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writes: Was seeing a guy for a week. He said he really wanted to have an exclusive relationship, he was really falling for me, etc. End of the week he calls me to say he is going back to his x-girlfriend. Totally blew me away. A week later he emails me asking me to forgive him, he made a big mistakes. He wants to call me. I liked this guy but what he did really hurt. Should I talk to him and just ignore him completely?? Reply to this Question
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reader, bridget +, writes (17 July 2006):
 Hey there anon..
Speak to him about how you felt and how you now feel.. It makes a really big difference.
I also think that you should set a few ground rules and the first one ought to be "Dont mess with my feelings" that is eaxactly what this guy did and it is completely out of order..
Make him see that before you get anywhere or the only place you will get is heartbreak city and it is not pleasant..
Best wishes
Jacqueline
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reader, katzkitten  +, writes (17 July 2006):
 Im not very experienced at this thing and have a tonne of problems myself but i suppose if i was in your position (i have been in 1 like it and didnt make a very good choice, i ended up jus forgiving him an kissing him and stuff the exact same day. I dont regret what i did just well...)anyway if i was in your position id speak to the guy and tell him how you feel about what he did. To me he sounds like a player and i would be very careful! please email me and let me no what you decide to do and how it goes xXx
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 July 2006): you should talk to him and try to sort it out and explain to him that if you do go back out with him you'll give him one more chance if he does it again then tell him what he has done worng. But explain that you don't want to go out with him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 July 2006): Well he made you feel like second best didn't he? Who's to say that if you got back together he wouldn't do the same to you again. Give yourself some space and if he really really wants to be with you he'll do a load of chasing, not just emails, your phone will be ringing non-stop.So it's up to him, see how keen he really is, rather than you risk getting hurt again. Play it cool and take it from there.
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