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30-35,
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writes:I have been talking to this guy for some time, we will just call him (CJ). Well i really like him and from my understanding he really likes me too. But he never seems to have time for me. In the 3 or 4 months that we have been talking i have only seen him maybe 3 times and it is because i go see him, not the other way around. He tries to play this boyfriend role and likes to text and call all day. I try to set things up with him but he always backs out because he is with his friends. I am getting really tired of it. My friends introduced me to a new guy, we will call him (RJ) and he is so nice. I am really starting to like him, but he has 2 kids. But RJ tries to get together with me and says he cant wait to see me all the time.What should i do? Go with the guy with the kids who has time or the guy with no kids and no time?
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 February 2009): Neither of them sound ideal. I mean the guy who has no time has already let you down on several occasions so if you were to go out with him you'd have to be prepared for that to continue. However I get the impression that the other guy is quite bit older than you. Is he? And are you ready to share responsibility for his kids?
If I were you I'd go on the lookout for someone fresh and new =]
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reader, cute_lily  +, writes (5 February 2009):
I think the main thing is to see who you have the most feelings for. You've said that they are nice but what about your feelings. Who do you think you are more likely do fall in love with. Also, do you think would be okay with RJ's children. You may like him and think he's niice but will you be able to handle his kids. I hope this helps.
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