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writes:My friend of over 6 months is completely ignoring me. It was a complicated relationship but to get to the point, we both knew we loved each other and she had to clear some things from her past in order for her to move on with me, so I gave her space. She didn't clear those things up, so I had to move on. She sent me a text wishing me happy birthday 10 minutes before the birthday night was over. Recently I mailed her a x-mas gift and texted her to see if she received it and also thanking her for bday wishes as well, and no response. A mutual friend says that she has a lot on her mind and has been stressed out. If it's over I can completely move on, but it feels like she can text me anytime I want to and I can't to her. She's all I think about and I have gone out with a lot of girls ever since. It's hard to forget about someone when a text pops up every 2 weeks. I feel like maybe she is not strong enough to hear my voice but why is she ignoring me? Should I really forget about her?
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reader, becca78 +, writes (13 December 2008):
Sorry to be hard but if she loves you, she wouldn't be doing this. Tell her either you sit down & talk things through and get together properly and help her through the stuff or she just leaves you alone to get on with your life. It's not fair on you hearing from her every so often, but nothing ever coming from it. Whilst you're still in contact you'll never move on.
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reader, petina1 +, writes (13 December 2008):
 Yes try to forget about her. She doesnt really have any quality time for you does she? Someone who really cares about you won't be able to help making contact it would come so naturally. This would turn out to be a hard relationship with you doing all the running by the sounds of this. If you want to forget then delete her number from your phone and put some new ones in of the people who really care. good luck.
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