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writes:Just starting a new relationship with a guy and it's going great. He has a female friend who he's been friends with for about four years, she lives abroad and they met online. She's coming over for a visit soon and I don't know what to feel. They have met a few times but I want to broach the subject of if they have slept together. They are very close and share inside jokes.Should I ask or leave it be? I do want to know but will it change things if I ask?
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reader, fitbabe1987  +, writes (20 July 2014):
Its in the past if they did sleep together. everyone has ex partners, and for all u kNow they are just friend. Im sure u will meet her and realiae u have nothing to worry about..
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2014): He has the right to keep his past to himself. But his past isn't staying in the past if he is still friendly with her and she is coming to visit. That makes it your business. You have the right to know if they have any sexual history together.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 July 2014): They were friends before he met you. If they did sleep together; then the question is how will you take it? What difference will it make? My guess is, you'll feel uncomfortable about their friendship whether they've slept together or not. Most friends are close, and all friends have inside jokes.
It's more important how he treats YOU when she's around.
Try to get along with her. Her visit will go easier on you if you did.
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reader, petina1 +, writes (19 July 2014):
 You are in a relationship with this guy. It's your right to ask the question. after all if he has then he may pick it up again and you need to be sure that you aren't being used.
If it's all innocent then go with them on their outtings.
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