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writes:My husband’s best friend is always joking about sex and at times he would say stuff about my husband and I in intimate cinereous i.e. “Oh im can just picture it” and he’s looking at both of us with these dirty sexual eyes and we all laugh it off of course. They are great pals so my husband trusts him completely and doesn’t mind the jokes. I on the other hand have caught him looking at me inappropriately, but he really is a nice guy. What’s up his this guy? Does he really picture my husband and I being intimate?I actually do believe he would never cross the line physically, just with his mind? What do you think?
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 February 2007): eeeeeeeewwwwww!!!! what kinda guy WANTS to picture his best friend (your husband) having sex? its not normal! hes a pervert and maybe wants a threesome with the both of you! hes maybe attracted to the both of you!
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 February 2007): I would let your husband know that you feel this man's sexual innuendo is taken a bit too far. Quite frankly, I would find behaviour like that disturbing and disrespectful. As said below in Pon's posting-this guy sounds like a creep. Have hubby tell him to stop with the jokes about your personal sex life--it's time to draw the line here. Just a thought here, and I could be way off, but does your hubby discuss the intimate details of your sex life with this guy, when you aren't present? Some men do. This could explain the friend's inappropriate looks at you. Not trying to make you upset with your husband, dear...but you do know him best. So I had to ask if is he the kind of guy who would do this? Just a thought and I hope I'm not right on that point. Talk to hubby inacaring way and get to the bottom of this. Take care, hun.
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reader, Ponungalungb +, writes (13 February 2007):
 He sounds like a creep to me. I would mention your dislike for this behavior to your husband and tell him to tell his friend if he can't keep a civil mouth, he won't be welcome in your home when you're around. If you're husband doesn't have the balls to tell him, tell him yourself. I think he'll change his ways in a hurry.
Good luck!
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