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writes: Dear Cupid,I have met a guy and we have really hit it off, the problem is that he has a girlfriend and a young child to her. Up until she fell pregnant he was planning on calling things off but now cannot stand to be away from his child. He has no plans to marry her and says that when he thinks about it, it doesn't feel(right) the way he imagined it would when you ask the right person to marry you. He is also worried about loosing his child and assests if he leaves her. We are great together (i feel that he is the one!?? and from his words and actions I think he does too) but I don't know if I am holding my breath waiting for him to leave? do you think he will leave? Is there anything I should do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2006): Will he leave her?? Why on earth would you want him to? If he is cheating on her rest assured, he will cheat on you.And he may leave her for you but then he'll be cheating on YOU with HER. Lots of "going to do the daddy thing be back in a couple of hours hon" days in your future if you stick with him. ICK, who wants that or a man like that,,,,drop the scumbag.
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reader, juliagulia  +, writes (6 March 2006):
 This is a situation you should try to steer clear of, at least until this guy figures out what he wants. Do you really want to be the catalyst for this guy leaving his girlfriend? For one, he may hold that against you at some point if things get messy and he doesn't get to see his kid. I think if he is going to walk away, then he should do that on his own. Perhaps once he does, he will get in touch with you and you can go from there when things are far less complicated for both of you. But no good can really come of you being with this guy who can't seem to make up his mind.
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reader, willywombat +, writes (6 March 2006):
 What a lovely pair you two must make together. He is tringing you along love, and even if you do end up in a mutually exclusive relationship you will always have the worry every time he sees his ex and the child about what he will do. Will she entice him back? Will he go back cos of the kid, and all the other things that come along when you steal another woman's man.
Of course this muppet will tell you he is unhappy. Of course he will tell you all the things he knows you want to hear becasue that is how he gets u into bed! Why do you want a man who cannot be honest to the mother of his child and cannot respect his relationship with her enough to finish it before he becomes involved with somebody else?
I think you should back off to be honest....you wont of course because you are convinced now this is *the one* although that truely doesnt exsist. You are being unfair to his partner and their child....how is the child gonna feel when it is old enough to realise you nicked his dad away form his mum.
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