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writes:why do older guys like say 40 year olds prefer to be with girls of like 18 or 20 years old ? doe sit make them feel younger.or are they actually in love with the younger girls cuz of their prettiness and whatever. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2009): I don't agree with the last answer about her tone.
Men wanting some "emotional freshness" so to speak? There is some truth in that idea.
But why is that so bad? I think this is only "dark" if it's also "dark" for younger women to seek out older men like they so often do. After all, isn't that the supposed reason that these younger women do it? Because older men are supposed to be more seasoned and experienced and mature or something? Let's cut the bull here. We all know it. A lot of times "experience" just means people are harder-edged and a little more selfish than they used to be and they have more skills at using others.
And a lot of times, people having more "relationship experience" is really a nice way to say they have a lot more harmful past-relationship baggage to bring to the next person who doesn't deserve to have to deal with it. I don't want too much of that in a person I am dating. I see no reason to apologize for not wanting it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 May 2009): This might sound a little dark but a friend of mine who dated a girl half his age simply said that she was "fresh". And not in a physical way, but in her mindset. She hadn't really learnt too much in life, she hadn't had any major life upsets, she hadn't yet learnt to be cynical, she had no "baggage" and he was the one to teach her everything in bed!He said that at the time he wasn't feeling confident enough to date a woman his own age (they would have thought of him as a loser, IMO) but much later he left her and started dating a much more mature, more intelligent and more sophisticated woman.A tight ass is one thing but if you ask me, I think some men like young girls because those young girls are easier to be with and will never call them on their BS because they are so inexperienced!
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 May 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionno i dont have a random old guy after me who's a peado.
i've just heard stuff liek this before and i was wondering if mnen of that age who do like younger girls could post on here and say why cuz i'm confusewd about hey they'd like younger girls.?
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 May 2009): Where is your insiteful advice? Spread it around! I don't see enough of your answers! Why do i have a history of being the only answer on a lot of questions? Back me up here!
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 May 2009): Denny.. you know i was calling YOU an old fart. I myself was not calling any man of 40 an old fart. I was speaking in the perspective of a 13-15 year old. At that age, i may have thought that about 40 year old men. At that age, 30 was old!
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 May 2009): But, YOU are not 18 or 20. You are 13-15 so if this is your undercover way of wondering why an old fart keeps making moves on you or is trying to manipulate you into a sexual situation then the answer is, he's a petophile and you should tell a parent and if you can't tell a parent, you should find another adult and absolutely NOT let it continue. It is very illegal and immoral.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 May 2009): Well.. i'm no man nor am i 40 and lusting after 18 year olds, but i can make a few guesses.
Tight, fresh skin, still perky breasts, younger bodies that can still look hot in barely-there clothing, no spider veins.. ick, delicious thick, shiny hair..
Lol. Some men like that they're still sweet and innocent and haven't been with a million guys yet.
Some guys i'm sure really are in love.
Some guys find them less irritating and irritable in their young age.
Some guys find them more energetic and fun.
Some guys are just not ready to be old and it does make them feel better about themselves.
There are so many different answers. Men are not all the same and probably do not like to be stereotyped as so.
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