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writes:Here is the story:I went out of town to visit my aunt for Thanksgiving. I haven't seen my cousins for over five years. My aunt, who is my mother's half sister (BTW), had 10 kids--So I have a lot of cousins. This cousin in particular is the one that I am closest to-we ended up going to school together in a really small town. Hell, he bought me my first mum in middle school when he was in high school. This cousin is about 6 years older than me. The family got together for the last night I was in town, my mother, my cousin and his two brothers (my cousins) with their father (no blood relation to me). Through out the course of the night, everyone was drinking and the outcome is the same when you combine beer and hot tempers. A fight broke out and my cousin and I took off. We didn't do anything but talk and drink more beer or I should say I kept drinking. We got back to the gathering place and my mom (who was very intoxicated at the time) asked if my cousin and I slept together. At that time I felt disgusted with her and I took her back to my aunts home. Feeling really upset about the question, my cousin and I kept talking and I jokingly told my cousin that we should sleep together. That's when he made his move and I backed away at first, completely shocked that he would try to kiss me. He just kept saying that he loved me and that he has wanted me for awhile. I felt a surge of different emotions-curiosity, WTF, surprise, anxiety about this taboo subject.... I don't know why I didn't demand he take me back home. It is such a conflicting experience. We are both adults when this situation occurred and I want to make it very clear nothing happened when we were younger. I really enjoyed the sexual experience but I am wondering was it wrong for me to sleep with my cousin?
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reader, ArsenalFC87 +, writes (1 December 2010):
 understandable, but wrong. as the pevious posts have stated, hes blood. maybe that sort've thing is more acceptable in the rural south. but thinking like that is why the south lost the war lol(i thought it was funny). i think the whole wanting to bang your cousin thing is desirable to some because its so taboo in our society. Be that as it may, hes still your cousin, and its still wrong. im sure after you guys did the nasty, you were like " holy sh%t, wtf did i just do." thats the rational side of your brain telling you that you made a big no no. youre a longhorns fan so i know youre a smart girl. make sure nothing like that ever happens again.
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reader, BigSambo +, writes (29 November 2010):
Most of the people I know have had sex with their cousins, I did it with one and came close to doing it with a different one but the ciircumstances did not allow it. Of course I come from a different cluture where you can marry your cousin.
I am glad to know you enjoyed the sex :)
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reader, Longhornfan81 +, writes (29 November 2010):
Longhornfan81 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you for your different responses! They have helped in analyzing the situation.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2010): Simply, yes it is wrong! He's blood. It should not have happened!
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