Is he just wanting a make out buddy?

A female age 36-40, anonymous writes:

There is this guy who has hung out with our group of friends for the last 4 months or so. One night we started kissing and he asked me out on a date a few days later. He was texting me often after he asked me out and before the date. The date was fun - dinner, movie and drinks. He was talking about hanging out the following couple of days. We made out after the date - only first base. I didn't hear from him for the next 9 days. He wasn't answering his phone or talking to anyone. Everyone was asking me where he was and assumed we were a couple. He came into our regular haunt one night after he got off of work and seemed awkward at first then started holding my hand and putting his arm around me. He said he was embarrassed but he had gotten a new video game and gone MIA. We all went out to breakfast after the bar closed and he insisted I ride with him and he insisted on paying for my breakfast. We were with other couples-he sat by me and rubbed my knee etc. We made out again when he took me home. Now it's been three days again and I haven't heard from him. I know he is really busy between school and work. He is openly affectionate when we do meet up even with his friends and/or mine around. (We are both 23 years old-not high schoolers)If he was really interested in me would he make the time to call or text me? Do guys really get that involved with video games? Is he just wanting a make out buddy? (I don't usually do that sort of thing) I would appreciate some input. Thanks!

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