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writes:there is this girl who i got her number, we hung out alot, really hit it off but a couple weeks into hanging out all the time she told me she couldnt see me anymore, only as friends......because she has a boyfriend.She has told me plenty of times that she likes me and is happy with her boyfriend but still thinks about me, and sometimes shes confused on what to do, but lately ive backed off from her, and i think she realizes she cares about her BF and wants to stay with him, which is fine. We still talk, hang out from time to time and go to the gym together but nothing is happening, and we talk less than we used to (i still like her very much, but ive given up on the hope that she will be single soon)But my question after all this is do you think its wrong to ask her if she has any single friends? I know she likes me and i like her but the actuality of us being together seems very thin right now so im trying to move on and meet new girls, would that be hurtful to her?
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reader, Heartbroken in love +, writes (20 December 2009):
Yea I agree find a girl w/o her help. Knowing that you like her she will probably think that maybe u didn't really choose her but that u were just looking for someone to be with. If u find someone without her it will be easier. Its my personal opinion that if u are doing this to try to pry feelings out of her then stop! Always stay sincere and true to her and yourself
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reader, RAINORFIRE +, writes (20 December 2009):
 hmm I dont think it would be hurtfull to her but i think it would just be awkward it would make you look desperate, in my opinion. id suggest you find a girl with out her help
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