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writes: I am confused...Me and this boy are meant to be going out and have been for a few months but haven't seen each other much. Recently I phoned him up to ask if he wanted to meet up but he said he was busy. Then a week later, I phoned him up again and he said he was busy again. It was in the holidays so I can't see how he couldn't spare a lil time to go out somewhere with me!Is he hinting that he doesn't wanna be with me anymore? (I am 13)PS - if he doesn't wanna be with me anymore why doesn't he just tell me instead of being selfish and leaving me not knowing where I stand? (if that is the case) and before you say it, no I am not going to phone him up to ask where I stand - I will leave it up to him.What is this boy thinking? I am confused! Reply to this Question
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reader, mari32  +, writes (22 June 2010):
HeyI know what your talking about im going through that right now as we speak. My boyfriend and I spend time togther whenever possible but today and yesturday I called him and he doesnt answer the phone or my texts. His older than me, not hot and drinks alot. He has a lot of defects but i was still hanging in but today i realized that life is to short and there so many guys out there wanting to be with someone like us. That will treat us great and care and most important loves us. Just let him go thats what im do today its not worth it he's always treating me like total poo and im pretty, smart, work and nice everything a guy would die for girl just let him go.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 May 2006): Agree...break it of, and make no secret of what you think of his childish behaviour. He's taking you for a ride, and you're smart enough to realise that. His problem is he doesnt have the balls to tell you its over himself, so he's being mean in the hopes you will do his dirtywork. So, my advice is do it. Good Luck.
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reader, XxTEASERxX +, writes (30 May 2006):
hi hun...this guy is taking you for a total prat..i have been down this path and i know for a fact that it isnt nice..if he is constantly telling you that he is busy then its time to call it a day babe seriously!! even tho it hurts to do so its for the best so you dont get hurt any further then you already are...you will learn from your mistakes like i had to..i loved my ex so much..he soon came running when he found out i had a new guy and wanted to get back with me..i took the courage and told him how i felt and told him about himself..trust me babe its not a good idea to stick with this guy.i know this from my past experience..good luck!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 May 2006): And the same back to you Ms. Anon. If you feel that he's leading you on, why don't you bring up your thoughts about what he's doing to you, and possibly just forget about this whole thing with him? He may not be mature enough to initiate anything, so you may have to do it instead.
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reader, Smiler +, writes (30 May 2006):
 Hey there
well hi there sweetie yes i'm sorry to say i think this guy is stringing you along without a doubt with all this i'm busy rubbish... if he really wanted to be with you sweetie he would simply make the time.... kick him to the kerb sweetie ! life is to short you have your whole life ahead of you to find a descent guy that will give you both the time and effort that you so rightly deserve which i'm sorry to say at the moment your just not getting.....
i hope my advise helps you sweetie ok, feel free to email me let me know what you decide and how you get on i'm always here for you ok
You Take Care X
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