Friendship ruined by teasing
Q. he is my best friend from last two years.our friendship started in college. we used to chat daily on phones . but our classmates and my friends always take our friendship in wrong way and they tease me all time that he is my bf.I never like their ...
A. 22 May 2012: Oh, and the more the teasers see they get to you, the more they will tease. I know it can be difficult, but laugh and walk away when next they start. ... (read in full...)
Friendship ruined by teasing
Q. he is my best friend from last two years.our friendship started in college. we used to chat daily on phones . but our classmates and my friends always take our friendship in wrong way and they tease me all time that he is my bf.I never like their ...
A. 22 May 2012: I know it is a massive pain when people incessantly tease you.
Perhaps you should apologise to your best friend for letting the teasers get in the way of the friendship, and tell him it will not happen again. If he comes back, ignore the teas... (read in full...)
My boyfriend lied about his online female friend, so I blocked her on his account!
Q. Hey guys im kinda in a tough postion sorry for it being long. Iv been with my bf for a year and i found out by our mutual friend a couple months ago that my bf was sexting another girl. I gave him another chance but told him he better delete and ...
A. 22 May 2012: Do not waste your youth on this man; find someone you do not fell the need to constantly check up on. ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend watches LIVE porn. How do I deal with this?
Q. Hello, I have just found out that my boyfriend watches porn. I have had a look on this site and at some porn related questions, and some people say it's fine and all men do it, and some people say they should stop in a relationship. My problem i...
A. 22 May 2012: This is very close to cheating, if not cheating. I say that anything with interaction is crossing the line. ... (read in full...)
Is Pornography cheating?
Q. The age old question on this site seems to be "is pornography use cheating?" My response to that first depends on how you define cheating. A relationship is basically a sexual contract, an agreement between two (sometimes more) people. These people ...
A. 7 May 2012: It is not cheating, per se, however it causes the contrast effect. ... (read in full...)
Guys, you know porn is fake, right?
Q. Okay, so this is another porn question. I know I know, this seems to be a rather popular topic But I am straight up just curious. Obviously a lot of men like porn and a lot of women as well. This is a question for men, both single and in a ...
A. 25 April 2012: Funny, no one denies the impact of adverts, and of brand names in movies; there are Heart Of The Ocean necklaces, Rolexes in the James Bond films, cars in Transformers, etc.
Porn can work on the same principle-see it, want it. People(m... (read in full...)
Should I move on with my feelings and sex drive?
Q. I have been in a relationship for a year. We are pretty good/happy together but it worries me that he never tells me he loves me he only said it twice that i can remember...but everytime i tell him i love him he replies by saying "i know" :( when we ...
A. 25 April 2012: Try to be less available to him; start being too busy to hang out sometimes.
You could also try asking him straight out about his feelings for you, in a calm manner.
The thing about his asking where your off button is bothers me. If he can't ... (read in full...)
He gets defensive when I mention his changed behaviour
Q. hi my partner is been slightly distant with me, its only been recent. but he hass his phone 24/7, when he has no credit he is fine, but when he does have credit he takes his phone everywhere and takes forever in the toilet. he cant get on the ...
A. 15 April 2012: Is his behaviour normal? Is that what you are asking?
I realise you are confused, and a million things are going through your head right now. On top of that, you are hormonal due to pregnancy.
It bothers me that this behaviour starte... (read in full...)
Are there any men they do not use pornography in a relationship?
Q. Are there any men here who don't use pornography in a relationship? I would absolutely love knowing they weren't looking at anyone else. I don't even know why they still do it and thinks it's normal to still look when they are getting sex. Men want ...
A. 13 April 2012: I agree 100% with Person12345. Nowt harmless about porn; it is dehumanising, and desensitises people to violence. I also agree it is harmful to body image. I'm tired of people putting down those who wish not to be around porn.
Porn was a major co... (read in full...)
Are women losing their skills in "traditional" roles?
Q. Are women losing skills in roles they traditionally did like cooking and housekeeping? If so, what skills are they gaining instead? Let me first say that I love my wife, but I was shocked at how little she is able to do. She is an excellent ...
A. 12 April 2012: I do not have many 'traditional' female skills, however I do have many traditional 'male' skills. I hate cooking, dishes, folding clothes, ect., but I mow, fix things, fix the car, program/install electronics, handyman stuff, things like that. I was ... (read in full...)
Is it ok to flirt with someone so young whilst doing business? Or am I just jealous?
Q. I was on my partners computer tonight sending email for him on his instructions as he is away when a message came up saying Sally was wanting to talk. I clicked on link and I saw there were messages dating back a few weeks. I was surprised by what I ...
A. 12 April 2012: Put the shoe on the other foot, and think what his reaction would be if the situation were reversed. I doubt he would say it's OK cos you are a flirty person.
I do not believe in excusing hurtful behaviour cos someone is a 'flirt'. No telling ... (read in full...)
My Husband Seems to Prioritise Cats Over Baby Daughter
Q. My husband and I have a 3mo old daughter. The other day I mentioned it was time to start thinking of what methods we needed to use to childproof the house in the near future. I said I would like to move all the cats' litter boxes upstairs cos if B...
A. 10 April 2012: You are right, Shadow Rose, I do need to have a sit down with him on this matter again. Yes, the cats will adjust again :) I would love to spend a couple of nights with my husband at an inne, so we can talk away from the cats; when they are around ... (read in full...)
My Husband Seems to Prioritise Cats Over Baby Daughter
Q. My husband and I have a 3mo old daughter. The other day I mentioned it was time to start thinking of what methods we needed to use to childproof the house in the near future. I said I would like to move all the cats' litter boxes upstairs cos if B...
A. 10 April 2012: Never mind, I've had it with irrational animal people who think pets can do no wrong.
Thank you for the bit of understanding, So_Very_Confused; upon first moving here, I asked him to put the boxes in the extra bathroom, and he refused. They wer... (read in full...)
My Husband Seems to Prioritise Cats Over Baby Daughter
Q. My husband and I have a 3mo old daughter. The other day I mentioned it was time to start thinking of what methods we needed to use to childproof the house in the near future. I said I would like to move all the cats' litter boxes upstairs cos if B...
A. 9 April 2012: I am truly tiring of this being blamed on perceptions. Had my husband been bleeding from an injury from a scratch, I'd be a sight more sympathetic than he was. The cats will get used to moved boxes; they have adjusted before. We very recently mo... (read in full...)
My Husband Seems to Prioritise Cats Over Baby Daughter
Q. My husband and I have a 3mo old daughter. The other day I mentioned it was time to start thinking of what methods we needed to use to childproof the house in the near future. I said I would like to move all the cats' litter boxes upstairs cos if B...
A. 9 April 2012: I realised when I wrote this, that there would be the thought of my projecting the past into the present. I have endeavoured to be as factual as possible in the telling of this situation; I do not see how his reaction to my being scratched, for ... (read in full...)
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