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should i do anal

narnipie, posted over a year ago

my husband wants to do me up the back passage but im a frontal only girl, he says that it doesnt hurt and that it will make me cum faster, i know this question is a bit forward but he really wants to do it and im really scared, he wont force me but i want to pleasure him, what should i do, signed lilly breenly

Posted on 18 April 2006 @ 6:4 (London time) - permalink
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chachacha, posted over a year ago

Well, has he ever put a little finger up your back passage? It is much smaller (hopefully) that his thingy, and is a good place to start. That way, you can decide whether you like it or not.

You should not be pressured in any way to do something that you feel uncomfortable about. And if you don't want to do it, that's just fine.

Posted on 18 April 2006 @ 19:56 (London time) - permalink
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lildani14, posted over a year ago

if u really want to then u should its really up to u if u want it up the exit

Posted on 19 April 2006 @ 13:34 (London time) - permalink
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willywombat, posted over a year ago

nairnipie you are twelve arent you? Husband???

Posted on 22 April 2006 @ 21:59 (London time) - permalink
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lc, posted over a year ago

i was like u when first dating my hubby and he finally convinced me that he really thoght my ass was greaat. i am 5ft 11 and my ass took his 9and a half perfectly. i now ask him several times a week.

Posted on 3 August 2006 @ 2:27 (London time) - permalink
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lc, posted over a year ago

lc again but since my sister is here visiting she wantedyou to know that her husband kept asking her too and only tried it recently with lots of ky jelly. loved it.

Posted on 3 August 2006 @ 2:41 (London time) - permalink
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sanal, posted over a year ago

do it without a doubt!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

it is an incredible feeling!!!!!!!!!!

Posted on 15 August 2006 @ 18:55 (London time) - permalink
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gerryaston, posted over a year ago

Go for it and take it nice and slow. You will never look back.

Posted on 16 August 2006 @ 12:48 (London time) - permalink
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, posted over a year ago

This thread is great.

Posted on 21 August 2006 @ 23:4 (London time) - permalink
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Yos, posted over a year ago

Why would you want to cum faster? Coming bigger, louder, or longer is good. Faster? not sure that's better

Posted on 22 August 2006 @ 11:24 (London time) - permalink
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Nikita, posted over a year ago

Not sure if it makes you cum faster but you do walk like john wayne for a few days after

Posted on 7 December 2006 @ 19:42 (London time) - permalink
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mona-lisa-cries, posted over a year ago

alot of people dont know this but acctually anal sex is very bad for you!

it can affect your health, because the muscles arent suppost to deal with soming going up, i know this sounds very ... weird but if the muscles get damaged ... to put it nicly you leak...the only way to fix this is with sugury...this really is not a good idea

Posted on 1 November 2007 @ 20:11 (London time) - permalink
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Anon. 01, posted over a year ago

no it isnt, hygiene is important, and anal to vaginal/oral is a no-no due to the range of bacteria in the rectum that are fine there but would potentially be harmful elswhere.

with plenmty of lubricant it should be fine, but start ith small things like a finger and move up. make sure your body is relaxed and you are comfortable and it should be fine. it can take a few goes before it feels ok/good, but it'll work out fine. obv. having it everyday shall be bad in the long -run btu onyl a few times a week should be fine.

Posted on 24 January 2008 @ 20:4 (London time) - permalink
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ellen14621, posted over a year ago

dont do it I did it and my wife had lots of pain that lasted for a few weeks. that is not the place for intercourse

Posted on 30 January 2008 @ 18:29 (London time) - permalink
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fishiguy, posted over a year ago

I don't agree with anal sex. I have personally tried with many girls in my younger days out of curiosity and all said that it is painful.....maybe mine is too thick or theirs are too small.

I also tried lubricating my finger and insert...and they said it is orgasmic...but never orgasm (maybe because is it is an untouched passage) and the after-effect is sore and burning pain when the motion pass through that passage. I think part of the tissue there is torn thus bruised and slow/minor bleeding.

Further to that, the muscle is also affected in long term and can lead to bowel incontinence.

I believe....leave that hole alone.....make the best use of the vagina and ensure female orgasm through sexual incourse. That would be the best for her.

Don't believe me? Ask her. The problem with using the anal canal is you are not giving her her orgasms....not enough to satisfy her sexual urge!!!

Posted on 25 February 2008 @ 2:18 (London time) - permalink
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HondaEG8, posted over a year ago

i recently tried it and my gf says its painful and it was an "ok" feeling. but i really enjoyed it. it may not make you cum faster but he sure will. just lube it up a lot. if you do decide to try it realize that it is a new feeling so you may enjoy it n you may not. just try it once. if you like it, good. Just do it on special occasions, and i mean SPECIAL. you dont want to do it that much becuz it may damage something. idk yet. if you dont like it then you dont have to do it again.

Posted on 19 March 2008 @ 8:14 (London time) - permalink
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, posted over a year ago

My husband was very much into anal sex when we got together. I was the total opposite. NO WAY IN HELL. Finally figuring I do want him to be happy I'd try it ONCE! Lots of lube and foreplay with his tougne and fingers is the best way to get your ass ready. It's kinda like losing it the first few times it hurts but feels GOOD and after 6 or 7 your an old pro. Lease painful position for me is to ride him on top. I love to grind down once he's in all the way. But being on top puts the woman ion control of force, how much etc.

GOOD LUCK LADIES!

Posted on 23 March 2008 @ 3:38 (London time) - permalink
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