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writes:I used to go out with this guy just over a year ago. We went out for about 2 years, but it got to the stage where we were on and off for about 3 times. It was always him ending it and me taking him back. We were so close though, I tried to be stronger, and said to myself i wasnt gona take him back, but i had to. Now we're not going out anymore, but i miss him like hell. I'd do anything to have him back.I told him how i felt, but he didnt feel the same. Its so unfair how ive been left and he can move on. I didnt think it would take me this long to get over someone but it has, and im not even nearly there. I havnt felt the same about anyone else. We're still friends, but not nearly as close as we used to be. i dont see him alot in person anymore, and he doesnt tell me his problems or who he's seeing these days etc. I'd just do anything to have him back, and think about him every day. Help?
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reader, CaliMoore +, writes (28 February 2010):
 i know exactly what your going through, i went through the same thing and have been the past few months or so. After finishing, we kept in contact and carried on as friends, as close as we'd always had been. But it just wasn't helping me to move on, and he'd moved on fine. So i cut contact, talked to him less and i've got closer to moving on than i ever did before. It worked for me, try it and let me know how you get on! you deserve better, someone who wants and needs you as much as you need them. Good luck :) x
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reader, CaliMoore +, writes (28 February 2010):
i know exactly what your going through, i went through the same thing and have been the past few months or so. After finishing, we kept in contact and carried on as friends, as close as we'd always had been. But it just wasn't helping me to move on, and he'd moved on fine. So i cut contact, talked to him less and i've got closer to moving on than i ever did before. It worked for me, try it and let me know how you get on! you deserve better, someone who wants and needs you as much as you need them. Good luck :) x
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (28 February 2010):
He's not the one. He just isn't. I know you think he is, but he has ended it over and over again, and you have taken him back. You aren't nearly as close as you think you are, because if you were it would have worked. He can move on because he never once felt the same way as you do. You haven't been left because you never really had him. A good relationship isn't what you had. You had a bad one since it broke up 3 times. I think you need to continue to get over him, and even cut contact. Because when it comes down to it, he's not the one and you're chasing a dream. Good luck to you.
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