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30-35,
anonymous
writes:what can you do when your man gets into the comfort zone of your relationship and you feel taken for granted ?ive been in a relationship for 2 years almost and have talked to him about the way i feel it turns into a fight or him saying he will try his best to change and begs for me to forgive him says he is stressed out and is really tired for work and school and just everything i am 17 almost 18 and i am 3 months pregnant hes 21 next month and is working a full time job and going to school i see him but i am going to school and hes working and going to school so it can be very hard he texts me and calls allthe time but it seems as he doesnt care sometimes and he thinks its from my pregnance hormones which alot of emotions are out of wack but i do feel like i could get some more loving attention from himlike listen to how my day was before he started going on about hes i love him to death and i am happy but feel a little taken for granted he forgot my birthday which really hurt because he said he didnt but i know he did but that was abit of ago and it seems as he doesnt think of me anymore im not sure what to doplease help me what do i do ?he has told me he feels as he is comfortable with me a little to much where he doesnt want to lose me but feels as he knows i would never leave himhow does he get out of the comfort zone in our relationship and start thinking of me over himself as i do i think of him before me i care for him but i need him 2 i cant stand to have him take and take from me emotionally and not give back so what am i post to do ? i want some romance its been about a year since he did something to take my breath away how do i get him back to how he was toward me ?thank you all
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 October 2007): Hi Hunny,
He is working full time hunny and going to school, your hormones are probably a little sideways at the moment and he loves you that much that he is just really comfortable with you, It sounds that you have a lovely man here, A busy one but still lovely...
You have both settled into a routine, You want some romance its so hard sometimes with our busy lives so I suggest to you that you put some romance in for the both of you, I no you want him to do it, If you make a special night when he comes home from work or school with candles and stuff he cant say no to that. Sometimes we dont think our partners are caring enough but I think yours does care for you very much he is tired and stressed so hunny unwind him alot, Dont hold back because your feeling he is taking you for granted as he is working real hard by the sounds of things for your life together.
Your b/day he may have forgot as alot is happening its no excuse I no but us women remember these things sometimes better.
You say you want him how he used to be, Well sweetheart were you pregnant then and did he have a job and school then and was life in general so busy then im guessing not,
Life changes our way of being hunny so much gets in the way of the most important things and sometimes we all forget, If I were you I would do it for him make that special night forget the arguments you both have something special here and a lovely little one on the way you have both been busy and things have changed for the good though and you have someone who is sticking by you and loves you and he is trying so hard love to support you and bless him he is so comfortable he feels he hasnt got to watch what he says or does this is true trust.. Hunny you take his breath away and see what happens ok YOU TAKE CARE OF EACH OTHER WITH LOTS OF LOVE MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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reader, Tommy7 +, writes (9 October 2007):
You need to ramp up your verbal communication skills. Read to books or take some classes. I don't know if he's hopeless yet.
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