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writes:I'm a 22 year old female who is in a very serious and committed relationship with a 32 year old male. I really love him and he loves me we are unable to be with one another physically because he is behind bars. I cant see myself with anyone else he recently got my name tatted on him and I want to get his on me but I heard that it would be bad luck I believe that we're going to be together forever and so does he a tat is what we decided to get since it also is forever should I Go through with it? Reply to this Question
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (30 March 2009):
 I hope for your sake his name is something like John or Bill or Mike and not Quigly or something that would make it really hard to find another gent with the same name.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 March 2009): If you're so committed to him why do you need a tattoo to prove it?! that just seems stupid and painful
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 March 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you everyone I will think about it and more than likely go through with it and if it all goes bad which I Hope it doesnt but understands that it could and I cant predict the future I'll look at it as another lesson learned in life. Smooches and thanks again (damn that girl is so stubborn)
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reader, Emaz help  +, writes (30 March 2009):
 I'm also with someone behind bars so i totally understand you feelings there.
With the tattoo personally i wouldn't do anything unless you're married, if you're married then you both believe you will be together forever. If you do get one done then have it somewhere which isn't that visable to everyone. Personally I would never get a tattoo of someones name because it's as if you need it to remember their name! lol what about a symbol or picture symbolising him?
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reader, Kepi +, writes (30 March 2009):
 Leave it for a while, remember tattoo's are permanent - ok, so lazer surgery can remove em, but, it takes a long time and costs a damn sight more.
Don't beleive in superstition or old wives tales, about it being bad luck, but, seriously, leave it for the moment, it might feel right to get his mark on you now, but how u gonna feel ina few months or years time??? Just think on it, you can always get it done at a later time can't u?
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reader, lordhelmit +, writes (30 March 2009):
HELL NOthas so stupid. its great that you dont want to be with anyone else and neither does he RIGHT NOW, but say in 2 years he goes out with his buds and gets drunk and cheats on you. its a high possibility. will you still want his name on you forever at that point? you cant tell the future, so you shouldnt try to permantly mark your body with it. kids only man
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reader, bobbles32  +, writes (30 March 2009):
 Wait until you've got a ring on your finger. Also, the man you're in love with is incarcerated because he broke the law.. can you see yourself with a criminal for the rest of your life? How are you going to explain to your children that daddy isn't around because he keeps breaking the law?
I realize that some people in Jail aren't guilty or are there for stupid reasons.. I hope this is the case but usually it's not. Reconsider the tattoo idea. Why not just get something engraved? :)
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reader, funnyintit  +, writes (30 March 2009):
 i don't think you should get his name tattooed on your back, i'd believe it is bad luck and in my opinion quite stupid, but thats just my opinion..
you think now that you will be together forever but you can never be sure about that..
even if its a family members name you get tattooed, i wouldn't be keen on it but there is more assurance that they will always be in your life!
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 March 2009): Personally I don't believe in superstition, it's only designed to stop people doing stupid stuff. Like the walking under the ladder thing, to prevent people getting something dropped on their head etc.
I say go for it. The only thing I would advise is to put it somewhere intimate that only he will see, if you know what I mean, makes it more personal and more fun to show it to him.
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