November 2008: I think it's a little late for her to want to date other guys have a child together and your main concerns should be the health and happiness of that child. Try to explain that to her. Buy her an engagement ring and be the mature man ... (read in full...)

I am having an affair with someone who is in a relationship!

Q.   I have been having an affair with a guy from school. he has been in a relationship with his girlfriend for about a year. we have not had sex, including oral sex, but we have been messing around and spending nights together. this has been going on ...

A.   30 October 2008: Personally, I would never do what you are doing because I am someone in a committed relationship but I do worry about girls like you. My question to you is, do you really think he wouldn't do the same thing to you if he were in a relationship with ... (read in full...)

My husband of 8 years cheated before we got married and NOW he tells me.

Q.   My husband of 8 years just told me about having sex with another girl about 2 years before we got married. I was immediately tooken back when he told me this last night. I mean, why now? Why didn't he tell me then? I tell you why, because I would've ...

A.   30 October 2008: I'm terribly sorry about all of this. It is hard to tell you exactly what to do but I will begin by saying that it is ok if you feel hurt by his actions. However, it happened 8 years ago, so he is not the same person he was back then. But it makes ... (read in full...)

Suddenly she wants to use condoms... is she cheating?

Q.   i think my girlfriend is cheating on me. we have been going out for just over 3 months and because she is on the pill, we dont use condoms. however, over the last couple of weeks, she has insisted that we use condoms. we are at different univer...

A.   30 October 2008: I agree, she might have had a friend who just got pregnant. That's enough to scare anyone. Maybe she thinks you're cheating and would rather use a condom. I say talk to her and trust her. You never know what she might be thinking. I hope everything ... (read in full...)

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