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Why Can't I Love?

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Question - (27 June 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 27 June 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I'm 20 and i've never experienced love, i feel love and caring for my family but thats obvious, i feel love for animals, but not so much people...i care, i care a lot for people i let people take advantage of that, no matter who it may be..i was in relationship for 4 years felt on love for him, stayed with him because it was easy...people feel love for me but i can't reciprocate it.

i've been in a few serious relationships never felt more then that caring...i admit i'm very self reliant, and prefer being alone with my emotions and not expressing them to others, i have no real connections with my friends and my bf...i've talked to a few people and they say it could be because i'm so young or because maybe i have a physical problem...i thought i experienced love at 14 with someone who i am with now...but i don't have those feelings with him anymore...it seems like the one thing that everyone has experienced at least once in their life i can't...i'm sorry if this is long i just wanted to give as much background as i can...

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A female reader, Oregongrl1 United States +, writes (27 June 2010):

Well i wouldn't worry to much about anything at least you are not staying w/ someone for all the wrong reasons.

and it's good you are the way you are! believe me enjoy life! and who you are it's not selffish to like you and that you are independent, because you will know when you fall inlove! your rare and its all good because you wont fall for the wrong guy he'll have to be pretty special so until then enjoy family & friends hes out there you'll see.

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