A
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41-50,
*essence
writes:Since the other night she has come to me asking to move back in and now wants to take time to see how things can go. I understand things will be different for awhile from what happened. I dont think anyone would be able to excuss there partner grabbing someones grion in public and she acts as if it was nothing.Even when she came around tonight she wasnt very talkative and seemed distant, when I cuddled her she didnt respond. Im not sure if because of my last relationship I am thinking the worse though I am thinking since the other day another person is on the sence. When I msg her she rarely responds at night.While she was here she received a call and was very quiet and quickly ended the call and left about 20mins after.I simply dont want to walk away because of fear but dont want to stay and be proved it was in vain. Reply to this Question
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reader, pastfirst  +, writes (14 January 2009):
 You're very unsure, and she also doesn't seem to know what she wants.
Go slowly. Don't commit yourself, and see where it leads.
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reader, Vessence +, writes (14 January 2009):
Vessence is verified as being by the original poster of the questionSorry I didnt exactly explian, she wanted to move back in on Sunday but I said I wasnt sure and she hasnt mobed back in. Now wants to take things and see how they go.
Its a double enend blade and am unsure if im thinking or doing the right or wrong thing.
No doubt my trust will be frail for sometime after what she did and because she thinks nothing is worng with it wont help. She blames being drunk but still to do that isnt acceptable for me but not something I couldnt forgive on the understanding it wasnt to happen again which I dont think anyone would argue.
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