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writes:Another EX-File...THE BACKROUND:I broke up with my GF of 1.5 years about four months ago. She made me feel like I was never doing enough for her no matter how hard I tried, or that her feelings of insecurity were my personal responsibility. It became a complete no win situation and I had to get out before she drove me bonkers. Ok so that was the bad. The good was that before it slipped into complete dysfunction we had a pretty good relationship. It took some work and time but we had a pretty good balance and yes the sex was very good!THE QUESTION:So we are talking again and it turns out she is with a new guy (not really a surprise she hates being alone). We are planning to go out for a drink in a couple weeks as friends and I mentioned her new boyfriend being an issue and she has completely downplayed him. "Hes boring" or "were just dating, its not serious". Im kinda wondering if this is a bad idea to make nice and be friends considering that she is basically somebody that I disagree with morally. Im also feeling the hormonal rage of being single for 3 months and we have allways had an animal reaction to eachother. It just feels morally and emotionally sticky. Anybody dealt with somthing like this before??
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reader, duce00 +, writes (26 August 2007):
duce00 is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thanks Edie,You are right about taking my own advice. I think its the hormones and selective memory that are distorting the truth. Luckily Ive gotten a little smarter as Ive gotten older and I know my weak spots better. Sometimes I just need to hear it from somebody else. THANKS !!duce
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reader, eddie  +, writes (26 August 2007):
 OK, you're wise and moral enough to write the question. Are you wise and moral enough to take your own advice. You haven't said to many good things abouther....and she has a boyfriend. Leave her alone. she sounds selfish and this is going nowhere. Do the right thing.
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