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Next step in this relationship?

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Question - (28 November 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 28 November 2010)
A male India age 41-50, *upidluv writes:

I'm seeing a gal since more than a month.. we've been out for dinners, pubs, day-long trips on my motor bike, late night ice-creams n other friendly chats..

I've been liking her a lot lately and getting attracted to her physically/sexually. I think she likes me too and when we met the last time, she asked me if i've a girlfriend or if i'm in a relationship.. to which I said I'm not currently (the truth).

Could you please suggest me how should I proceed further.. how do i know for sure if she likes me... how can i ask her for a kiss?!!

btw, she's an american gal studying here in India for a semester (that'll will end in a few more days) and I'm an Indian guy (lived in the US for a couple of years). I'm 27 and she's 22 I believe.

Take care and thanks a lot in advance for all your suggestions..

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2010):

If she's American she won't mind if you put one arm over her shoulder and the other hand on her thigh, gently stroking up and down, with a bit more up than down. If she moans and wriggles about a bit you'll know she likes it and you'll be in luck. If not you won't have lost anything. Nothing ventured, nothing gained.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2010):

Don't ask her for a kiss. I think you should start by holding her hand, look into her eyes and you should be able to tell if she wants you to kiss her. If you feel she does then go for it! Use your gut instinct and be brave! Good luck.

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A female reader, kirra07 Canada +, writes (28 November 2010):

Since her semester is going to end, I would recommend not doing much of anything. She's leaving in a few days, so it would not be a good idea to get involved in a long distance relationship. If you'd like, you could tell her you think she's a great girl and that you've started to like her, and it's too bad that you live so far away from each other. But I think this will have just been a short but sweet romance.

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A female reader, Miley India +, writes (28 November 2010):

Miley agony auntIs it your love or lust? I dont know...you know and god knows...If it is your lust I would suggest that you are on right track, enjoy this hot chic and after that accept your parents ugly decession.most of the guy do the same afterall. and if you are in love best of luck to your parents and tell them to make their health insurance 1st before you give them the shocking news about your marriage.

Anywayz tell her that you love her.casually.but if she gets angry with you just say that you were kidding...hope you will get positive answer. Best of Luck and god bless you...

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