Dating a married man. I just want him to be with me
Q. hello, i dont want any hurtful or rude comments, iam writing to everyone here because i think this is a site for evryone to write about their problems and feeling's. Well, iam seeing a married man. i have been seeing him for 2 1/2 years now. i got ...
A. 20 July 2009: glad thigns have worked out for the best i know right now you wish they were different but trouble is i would of never been different because he wouldnt leave her and he wouldnt be with you. but now your going your way the only person who can make ... (read in full...)
Whats going on with my best friend?
Q. *Parker* and i have known each other for 7 years. We met at college. At first there was nothing besides friends (i was 17 n he was 14). We formed a close friendship I was the only person he ever confided in (this never really changed). About 6 ...
A. 12 July 2009: perhaps. we all are given a choice of paths to walk and he chose to turn his back on you. and you have a choice to do the same or make it work. in the end all we can do is choose and hope its the right path that we have taken. im sorry it hasnt gone ... (read in full...)
Whats going on with my best friend?
Q. *Parker* and i have known each other for 7 years. We met at college. At first there was nothing besides friends (i was 17 n he was 14). We formed a close friendship I was the only person he ever confided in (this never really changed). About 6 ...
A. 11 July 2009: no problem just be strong and do things that make you happy in life and focus on making a better life for yourself and everything else should fall into place. goodl uck hun aphex xx... (read in full...)
Are blow jobs now an expected part of making out?
Q. I read recently that kids as young as 11 and 12 no longer "make out" by just kissing, hugging and caressing, but that many boys also expect their girlfriends to give them blow jobs. In other words, oral sex among the young is getting to be pretty ...
A. 10 July 2009: i agree with black betty i knew of it but it was what adults did. so its really makes me sad to think that children these days are getting their innocence taken by doing these things to early. x... (read in full...)
Is better communication the key? Even though he cheated on his wife with me?
Q. Hello. I have been living with my boyfriend about 4 months now. We've known each other for 8 years. we met while he was married, started a relationship then, but we ended it after a year when we realized it was not right and he would not leave ...
A. 7 July 2009: Well you nailed the worst part of it you shouldnt of been sleeping with him whilst he had a wife you should of just walked away, but you took a different path that has leaded in the middle neither good nor bad. of course your gonna think he will do ... (read in full...)
Should this size of a toy cause me pain?
Q. I just recently bought my first d*ldo, and its diameter is 2". Based on all of the ones I looked at, the diameter was on the low-average end, with the smallest one's being 1.75" and others going 3" or larger. I figured that the 2" would be just ...
A. 6 July 2009: no it shouldnt cause you great discomfort. perhaps buy a smaller one and see how you feel the difference i know so many people buying dildos thinking that they will be the right size or fit but one size does not fit all. some of us are bigger or ... (read in full...)
Does true love really exist?
Q. Maybe this is a stupid question: but I really want to know. Does true love REALLY exist? Can people really love each other FOREVER? Can two people really accept each other and love each other in EQUAL balance- meaning 1 not love the other more or ...
A. 5 July 2009: i feel the same sometimes, like my faith in what i believe is wavering and im trying to get to grips with why im wavering in the first place!
my grandad was married to my wonderful grandma they loved each other so much they were perfect until sh... (read in full...)
She lied about where she was, should I dump her?
Q. me and my gf havent talked to eachother in a coupl of weeks, and she says shes at cheerleading camp. yet a friend saw her yesterday in town.should i still date her, or should i dump her?...
A. 5 July 2009: i really think you should speak to your gf first and ask her why a friend saw her in town and not at camp. perhaps she has a good reason or perhaps shes a liar but ask her first communication is the key in a relationship. good luck aphex... (read in full...)
My girlfriend accused me of cheating but I've never done it. How do I convince her of that?
Q. I have been seeing a woman for about 4 months. Things were casual at first but heated up quickly. My emotions took over and I started to fall for her. She didn't express very strong emotions for me, so after much consideration, I ended things for ...
A. 3 July 2009: shes either got to understand that your not cheating or you are. and if she thinks your cheating then its over. if their is no trust it doesnt work its a hard lesson to learn and get over but their is only so much people can take of being called a ... (read in full...)
Relationship worries! Am I insecure?
Q. Hello again, well whilst writing my previous question, i began to think, am i insecure? paranoid? scared?? i was wondering if any of you might be able to lend a hand with this, you see, in short, if i get a girlfriend (like i have now) i feel like ...
A. 2 July 2009: glad things are better for you thanks for the update. at a young age we have alot of dramatic omg im gonna die if you leave me so forth but with time and age we learn from our experiences and move forward and try not to make the same mistakes so ... (read in full...)
I fell in love with a guy who is my long lost brother and I had no idea about it! Please help!
Q. you might think this is a bit weird but i feel so down! about 14 months ago i was in a nighclub with my girl friends, we had a really good night, and i pulled lol, i met this really funny, drop dead gorgeous guy! and we got on really well. we went ...
A. 28 June 2009: i seen something similiar before and luckily for you she was going to marry him a couples of months later she just invited her mum round to sort out some wedding plans and thats when she found out it was her brother. she said she couldnt comprehend ... (read in full...)
Do long distance relationships survive?
Q. Do you think long distance relationships will survive? I have a boyfriend and our love is strong and all but we live acrosss the country from each other. Do you think our relationship will survive? All answers will be helpful...
A. 24 June 2009: if someone says it will work out youll be fine they will be lying the only thing that will tell you the answer you seek is time. your qauvering right now and your looking for reassurance but no one can give you that but you and your partner. with ... (read in full...)
Do long distance relationships survive?
Q. Do you think long distance relationships will survive? I have a boyfriend and our love is strong and all but we live acrosss the country from each other. Do you think our relationship will survive? All answers will be helpful...
A. 23 June 2009: not all long distance survive some do and most dont. i think its down to it being such hard work and not to mention how emotional it can get their are alot of factors against long distance and its not for everyone some can take it whilst others ... (read in full...)
How can I leave him after 23 years? Hes making my life hell!
Q. I am in a realtionship for 23 years, we have a 15 year old daughter. We are not married, that is not the issue. The issue is, we get no respect, I am constantly getting yelled at like I am a verbal punching bag by both my daughter and her dad, ( ...
A. 14 June 2009: Life is what we make it. by the choices we choose and the paths we walk. i think you walked down a path that suit the deck but with time all that was good dwindled down and now your seeing the path you choose for what it is and is now sick of seeing ... (read in full...)
Does the condom fully protect her?
Q. If I cum inside my girlfriend while I'm wearing a condom, does any semen leak into her vagina? Because I'm really just cumming into the condom but I don't know if it like overflowed or something. Thanks....
A. 12 June 2009: condoms can be safe against pregnancy and diseases. but the percent is not 100% safe. to be safer than sorry also use the pill or some contraception etc. unless the condom breaks she should not get pregnant but to lower the risk as i said she should ... (read in full...)
She has cheated on me several times, yet I am unsure if I should leave or not
Q. Dear Aunties, My girlfriend of 7 months and I had a good day today, we had sex 3 times, and then she goes home. About a few minutes ago, We started fighting because of the past. She has cheated on me 4 times, and 3 times it was nothing more then a k...
A. 11 June 2009: Anyone who cheats will think the other will do it to them kind of like their gonna get their compuance. if she doesnt trust you thats her problem plus she has no right to judge since it was her who did wrong. if their is no trust their is no ... (read in full...)
Why does my stomach hurt after first time sex?
Q. Okay, so i had sex for the first time yesterday. It was great and all and it didnt hurt when we did, but later on that day and today my stomach started hurting. Im just wondering if thats normal, since it was my fist time....
A. 10 June 2009: ok one thing i hope you used a condom or the pill otherwise guess what you could be pregnant. aphex
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Still having one, but lighter and lighter..
Q. i had unprotected sex (stupidley) on the 13th march, i have had a period every months since then but its been lighter than usual this week it only last for 2 days usually it would be 3 or 4 is it possible that i can be pregnant?? ...
A. 9 June 2009: if you want to be sure then you would have to go to the gps and get a test their as well as a blood test. but if your confident with those tests then you should be fine. but were not doctors so thats your best bet good luck aphex xx... (read in full...)
Dating a married man. I just want him to be with me
Q. hello, i dont want any hurtful or rude comments, iam writing to everyone here because i think this is a site for evryone to write about their problems and feeling's. Well, iam seeing a married man. i have been seeing him for 2 1/2 years now. i got ...
A. 8 June 2009: well we could say various things and if its not what you want to hear then it could be hurtful but the thing is no one is trying to be hurtful on here just being honest about how they feel and what they would do so just be openminded to what they ... (read in full...)
No time for sex with me as he studies too hard!
Q. Me and my bf are in a relationship 7 months now. He loves me an all but he is really into studying and i hate it! He never has time for me! but its ok... i try to handle it. i tell him sometimes that he should relax a little, but it's no use... but ...
A. 8 June 2009: Look i dont know about you but in this world now adays unless you study hard you dont get the grades and you dont get a good job its hard to get a good job on grades alone without having the on hands expierence. if he is happy then leave him alone ... (read in full...)
I want my cake and to eat it, please help!
Q. i have an amazing boyfriend who i feel like without him i wouldnt be able to live. But , im bisexual and only one person in the whole world knows that, my ex girlfriend. When we broke up we promised to be best friends still, but she still has feel...
A. 7 June 2009: well you want the best of both worlds so the mod prob thought you want your cake and to eat it who knows. the thing is you ddnt tell your bf your bi so if you wanted to do anything you cant or you would be a cheater you either stay with him or leave ... (read in full...)
Can't stop thinking about my teacher, but he's leaving
Q. Hi, i'm sixteen and as many people have said on this website, I am in love with my teacher. Well, former teacher now, he's going away to become principal at another school...which of course,tears into my heart everytime i say that, or hear it. I ...
A. 7 June 2009: i think its the best thing to happen him moving away you say you see it all the time i am in love with my teacher and its sicken me that some kids your age think it will work and life will go on but it wont the teacher will go to jail and will not ... (read in full...)
Faking orgasms...how can I fix this?
Q. Okay, I've made a mistake. I know that part, I just need to know how to fix it: When my boyfriend and I got together, I held out for a long time as far as doing anything sexually. Though we're not having sex yet, we do everything else. The first ...
A. 7 June 2009: old guys right if you confess it wont do any good. best bet is to guide him on what does work. just tell him that you want to try new things when it comes to that to get an ultimate orgasm and that you would like to lead him to were better bits are ... (read in full...)
In a 3 year relationship, with a man who is disrespectful, controlling and cruel in ways, why do I still want to be with him?
Q. I need some advice on my relationship itr my first proper one so i havent really got anything to compare it too. I see my boyfriend 2-3 times a wk. After 3 yrs! We dont live in the same town but only 30 mins away! Its his attitude towards me and ...
A. 7 June 2009: bring your head above the c louds and get rid of that looser you will feel better as a person and as a woman good luck aphex ... (read in full...)
My fiancee brings up my past and is mentally abusive, what should I do?
Q. hi andrew, i live with my fiancee and its been two months that we have been living together but we have known each other for a year now. but there is this problem that we got when i do something wrong or a mistake he agravates it and start br...
A. 6 June 2009: leave him and never speak to him again you are worth more this man will never change he is obviously dominant and will continue to do this. the past is the past and if he cant keep it their then thats his fault and for being angry and brutal dont ... (read in full...)
In a 3 year relationship, with a man who is disrespectful, controlling and cruel in ways, why do I still want to be with him?
Q. I need some advice on my relationship itr my first proper one so i havent really got anything to compare it too. I see my boyfriend 2-3 times a wk. After 3 yrs! We dont live in the same town but only 30 mins away! Its his attitude towards me and ...
A. 6 June 2009: i had the same sort of things and i tell you after dumping that jerk i feel so much better i feel alive again. you can do so much better than this this man is an ass. leave him and with time you wont miss him and when you get your freedom back you ... (read in full...)
Are we over because I had sex with ex?
Q. I went to a party with my girlfriend. She's new at my school (she has trouble making friends) and we been to together 3 months now. She kept clinging to me (she doesn`t really know anyone at the party besides me) she would`t let me 4 secords to ...
A. 6 June 2009: of course your over and if she has any good sense she will never speak to you again. you cheated on the poor girl whilst she was near by and what shes suposed to be ok with that im sorry if this isnt what you want to hear but you commited a cardinal ... (read in full...)
Can a guy ever be just friends with a girl?
Q. Is it possible for a guy to be best friends with a girl and never get feelings for her?...
A. 6 June 2009: yes in many situations i have plenty of male friends who are just that they all love me but in the way a friend should andn ot beyond that. but some people cant help but falling in love its fate. hope that helps aphex... (read in full...)
We started a fire and want to pay back the damage annonymously
Q. ok so we kinda started a fire. Basicaly we were filming a short movie and ,well lets put it this way. Dont use homemade pyrotecnics. We destroyed £80s worth of corn. How do we pay back the farmer while remaining anonymous?...
A. 6 June 2009: best to be honest my friend tell the farmer what you were doing and that you are sorry and you want to pay him back and you regret what you did.other than that send it to his house with a note saying payment regarding burnt corn. good luck aphex... (read in full...)
Do I have to take the pill at exactly the same time every day?
Q. I've been on birth control pills for the past 2 months and for the first couple weeks, I was doing good about taking them at the same exact time every day, at 4pm. But, the past few weeks or so, I've taken them around the same time between 4-5 but ...
A. 5 June 2009: around the same time is ok as long as its not 10am then taking it at 4 pm try keep it about 3 - 6 as that is how its ment to be taken regular. read the instructions it should give you some more advice on the product that you take good luck aphex xx... (read in full...)
Still having one, but lighter and lighter..
Q. i had unprotected sex (stupidley) on the 13th march, i have had a period every months since then but its been lighter than usual this week it only last for 2 days usually it would be 3 or 4 is it possible that i can be pregnant?? ...
A. 4 June 2009: erm yes no pill no condom equals baby unless your lucky go to the local family planning clinic or gp or buy a pregnancie test and make sure your checked out. good luck aphex xx... (read in full...)
Have had two abortions and I used to smoke weed, can I still get pregnant?
Q. I am 21 and my boyfriend is 30. I have had two abortins in my life I use to smoke weed but I have stop now. My boyfiend still smokes weed we have been trying to have a baby for about 8 months now. It is getting realy stressful he wants to go an...
A. 4 June 2009: why do you think your ready for a baby now and you werent then. to be honest you shouldnt have a child in a life were someone is dependant on drugs. you both need to be alert and give a child what it deserves, are you prepared finacially ? what ... (read in full...)
I gave a friend a place to stay, and she had a fline with my crush
Q. Hello. I was hoping to get some advice about a love problem I have. I had a fling with a guy from work which lasted about a month. He then said he did not want to continue, which upset me because I really fell for him and in fact I am in love ...
A. 3 June 2009: you know what i think is hilarious about this is she did to you what you did to his wife so in reality the boot is on the other foot now isnt it. it is never a good thing to sleep with someone who is married no matter what they say unless they are ... (read in full...)
Should I have stayed out of it?
Q. Hey, I was trying to lookout for this girl friend of mine, Jess. She's been going out with a guy friend of mine and they've been good friends of mine. The guy was my friend first but as I had problems with my significant other, the girl helped m...
A. 3 June 2009: i would say good riddance. hes not a very good friend for having you in the middle of this what were you supposed to lie to her ? to save his ass for his mistakes ? i dont think so, she obviously has shown more friendship which is why you decided to ... (read in full...)
Did I lose my virginity or not? How do I explain this to my new boyfriend?
Q. I'm 19 years old and I'm afraid I might have lost my virginity. I was dating this guy and I desided that I wanted to lose my virginity on him but when we were busy withe 4 play, he inserted his tip of the penis but it didn't reach the hymen and I ...
A. 3 June 2009: the penis has not penetrated your vagina so their for your still a virgin the penis must be fully inserted to break the hymen which on the first try is normally slightly painful and you could bleed a little so i would say you are a virgin and ... (read in full...)
Any risks for me to be pregnant?
Q. Hi.!i've posted this question before but didnt got many responses .so i'm posting this question with the expectations that i'll get more responses.its a big problem to be sorted out.few days before i had sex (unprotected)with my boyfriend few days ...
A. 3 June 2009: when your next period is due go get a pregnancy test. people on here can not give you a definition on if you are or arnt the best way is to get a test or see your gp. start goingo n the pill or use condoms either way. good luck aphex... (read in full...)
Could be pregnant but can't afford a test
Q. I had sex with this boy two weeks ago and the condom was to big so the week after i had sex with a differant boy without protection he said he would stop before he came (i dont no wether he did) and this week i have had unprotected sex with a ...
A. 2 June 2009: and to be honest i did not come on ear to get judged so will people stop leaving hertful comments thanks. people are only telling you the truth it only hurts because you know you shouldnt of being doing it. were not judging you just telling you how ... (read in full...)
Why so dry?
Q. Just a quick question my gf and I had sex earlier that day at about 3 o'clock - 5 o'clock We then went out later that night got home got frisky and went down on here but It just wouldnt go in she was so dry which is the 1st time this happend, co...
A. 1 June 2009: it doesnt matter what country you come from you can be as tight as anything or loose just depends and theirs nothing wrong with it. just do more foreplay and that should help the problem otherwise use some durex lubricant their are many varietys ... (read in full...)
Why so dry?
Q. Just a quick question my gf and I had sex earlier that day at about 3 o'clock - 5 o'clock We then went out later that night got home got frisky and went down on here but It just wouldnt go in she was so dry which is the 1st time this happend, co...
A. 1 June 2009: sometime you have to do alot of foreplay before she will get lubricated its nothing to do with either of you so dont worry just use plenty of foreplay before having sex sometimes we can be lubricate before foreplay and sometimes we need that extra ... (read in full...)
Any tips to master this position?
Q. my boyfriend and i started having sex about six months ago. it wasnt a regular occurence, it was maybe once a month or so. now it has become quite regular, maybe once a week and i feel very self conscious. i am a petite girl and i know that he ...
A. 1 June 2009: here is a website for you will lots of positions and feed back from others whom have tried it and will give you more tips on how to do it more successfully. http://www.sexinfo101.com/sp_index.shtml hope this helps aphex xx... (read in full...)
I am a guy, little blonde hairs on my belly make me uncomfortable at the pool, what should I do?
Q. Okay so im 15 and i have little blonde hairs on my belly. Like where guys have there happy trails and i use to not care but they are becoming to where you can see them bad (well to me) So does anyone else have this problem or know what to do. Please ...
A. 1 June 2009: well you could try facial dye it can be used in certain areas to soften the colour of hairs ie make them lighter so you dont see them. the other option is to wax or get electrolsis. what ever you do dont shave they will only grow back twice as thick ... (read in full...)
I thought things were good but now I'm not sure what is going on
Q. I recently met this lady through 'facebook' and we started to meet each other and on the third occasion we decided that she came back to my place. She was so keen on me and kept putting herself down and said I could do better than her, but there wa...
A. 1 June 2009: if you really care for her or want her then text her. ask how she is and if shes ok and that you miss your chats and wish things ddnt end the way they did and you wish it hadnt ended. be honest and hopefully it shall pay off. what have you to loose ... (read in full...)
Why don't underage kids respect the boundaries that are put in place to protect them?
Q. just something thats bothering me. There are so many girls from the age of 10 - 16 having under age sex and not knowing a single thing about it then going oops could i be pregnant. its really depressing because when i was little i was content as a ...
A. 1 June 2009: Not all teens are dumb im 13 i use condoms.I have sex cos its fun and i love it.Im not one of those kids who copys others i do what i want to do cos im me so dont blame others its the kids who are stupid for trying to be "cool" -- its illegal and if ... (read in full...)
Why don't underage kids respect the boundaries that are put in place to protect them?
Q. just something thats bothering me. There are so many girls from the age of 10 - 16 having under age sex and not knowing a single thing about it then going oops could i be pregnant. its really depressing because when i was little i was content as a ...
A. 31 May 2009: thanks for all your replys mostly older sister their are alot of factors i agree with you on. but i feel the more shameful thing is if a kids asked whose the father they go i dont know well i slept with 7 guys this month sooooooooo. they dont even ... (read in full...)
Whats going on with my best friend?
Q. *Parker* and i have known each other for 7 years. We met at college. At first there was nothing besides friends (i was 17 n he was 14). We formed a close friendship I was the only person he ever confided in (this never really changed). About 6 ...
A. 29 May 2009: well you seem to farely have a good game plan going i guess now you just have to let fate and time decide whats going to happen. your a strong person you will get through this but at the moment try and focus on yourself as their isnt much said about ... (read in full...)
Whats going on with my best friend?
Q. *Parker* and i have known each other for 7 years. We met at college. At first there was nothing besides friends (i was 17 n he was 14). We formed a close friendship I was the only person he ever confided in (this never really changed). About 6 ...
A. 28 May 2009: Omg you have had such a hard ride with life and it seems its taking another turn. i think you should go over and talk to his mum and him. you have come so far and as you said *I REALY love this man and there is nothing he could have that would make ... (read in full...)
Whats going on with my best friend?
Q. *Parker* and i have known each other for 7 years. We met at college. At first there was nothing besides friends (i was 17 n he was 14). We formed a close friendship I was the only person he ever confided in (this never really changed). About 6 ...
A. 28 May 2009: Omg you have had such a hard ride with life and it seems its taking another turn. i think you should go over and talk to his mum and him. you have come so far and as you said *I REALY love this man and there is nothing he could have that would make ... (read in full...)
Relationship worries! Am I insecure?
Q. Hello again, well whilst writing my previous question, i began to think, am i insecure? paranoid? scared?? i was wondering if any of you might be able to lend a hand with this, you see, in short, if i get a girlfriend (like i have now) i feel like ...
A. 25 May 2009: your syndrome wont be helping the situation. if you keep making her feel this way from your insecurities then she may leave you because you will push her too far you need to let her have her space. if she is going to cheat i hope you find out other ... (read in full...)
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