A
female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:My ex and I were in a relationship for 3 years, ended b/c of jealousy, arguments and mistrust.we reconnected after 7 months of not communicating and it seemed as though everything was going well(even though he would constantly bring up the negative things in the past). we would talk on a regular basis and hang out on a regular basis as well until. I went out with a friend of mine and her b/f (which I initially told him wasn't going to go..but he insisted that I go anyway)..which apparently pissed my ex off, he thinks I was with another man. he blew up at me and called me almost every name in the book..that I'm lying to him or trying to play him..and that we shouldn't see each other..talk..have any communication whatsoever.ever since that day I went out he claims that he has a g/f..coincidentally he started dating her the night I went out (which I know is a lie..he's just playing games..but whatever)anyways..I still call..text..try to communicate but he still says the same ol' thing. I had planned to take him out (well in advance before this had even happened..this falling out happened last week) and now I'm stuck.do I put myself out there and still try to take him out like I planned, or just call it quits?some people would say that if you want something/someone bad enough its worth fighting for, others say throw in the towel.I know it's wrong to be treated this way, but my heart won't let me just walk away.am I crazy???
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reader, Sugarbuns  +, writes (28 June 2008):
 You seem to want to "prove" him wrong over and over again. Unfortunately there's never an end to his paranoid accusations and this will eventually get old and exhausting. You seem far too intelligent to waste your time with someone like this. I think you should find someone else and learn from this experience. Good luck.
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