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writes:My boyfriend says he doesn't want to get married or have kids. We about 19 which isnt a big deal yet, but we have been together for 6 years. Should i expect his answer of marriage and kids to stay the same, or do you think he will ever change his mind? Reply to this Question
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (29 September 2010):
At his age, it's possible he will change his mind. If he was saying this aged about 25, then you'd be in a bit of trouble. Men need more time to mature and such than women. I think you can afford to stay with him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 September 2010): At age 18, I hated the idea of marriage and kids. Lol at 25, thats all I think about. Men need a chance to mature in order to figure out what they truly want in life. It is definitely a possibility he will change his mind. Best to you.
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reader, person12345  +, writes (29 September 2010):
 You're both very young and it's extremely possible it will change. I wouldn't break up with him at such a young age over this. That said, if by the time he hits say, 22, 23, 24, whatever age you want to start thinking about these thing, he still is dead set on never getting married or having kids, ever, you should move on. If you want these things and he doesn't you will never be able to be together happily.
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