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My wife masturbates after she thinks I'm asleep...

Many women are capable of the multiple orgasm! Usually my boyfriend falls asleep after his 2nd but I'll still be having my 4th or 5th at that point! It's not that unusual!

Bill Sego26 days ago Another_KapitiAnother_Kapiti
Do You Like Phone Sex?

Trust me your not weird at all.. My partner is overseas and we do it all the time.. His voice his breathing turns me on.. So really its not a werid thing..

dsgsu82 weeks ago fireman41284
Masturbation, is this normal???

There is an old adage: "95% of men do and the other 5% are liars". Not so sure about the school uniform skirts bit. Is there a specfic fantasy or scenario behind it?

james_8824 weeks ago pcplod
Average penis size

You know.... sometimes being big is bad. I learned this the hard way. I lost weight and am now too big down there for my gf to comfortablely do our favorite postion. If you are able to have sex with your parnter and not hurt them and they get off,

Bolts185 weeks ago Pyroshadow
Men: sexual emotions and vagina size

I am actually having a size problem. I am over-weight. I been lossing weight which is good. I noticed some growth in size on my penis, which I though was good. Well it turns out this was bad. I used to be the perferct size for my girlfriend.

h20galh20gal135 weeks ago Pyroshadow
What if women can't have an orgasm without sex toy?

I do what I can but you my friend (phil) are, was, and always will be the come back wizard.

ElectricAmy125 weeks ago q1605q1605
Is porn masterbation okay?

God gave you arms,legs, brain and penise to use. Really folks there is a reason we men have penises other than urinating. Sexual urge is normal and don't make apologies or be embarrased about it. What you do in your own place to resolve those urges

goodday16 weeks ago bugmenot3
what is sex anyway?

Sex= penatration penis/vagina. Oral sex= mouth on genitals. Anal sex= penetration penis/anus.

marriedladymarriedlady27 weeks ago Confuzzled012Confuzzled012
Likelihood of being Pregnant?

No, no, no, That is MUCH too obvious. It has to be more complicated than that!!!!

hollistergirl201068 weeks ago Code WarriorCode Warrior
I feel bad after making out with my boyfriend

Don't worry about it, you did nothing wrong. The fact that you are 24 and still a virgin shows that you are not "easy". He seems like a nice guy to not force anything upon you so just keep doing what you are doing. You haven't messed anything

phase12339 weeks ago jaded1982
pregnant

Precum: A substance that "leaks" from an erect penis prior to ejaculation. This substance contains sperm, which, when combined with a fertile egg, is what get's a woman pregnant. Ejaculation: When a man has been stimulated enough, he will orgasm,

tawanda59 weeks ago CSblah
masterbation

yes, every one does it. but try to include her some times.

redbullraceing510 weeks ago painer
Please help! Anyone

Ok, my girlfriend and I have been together for three wonderful years now. We are getting married in a year and a half. Our sex life has now trickled and grinded to a halt. The only excuse she can give me is that she is tired. Now i'm not even

rickross21110 weeks ago rickross21
Less Of a Man

A lot of women post this same question on the board, where they are bothered by their boyfriend or husband watching porn and masturbating. Most of us tell them that masturbation is natural and most all men do it. Well, it is the same for woman.

snakeiz2414 weeks ago troubledtoomuchtroubledtoomuch
Whats the meaning?

Uh, Satindesire? As with most slang, most words have more than one meaning, so I thought I'd add to your definition of "CUM". Don't get upset, I don't mean this to do that in any way, OK? Cum does mean to have in orgasm whether spoken by a male o

Tinadisturbed415 weeks ago Tropicalman
Pulse X?

I was on a message board and somebody was talking about a new thing called Pulse X or PulseX? some new sex drug? Is this a drug or what exactly is it?

fezyou124 weeks ago fezyou
male masterbation

Geez why is he even with you? Just give him the attention he deserves and the problem will go away. On the other hand use the other hand and the problem will go away. "I saw him doing it" OMG there is no chance of a healthy relationship here. You

loulou281525 weeks ago goodday
Dont know what to do ,

Hi,it's so sad and happy at the same time.what happened has alreadly happened if you drop water you can not pick it up and you need to be happy coz you are waiting for a child,and on the other hand it's so sad coz you were selffish not to of your

catoocatcatoocat226 weeks ago yobe dakayobe daka
anal sex

Yes, they can. But for many heterosexual guys, of course, the big taboo about anal sex is that it is so strongly associated with male homosexual behavior. But a lesser-known fact is that plenty of gay males don't practice anal intercou

matt4dca4526 weeks ago leannaleanna
Sex/fetish addiction

Fetishes are definately something everyone indulges in once in a while. Personally I'm into degrading names during sex, however by no means do I think of myself as a pervert. If your girlfriend is cool with it and it's enjoyable then what the hell,

Dr Saturn227 weeks ago ButterflyxButterflyx
Sex Life of your dreams

The sex life of my dreams is what I am experiencing right now with my lover. It is not abouth the orgasm, because I don't have one everytime, but it is the chemistry that we share when we are in the bed together. It is very powerful and therefore

BillTarr228 weeks ago misswalstonmisswalston
Trouble Turning On

Love Lockdown, sorry, bud..your question is really one for the site 'question' portion. Not here. Why don't you try it there. Go to the home page and click on "ask for help" I am certain you will get some very wise, helpful answers. Just a genera

Love Lockdown228 weeks ago Irish49Irish49
Few Sex Questions Help!

Take her wherever you feel comfortable going to have fun. I like taking girls to the park and pushing them on the swings, but thats just me. Then take her back to your place. As too the grinding thing. Personally I find it hard when bot

lilwayne1987328 weeks ago fortbrian
dirty underwear fetish

hahaha!! - follow your nose - good 'un!! lol

confusedous528 weeks ago fortbrian
Problem with Erection

Viagra is quite severe but there are other products in the same family, I have been using Cialis for 3 yrs and it helps me sustain an erection but it always goes down after i cum but I can easilly get hard again if I want to, do talk to your doctor

jacob klein530 weeks ago staffsguy50
Are you attracted to skinny women?

yes especially small breasts and thighs pm me if still want to talk about it

CHJDANCES330 weeks ago staffsguy50
LDR intimacy volunteers

hi caught this article on the BBC site... a new intimacy remote type product. http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/scotland/highlands_and_islands/8004769.stm looks interesting - they are after a small number of volunteers to try it. - but intere

OtherStarfishOtherStarfish131 weeks ago OtherStarfishOtherStarfish
Threesome advice

I think its true if you g/f agrees you need to have talked about what you both are happy with an what you both are not happy to happen. The wife an I had talked a lot about me watching her with another man, an when it happen to say the least the

allesandromarcello532 weeks ago MrTomMrTom
Sexual Desire

If you feel that strongly about motherhood then go for it - a child will fulfill you way more than a man who refused to give you one could. You stay with him without having kids and you will probably end up hating him, never wanting sex, so you'll

Talon232 weeks ago Kamikazzy
C4, sex ed and pornography

don't know if anyone else caught it but - very good program catching real sex and teaching it compared to porn to a school in the uk. e.g. showing what a selection of women have boobs that are very in size, colour, shape, firmness not just the

OtherStarfishOtherStarfish134 weeks ago OtherStarfishOtherStarfish
My girlfriend!

This is an old post but I just had to chip in. Many men seem to feel revulsion at the idea of tasting their semen, yet they like us girls to suck them off. I have to admit the first time I tasted a man it wasn't the best point on my day, but since

soccerdude28541 weeks ago EmmajaneEmmajane
sexy undies

Have you asked her? Maybe it's a favour for you. Or she fancied having sexy underwear for a change,to feel better, wanted without endagering the relationship. By the way, I hope you've got a couple of things to wear that are hot too. There

maxfactor445 weeks ago geertieman
Any advice may help

it a yea since your post and i tought i should still respond. the issue is i hope you have left this woman. when i read your story it looks exactly like mine in everything. the bust ups, no sex, you should go out, you do more housework, she does not

BramStoker745 weeks ago dog2009
Sex on the Beach

Oups! He should have kept his pants on... Bet his wife ain't happy either..

PeterPanPeterPan247 weeks ago HoneypieHoneypie
Peircings

It depends on the woman! My boyfriend has 2 genital piercings & I have one, & we both enjoy them. Oral sex can be difficult with all that metal banging against your teeth, but that's just when you take them out! It's all a matter of taste, darl

metalangus648 weeks ago BleedingLuvBleedingLuv
Sex on demand!

I agree 100% with Kath. No 3-somes, please. Be GLAD she is so turned on by you. And honestly I think it's ok to say no to sex from time to time. It's called respect. Next time she demands sex give her a deep kiss and tell her to go to the bed

Frushubby548 weeks ago HoneypieHoneypie
No Sex Drive!

Wow. I think personally after 10 years of not having a single orgasm I would be a little "tired" of trying. But never give up. Make a date night. ( if you have kids get a darn sitter or drop them of at your parents/inlaws/someone you trust th

geordielad548 weeks ago HoneypieHoneypie
Why won't she masturbate me?

e-mail her this link and ask her if she is game and that you will return the favor. http://www.whitelotuseast.com/LingamMassage.htm Buy the book "Tickle his Pickle" by Dr. Sadie Allison and leave it someplace for her to find. Have the hand-jo

fitman44448 weeks ago HoneypieHoneypie
Is your husband deployed?

My husband has been deployed 3 times over the last 4 years. Twice to Iraq and once to Afghanistan. Is he military? If so, are you living on post or off? Are you in the FRG? If not, join:) You will most likely meet a LOT of very nice ladies a

survivor1987248 weeks ago HoneypieHoneypie
how is the best way to go down on a woman

i would like to know the best way to go down on a woman if anyone has a good way to do this please let me know

lostheart85149 weeks ago lostheart85
Making Love

well.... i say you should take te lead and start to feel on him till he get excited then STOP let him want an then slowly but surely get yours and his clothes off and ask him to try to let you go farther then when "if you want to stop tell me" th

InLove1106650 weeks ago doniaadoniaa
help

I had the same problem the first time I had sex try getting her to give you a blow job wen you are unwrapping it and then instead of just you putting it on try and have both of you put it on it makes it much sexier

someone7 over a year ago Skywalker19
Girl is pregnant

Hi, You are much better off posting your question in the section marked Questions, there are far more Aunties and Uncles Answering there.

khelms2 over a year ago birdynumnumsbirdynumnums
Girlfriend cheated....Need so much help

It's so hard to believe your girlfriend that she didn't know she kissed another guy at the club because she's drunk, that's really unexceptional behavior. I know she and the guy at bar had an intimate relationship. You should break up with her, but

davey16123 over a year ago lorna18
Lasting longer...

Pelvic exercises will definately help any guy with 'control' - simply exercise when you are erect, simply lift your penis up without intevention simply from contracting your pelvic muscles and hold for a few seconds, this will build up your muscles

Sneaks11 over a year ago viagra
help: sex without a condom

Opps, sorry about that link... it's: http://www.sexetc.org/page/get_tested/

big polo3 over a year ago BillTarr
Golden Root herbal viagra.

Nope, haven't tried that... I rather choose prevention than a magic pill...

diggerx2 over a year ago BillTarr
Sex Positions

There's this really cool website: http://www.sexinfo101.com/sp_index.shtml There are tons of good positions. My favorite - spooning. Nothing special, but it lets you to stimulate her gspot with your penis and her clit with your hands.

summer083 over a year ago BillTarr
getting started

There is something wrong with the way you act AFTER you get to know each other... Probably you are too needy, and she hates that. Could you give any more details on that? Did you have sex with those girls before they left you?

fallen892 over a year ago BillTarr
Morning after!

All these sites say she may be a few days early. this is 10 days early! She normal has regular periods aswell.

Sneaks4 over a year ago Sneaks
my boyfriend wont go down on me anymore

Wash it wel and make sure your shaven, it might just be me might i find my toung feels horrible if it brushes against pubes and it sounds weird but air it out for a few mins lol hold ur lips open it will make it feel looser Also make sure ther

sir3n9 over a year ago 16yroldman
Demanding gf

hey im nt saying ur bad in bed im giving u advice: Dont make the mistake alt f men make in wanting sex and wanting it now. Befor you even want it yu should stimulate her, get her horney by kissing her neck or something, or rubbingher legs,

packmandaniel4 over a year ago 16yroldman
Question about uncircumcized penis

ok

15.yr.old.needs.help3 over a year ago Murad123
Uh oh!

I didnt think we could get the morning after but i found out its up to 3 days so we went to the hospital today and get it for her just incase! and they suggest taking a pregnancy test but we are confused when to take it. Because your supposed to

Sneaks13 over a year ago Sneaks
Fanny farts

when my gf first had a fanny fart it was the end of tht sex session lol never spoke of it again..... she is a bit uptight and needs to loosen up a bit

dildofun4 over a year ago GOD!
What do you think?

If you love this girl as much as you say and she mens as much as you have posted, then you need to acept the fact. You will never be able to change it so don't ruin your relationship over what you can not change.

HondaEG82 over a year ago eureka
need help

you might try getting her tipsy not DRUNK just tipsy, so she can relax a bit and not get so uptight(so to say).

rossjg16535 over a year ago eureka
Help?

Hi Plums, just wondering if you'd posted this question on the main page, lots more people read that than come into the forums part of the website. If you need directions, it is www.dearcupid.org/ask. Good luck!

PlumsPlums5 over a year ago Tisha-1Tisha-1
sexlife

I just KNEW I was only a figment of your imagination.

sintalation5 over a year ago Susan StrictSusan Strict
free rapidshare premium account (Really working)

And you get paid $1.25 for every person who uses your link to AW Surveys. How much do you get for the PayPal signup? Incidentally, AW Surveys are only collecting data for marketing purposes. Completing one of their surveys will result in large

sayanika2 over a year ago Susan StrictSusan Strict
"His Dankle was Shankle"

You took the words right out of my mouth, Sue. xXx

Susan StrictSusan Strict2 over a year ago BigSisBigSis
safe sex

jaja lol omgosh my friend andrew who is gay knows more about this than anyone, i member he said that theres the birth control,condoms,day after pill,patches,injections,surgerys, etc etc not to get pregnat. but yea i think youre way too young to have

horsefanatik_andyhorsefanatik_andy4 over a year ago NiikkiiNiikkii
Do women view men in the same way

Most men when out and about, will analyse many women they see as possible sex partners whether married or not, just in a fantasy sort of way. My question do you women do the same thing, and how often?

Mr Lover1 over a year ago Mr Lover
Do sex pheromones work?

I such for flirting tips on the internet and i found this: www.pheroprof.com The products contains pheromones which your sex life increase. What do you think about pheromones or who had experience with pheromone products? Please let me kn

aronvanbloom1 over a year ago aronvanbloom
bi curiuos married women

my wife and i are both 52 yrs. and still very sexually active. we have never had a threesome or anything like that but i have always wanted to see her in action with another woman. i dont know is she would go for it or not but i just have this

flychucker1 over a year ago flychucker
What is a 'rampant rabbit'?

What is a wampant wabbit? Me thinks it could be Bugs Bunny after taking viagwa flavoured cawwots. : )

VivianSVivianS13 over a year ago BigSisBigSis
Help me improve my sexual life!

This is a simple situation. The main thing is that you need to know to control your orgasm and you also have to understand the ways of enjoying sex.Since you mentioned that this was not the first sex you had then it must be certainly the complexity

jourge2 over a year ago alexander38
trouble fitting...

I'm pretty sure i've seen them cum in different sizes, small, medium and liar. {Sorry about that, I couldn't resist it}. Try these links I found for you, they're both also handy for other stuff too. (Ooh that rhymes : ) http://www

Jack1213 over a year ago BigSisBigSis
Masturbation

First try only every other day.

soccerdude283 over a year ago notshort
Can anyone help me????

First I would like to say that the Pill has probably no part in this. I got a book called [url=http://mensexualhealthbook.com/] mensexualhealthbook.com [/url] when I was in the same condition. It’s provides all information about men sexual health

david232 over a year ago adam405
im having performance anxiety

im having performance anxiety. You know how the mind have a powerful control over the body? Well im having trouble relaxing. and almost all of my sexual encounters went wrong. So im thinking that because those painful memories my minds self defense

turboturkeyturboturkey1 over a year ago turboturkeyturboturkey
Tight Forskin Problem..

I used to have the same problem at 14 or 15. only difference is that i wasn't sexually active with girls yet. (bad history with girls...) i solve this problem by pulling it back while urinating and while masterbating. it will hurt like hell but

HondaDriver9 over a year ago HondaEG8
How to arouse my girlfriend ?

Dude, if she is hindu, you gotta atleast wait one year. They are very conservative when it comes to sex. But once you prove that you love her, it should be no problem. Try having more makeout sessions. If that works well the next step is to try and

Anwar2 over a year ago Cirrhosis
I have 2 know!!!!!

12 years old!and she dosent know! I think its time for her to leave alice and wonderland, reality is,girls are having sex at 11 getting pregnent at 12 they love it and can take it with no problem,but they also ruin their lives, hate to see her ruin

Sweetie PieSweetie Pie17 over a year ago umm...Hi
He won't do oral on me

I would say that he is inexperienced and doesn't want to disappoint you if he can't please you that way. I do know that some guys don't like to give oral sex for many reasons, but the fingering part is very strange!! That is why I say he is

Chippy22 over a year ago Calh1234
How 2 Talk 2 My BF About Sex

i know this is an old post but to sweetie pie or any other 12 year olds. There should be no need for contraceptives because you should be busy being a normal twelve year old and normal twelve year olds do not have sex. If your friends that are

Sweetie PieSweetie Pie3 over a year ago q1605q1605
period cycles

nevermind, no worries. she got it on saturday morning.

stone29 3 over a year ago stone29
Jacking off

why are you supposed to use lotion when you jack off

mrtaste23561 over a year ago mrtaste2356
need help with sex

I had same problem as my dad and you! first few times I didn't but its a matter of relaxing when the situation is happening, first time for me was when i was with a partner then I could do it being more relaxed.. relaxation... ;)

exophaze2 over a year ago mattbeamattbea
does he fancy me

i have a friend and recently we have been spending a lot more time together. he is actly differently towards me grap my shoulders and shacking me when he thinks i am not paying attention to him (this has happened twice)sats on my knee,hugs when we

namnixon1 over a year ago namnixon
She's my first but i'm not hers...

Thanks a lot! But I just decided that I'm going to stay with her becuz she really means a lot to me n I really mean a lot to her. She would be lost without me. If I really love her then I wouldnt care if I didnt get to enjoy life n have that safe

HondaEG83 over a year ago HondaEG8
I haven't had a boyfriend for about 8 months and I can't decide which guy!?

Whoops....I put in the wrong thread....it was supposed to be in the relationship thread. Sorry.

Cutie PieCutie Pie2 over a year ago Cutie PieCutie Pie
FEMDOM

ANY WOMEN INTO FEMDOM AND TOYS LET ME KNOW WE CAN CHAT SOMEDAY

YOURADUMBASSYOURADUMBASS1 over a year ago YOURADUMBASSYOURADUMBASS
when do i know?

I agree. Lighted candles, soft music, it may seem old fashioned but it still works! Lissing and cuddling, touching, nuzzling, laughing and joking while holding hands and so forth, all lead towards sex. It's not something that just happens for a

jaffar3 over a year ago EmmajaneEmmajane
bisexuality

my experience with a bif were great as long as your honest with each other and willing to share because the other girl becomes your friend too!comes over, they go shopping together, cook in the kitchen together, hug and kiss,spend quiet time

mystifymystify9 over a year ago cuninglingwist
What should I do?

For a girl to be sexualy attracted to another girl is natural, problem is most girls will deni their feelings due to perental and religious fear,if you would rather be with her than your boyfriend dont tell him this, otherwise he will get jelous and

dummyducklingdummyduckling3 over a year ago cuninglingwist
Age For Sex?

hey,well I`m 17 years old.. and I made sex last year.. I think depends of your boyfriend.. if you are sure he is the best guy who ever met you are ready for sex.. But if he is a backage.. he dosen`t deserve you..;o) well,you are only 12.. you are to

Sweetie PieSweetie Pie13 over a year ago kukundrelkukundrel
Male Questions

It could actually be acne down there as well. How long have you been taking this medication for as it can increase the acne before it gets better. Also can i ask how long you have been prescribed the meds for because with the potency of this dru

lilnerv117 over a year ago flower girlflower girl
Sex Education.

I suppose it can be down to parents aswell. I remember learning the basics at school and my mum teaching me about periods but I can't really remember where I got the common sense about stis and pregnancy. I'm still dumb struck by the lack of

YummyMummyYummyMummy7 over a year ago YummyMummyYummyMummy
my girlfriend might be pregnant and im freaking out! help.

well dont be almared so soon, she wont get pregnant unless u cum inside her.but there has been cases with the pre ejaculatory fluids when a men becomes erect that thoses pre cum fluids are just as strong as cum it self.so if she climbed on top there

Kurt892 over a year ago Tbabygirl101327
bondage!

This is a good essay on it: http://www.sub-dom.com/d-s-article.htm

love_lustlove_lust3 over a year ago YosYos
Are you the true 40 year old virgin and you JUST lost your virginity? Want to shout it from the rooftops?

Looking for a FUN, CREATIVE and UNFORGETTABLE way to tell your friends that you are a 40 year old virgin NO MORE! Major tv network is looking for you for new show! Email your name, pic, story and contact info to: CASTINGKARA@YAHOO.COM

castingkara1 over a year ago castingkara
MTV UK - The Virgin Diaries

The thought that it has been left to MTV to provide appropriate sex education to teenagers fills me with dispair, to be honest The company is also hypocritical. Show kids an endless rotation of semi-naked pop stars, many promoting highly dubious

agm3 over a year ago YosYos
for teens

hay just to say there's a new website for teens thats been made, its has an advice abd problem page jokes, a chat room, lots of things to do when your bored, you can send funny pictures in and see how much ratings you get, and coming soon will be

sam12344321sam123443211 over a year ago sam12344321sam12344321
What should I do????

yes i mean my friends not some1 else

P.R. PrincessP.R. Princess4 over a year ago P.R. PrincessP.R. Princess

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