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female
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41-50,
*rincessjane
writes:Hi guys please I need help... My partner and I are doing well with our relationship, including sex. But lately, he has gone cold and rarely makes love with me any more... no more sweet messages or he rarely checks on how I am doing (unlike before). I am not sure if he is taken eye with this girl he met at the gym, so I asked him about it. He told me they are just friends, but the girl calls him sometimes, asking how he is or when is he going to to gym again so they could work out together, then maybe get some coffee after, and my guy actually accepts the invitation, in front of me! He arguably says they are friends but I think he should be sensitive with my feelings that I am not comfortable with the situation. Should I let them be or push through with how I feel? What shall I do? Please help me... Reply to this Question
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reader, Helpful_In_Ohio  +, writes (7 March 2009):
 Thats a horrible thing to do to you and not caring about your feelings is a tell tail sign of a man not in love anymore. So if he has this friend why cant you go to the gyme with them make it a time for you to meet her and work out with them ? why cant you come to coffee after there work out if you do not go to the gym? these are things that he could do if he and her were only friends, but what i am hearing is he has an eye for her if not more than an eye he may have already done more. you need to confront him and her at the same time find out what coffee shot they are going to and just show up. if there is nothing going on then should be no problem. Are you sure she even knows about you and him ? Does she know he is in a relationship with you ? Or is he feeding her the lines every man uses to get with a woman ( that's right guys we all have done it ) i am in a bad relationship and i am just staying there for ( some reason they make up ) . Look into it you have to get her number from his phone have him speak to her on speaker phone while you are there. but what ever you do do not just over look the signs of cheating that are smacking you in the face ! ! ! ! hope this helps good luck
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