A
male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Recently my girlfriend became upset when she found porn sites in the history of my phone and she asked me to stop looking at them. I understand where she is coming from but over the last several months the amount of sex we have has declined to about once or twice a month. I love this girl with all of my heart and I know that she feels the same way yet I am at a loss for what to do. She claims to not know own why her sex drive has decreased but it is incredibly frustrating being rejected to the point where trying to start something is pointless. Has anyone ever been in this situation, if so any advice?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2015): No sex doesn't justify you using porn if it hurts her
But
No sex means you two are not well suited to one another . Explain to her that a physical relationship is important to you so you
Must end things . Perhaps she knows you use porn so has lost her desire to have sex with you as this is what happened with me and my husband .
Then find a woman who connects with you physically but most importantly, be upfront with the new woman if you plan to still use porn as some women
Do Not wish to have a relationship with a porn user and she had a right to know that in order that she can decide whether she wants to be involved and or sexual with you
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male
reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2015): 1. No sex.
2. No communication & trying to work on the problem.
3. No masturbation and/or stuff like porn.
She cannot expect you to put up with all three of these conditions at once. Not ongoing for months.
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