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*istantshadow
writes:I don't know if this is right place to ask. He was a really good friend of mine. I was really having a bad day at that time, I lost my job, he said something that really bringing me down, not an insult, but nothing positive. I was stupid enough to blow a fit over a text message. Now I've been depressed every since, he's not talking to me and he's not taking my apology. I have seen him a number of times around, but there's wall between us and I'm afraid to cross it. I'm scared of him, but I missed him that much. My question is... Should I leave him alone or try talk to him? Its been 2 years.
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reader, distantshadow +, writes (27 September 2010):
distantshadow is verified as being by the original poster of the question Woah, he's not my ex boyfriend or anything. Just platonic friend. Wherever I go, he'll show up somehow, even where I work. I always felt that he's watching me, from afar. But neither of us could break the ice.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 September 2010): Sadly people hold grudges for life often wasting years and years. I would put my hand out and hope it is taken. If you don't try you will never know. There is nothing you can do if you have tried and your hand is refused , you have to let go. The people who waste years often open their eyes when it's too late,. If he refuses i would Wish him well tell him you love him etc and say you are letting go now. Don't live with regret we all have fall out's. Who is willing to be trapped in their own feelings of hurt or anger TRY...WASTED YEARS AND WASTED LOVE ,generations are ruined and robbed of love because of unforgivness. Why do so many of us wait till the death bed to make up , just as we are about to say goodbye ....so sad to imprison each other.Good Luck :)spunky monkey.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 September 2010): Well it's been 2 years, so I'd cut my losses and move on. It would have been better for you both to have sorted things out soon after the bust-up. I think too much time has passed and people move on and change. Let it go.
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