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writes:I am very in love with my boyfriend of 3yrs, we have been off and on but for the most part on. Lately we have been arguing over things that dont even matter to me like him not working and me making money and not wanting to spend it on us, which is not true. We would end up hanging up with each other and or me leaving his house and us not speaking until the next day like nothing ever happened. it seems like we are growing apart, he wants to play video games all day and nite with his nephews and friends which doesnt leave much time for me to spend with him? We have had words- i mean reaaly bad ones, i said things that i didnt even mean, most of the time i say them just to hurt him like he has hurt me. I really want to be with him hes the love of my life wehave been here before on the edge of break up but all those times i would be calling his phone non stop just to tell him how much i love and want to be with him. But this time i want him to come back its been 48 hours!!! are we done??????
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (21 December 2009):
This just sounds doomed to be honest. You're on/off, you argue about petty things and when you do argue, both of you are trying to score points against each other. It doesn't seem like he's put all that much effort onto your relationship to be honest. You always did the running when it went wrong before. Maybe take a good look at it, and hopefully you'll see that he's not the one for you.
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reader, doom  +, writes (21 December 2009):
 Well do'nt think that it's over, your just in a fight.Try talking to him, and play "his game" i meen even if he tells you things tha tare totaly fualse or bad, stay calme, it's you who wants tha t your relationship continues.If you aren't agree about his oppinion say to him calme, because it's serious your situation.I hope it works between you)) and remember, a male oppinion, some time we have "men ego" ))hope i've helped
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