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Which do women prefer?

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Question - (10 April 2010) 11 Answers - (Newest, 11 April 2010)
A male United States age , *appy140 writes:

I have a question for sexually exspearinced woman...Do woman prefer an uncircumsized male or circumsized? To those woman who have encountered a foreskin, why do most woman pull it all the way down and pretend its not there, is it because you think its gross, don't know what to do with it or think thats what men want. I have wondered this forever, because I, like most men are concernd whne we exspose our selves to you for the first time what you will think. I had met on woman 30 plus years ago, flat out told me it was gross, talk about setting me back a few years! One more, do woman enjoy watching thier man masterbate?

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A female reader, LoveGirl South Africa +, writes (11 April 2010):

Generally women do care less whether circumcised or not- but I think for jewish and islamic men this is a given meaning circumcised.

My hubby and I chose to have our boy circumcised bec of hygiene reasons - whether this was the correct thing only time will Tell. Nowadays men tend to feel very strongly that thwy were not given a choice to be be circumsized or not.

There is nothing gross when given head to an uncircumcised man. Remember sex is generally a 'dirty' act, sometimes the dirtier the better.

And no, I do not get turned on watching my man masturbate. I am guessing different strokes for different folks.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2010):

Yeah it seems to be far too common to circumsize your kids in the US. In Ireland we don't do that unless there's a medical reason, because we don't see any reason to butcher our kids penis' 1 in 500,000 children die from circumsision in developed countries and an estimated 1 in 10 suffer complications ranging from major scarring to severe deformation and even losing the penis completely.

Aren't we supposed to lessen to risk of harm to our kids? I have yet to see a valid reason for circumsision beyond medical necessity. Cleaner? Myth. Lessons risks of AIDS? So does wearing protection and making informed sexual choices. Looks better? The vast majority of women don't care.

Girls here don't really care either way, saying that you'll always meet the odd idiot that can't see past their own preferences.

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A male reader, bharat mehta India +, writes (10 April 2010):

bharat mehta agony auntAs a part of my observation I am saying, the foreskin in-it-self is highly sensitive, and very responsive to touch, specific for oral touch. Where as penis {head], has little or no sense of touch. It is possible to play for hrs to hrs, and feel increasing height of pleasure by simple play of touch.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2010):

Circumcised guys are a lot less sensitive so I definitely prefer uncut guys.

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A female reader, ChristineAvril United Kingdom +, writes (10 April 2010):

ChristineAvril agony auntWhat else, "happy140"?

Try this: when you are slowly stroking his shaft up and down, suddenly grip a little more firmly and plunge right down, rolling his foreskin right back completely, holding it for a few seconds before returning it and continue gentle stroking, repeating the deep plunge at intervals.

You will certainly get a reaction, very likely a sticky one!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2010):

Hello

I feel u should not be concerned about it.

Around half of the men in the world are not circumcised. In our Hindu and asian culture circumcision is not a ritual to be followed. so do not take it on your head and worry about.

yes, uncircumcised one will be more sensitive towards stimulation and touch. But you need to be careful about hygine aspect in BJ

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A female reader, Not My Name Australia +, writes (10 April 2010):

Not My Name agony auntBeing honest I have prefered the look of a circumcised penis, but probably only because that was what I had been used to. My current partner is the first uncut guy I have been with, so yeah the visual difference was very noticed, ..but certainly not gross in any way what so ever, ... just different and new to me.

I noticed pretty quickly that he was more sensitive than cut guys and must say there was a brief amount of time that I was worried about hurting him (coz I had accidentally a couple of times) and it was making me not feel properly relaxed, .. if that is the right way to put it, ... I suppose like I felt I was thinking too much about what I was doing instead of just being in the moment, ..which of course deracted from things a bit.

I was not willing to let that go on tho (worrying about what I was doing or if I was gunna hurt him) so I literally rang him up at work one day, told him how I felt, and to get his butt straight over when he knocked off coz I was gunna play with his foreskin and find out for certain what was ok and not, what he liked or didn't etc, ... and that's exactly what I did - spent an hour or so doing all sorts of things and asking for feedback.

We got all that sorted, and now I know things like he actually likes head with his raincoat (as he calls it lol) covering, having it moved with my mouth, lightly tugged on, tongue under it, etc, ... and of course he thinks I give the best BJ's and probably coz I am the only person who has actually sat him down and bothered to find out what worked for him, ..everyone else he has been with did what you mentioned and just pulled it back out of the way instead of using it to add to his pleasure. He even likes me to pull his foreskin back fwd (when it has naturally retracted) before sex coz the feeling of it sliding over the head during it is nicer for him too.

So I would say yes, most women don't know what to do with a foreskin, but hey, some of us are willing to experiment, ask and learn :-) Gotta say too, the longer I am with him the more I have gotten attached to his little raincoat. I rekon they are grouse to play with, and I would not want him to be any other way - his equipment is beautiful.

It only adds to things imo, ..and this woman was a thoughtless child brain coming out with a remark like that. I'd say she looked at it and shit herself coz she either had not seen a hoody before or did not know what to do with it, so just insulted you instead. Screw her, there are a lot of advantages for both you and the 'right' woman in you not having had the chop.

As a note tho, ..even before meeting my current partner I decided to leave my baby son intact, and don't mind admitting one of the reasons I did was coz I knew uncut guys were supposed to have more sensation (so possibly better sexual pleasure) and did not think it was my right to rob him of that when he became an adult.

Oh, ..and yes, I like watching my man man masturbate, ..especially the blowing part. Grrr lol.

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A male reader, happy140 United States +, writes (10 April 2010):

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happy140 agony auntThanks for the responsive females-I have another question-those of you that enjoy foreskins anything different you do to your mans foreskin to highten his pleasure? Wife and I always looking for new ways to pleasure me as well as her.

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A female reader, hijacked_dignity United States +, writes (10 April 2010):

hijacked_dignity agony auntI think it's quite a bit immature for a woman just to say flat out that 'it's gross'. For me personally, I prefer circumscribed, simply because I know what to do with a circumscribed penis. Uncircumcised is something that would be totally new for me, and I really wouldn't know what to do. So it's more of a fear of the unknown rather than out of disgust. I'm sure I could get over it pretty quickly. So for most women, I think it's just something that they are less used to seeing rather than something they never want to see.

And yes, watching your man masturbate is extremely hot. At least, it is for me.

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A female reader, L.A LATINA United States +, writes (10 April 2010):

L.A LATINA agony auntTo be honest it never was an issue for me..all the men i had dated...that i can remember almost all of them had there foreskin i prefer them with more to play with so don't feel bad there isn't nothing wrong with. it she must have been immature most women don't even care .and about pulling the skin back i think it a process of foreplay trying to make you feel good ..

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A female reader, L.A LATINA United States +, writes (10 April 2010):

L.A LATINA agony auntTo be honest it never was an issue for me..all the men i had dated...that i can remember almost all of them had there foreskin i prefer them with more to play with so don't feel bad there isn't nothing wrong with. it she must have been immature most women don't even care .and about pulling the skin back i think it a process of foreplay trying to make you feel good ..

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