A
female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:I recently split up with my boyfriend of 7 months since we were constantly at odds with each other due to his controlling and possessive behavior towards me. I recently found out via facebook that he was cheating on me (or vice versa) with the mother of his child. I am so angry about this revelation because I suspected it for a while due to the fact he would force me to leave the apartment whenever she stopped by even after I moved in with him. He isn't aware that I know about their relationship and wonder if I should confront him about this and the other females he most likely cheated on me with while he was working as a nightclub d.j.
View related questions:
cheated on me, facebook, moved in, my ex, split up Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, chickpea2011 +, writes (29 March 2011):
 Hi,
Just be glad you found out after 7 mos. Sorry that you have to go through this ridiculous situation. I know how you feel, happened to me 8 mos ago. These kind of men are loosers, immature, selfish & will never be happy.
As per your question, confronting him: do what's right for you, if you want to know the truth, if talking to him helps you to move on, yes. You have the right to know & ask! Don't be surprise if he's defensive or lie. Those are the reactions from men that cheat & that are cowards.
Hopefully,no matter what he says, don't go back with him. Its better now, then later when you're more emotionally attached.
Also get check for std's.these kind of man you never know
Hope you feel better, good luck!
|
