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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Me and my girlfriend hve been together for 4 months now and our anniversary is coming up. Since its finals,we havent met for like 2 weeks since hers ended n mine is still going on and its going to b like a week more b4 we sees each other again. I m starting to feel insecure about losing her,kinda starting to get attached to her and on the other hand i tends to get mad everytime she don't make time for me (like when online,she doesnt bother to ring me up),i feel frustrated and to make it worse,her ex is kinda acting up alittle again.And her talks sounds cold these days n today she mentioned sth'everytime we get sweet,i kinda miss us being friends' i was alittle bumped by that though she still tells me she loves me etc but wif the fact that not seeing for this long and lack of communication ( she cnt use her ph much due to finals),i starts to wonder alot about her whereabouts,whether she is online etc and feels frustrated that she might actually leaves me when nothing is going on. Is it normal? I can't focus on my work now and need advise on how to get it off from my head and shall i b worried?
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reader, Diligence  +, writes (28 September 2012):
 You're worrying too much. If she cares about you, she'll let you know. Sorry to be so harsh, but if she says she misses being friends it sounds like that's all she wants. You say she's being "cold" lately? That is a sign in itself. She may feel you're being to "clingy." You may feel she's yours, but never forget, she is her own person. Anyone who sees jealousy in the other person is sure to be turned off by it. Jealousy happens so often when one feels insecure. You must be SECURE in your own skin first! You have to show your confidence in what you do and who you are. Not angry. Anything less pushes most ladies away.
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