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writes: My boyfriend and I enjoy sex very much. We are experimenting with new positions. I have heard about positions known as The Brazilian Bed Lock and the Robin's Nest. Do you have information about how to do them? What are some of the benefits of them? I really enjoy positions in which I can see his face and we can kiss and talk. What advance positions would you recommend that we may have not tried yet? My boyfriend likes deep penetration. I like a mixture of penetration. Can you recommend some advance positions that would be good for both? Reply to this Question
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reader, daletom  +, writes (26 August 2008):
I think people give cutesy names to various positions just to make others think they know more about sex. There's probably about a dozen basic positions, but a zillion variations based on things like how each partner shifts his/her legs, how the partners support themselves, how they use furniture or other accessories as part of their activity, etc.
Get copies of "Joy of Sex" and "More Joy of Sex". I think these are still in print after almost 40 years, or you can find copies on E-Bay quite inexpensively. These books are organized something like an encyclopedia, with plenty of illustrations and short articles (usually only a paragraph to a page long) about positions, techniques, problems, etc, etc related to sex. The two of you can go through them together, commenting on what is written or illustrated and deciding what to try. Or, take them separately and pass them back and forth, perhaps under the pillow, with little notes like "Let's try pg 275" or "I'm in the minority on pg 83!". It'll take most of a year to really go through them - and by then your tastes and life-situation may have changed enough to make starting from the beginning a good idea.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 August 2008): Brazillian Bed Lock and Robin's Nest.... wow, you are more advanced than me... Please update and tell me what these are because I've never heard these terms before....
Here is a link to a website that has ton's of positions and suggestions to spice up your sex life. Good luck, and remember, I tried to help you, don't forget to help me and tell me what those positions are... :)
http://www.sexinfo101.com/
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