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Partner is celibate for religious reasons. Should I wait for him or leave?

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Question - (28 June 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 29 June 2009)
A age 41-50, * writes:

I was dating this guy that i was totally in love with and he told me that he just wanted to be friends. Now he has said that he regrets breaking things off with me so we have been dating again for about a week now... But he has told me that he is not comfortalble having sex with me (gay sex) because he is trying to figure out if it is ok for him to do as a christian.... I care about him sooooooo much, but having everything in a relationship but sex is soooooooooo hard for me. I am ok taking things slow now. But not knowing when or if he will ever want a normal sexual relationship with me is really bothering me.

Should i stay with someone who says they really want to be with me even though they are celibate for religious reasons... ? and i don't even know when his celibacy will end???

thanks for the help

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A reader, anonymous, writes (29 June 2009):

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thanks a lot for your help guys...

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A reader, anonymous, writes (28 June 2009):

WAIT WAIT WAIT!!! tbh we should have more people like your partner on this earth. you wont regret waiting. your partner will really appreciate it as well. and remember, you can always do other things, sex isnt the be all and end all.

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