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writes:After 4 years of hardly any sex, because my girlfriend wasnt into sex, she suddenly wants more sex and is using positions I never knew she knew. When we had sex before, she would only let me do doggy or missionary. We talked about different positions but she just wasnt interested. Now without any warning or discussion its as if anything goes!!!I am now wondering how all of a sudden she knows these different positions and am getting suspicious she may be having sex with someone else.What do you think? Reply to this Question
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reader, idoneitagain  +, writes (23 February 2011):
You have two options.
If you are suspicious and need to know to put your mind at ease, ask her.
Or, you could just accept that for whatever reason, she has taken the initiative to make your sexual relationship more interesting, dynamic, exciting, whatever. So, you could just say thanks and go with it.
Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2011): Maybe she started reading Cosmo, or some other magazine for women.
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reader, firstlovelastlove  +, writes (23 February 2011):
 "I am now wondering how all of a sudden she knows these different positions" there's this thing called the Internet.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2011): I doubt she is cheating on you she probably heard one of her friends talking about it.
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reader, unabletofly  +, writes (23 February 2011):
Probably she is watching porn to learn new things to make hers man happier.
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reader, largentsgirl89  +, writes (23 February 2011):
 Have you asked her where she learned these new moves from? I was in the same situation with my bf, but I went online and looked at positions and how to pleasure him more so I would know, because I felt like i wasn't pleasing him in bed.
It could be something like that and it could not, just ask her.
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