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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:Hi, almost a year ago something very peculiar happened to me. I met this guy who's military and had 2 encounters with him (not sexual, pure business) then he left a week after that. On the second encounter I noticed he liked me and vice versa, he flirted a little and I thought that was going to be it. The shocking part was that I realized at that moment that he was Married! But later I decided I was going to write to him to see if he still remembered me and so I did. To my surprise he answered right away in a friendly condition. So we started emailing (well I write and he replies) always respecting each other as friends, I sending regards to his family and he talking about them. This guy is in his 2nd marriage to an equal divorcee both with kids from previous marriages and with a kid in common. The thing is that we've been like that for a year without noticing it. I don't know why but I feel something like if we felt something else in those 2 meetings. By email is hard 2 tell.What's tough is that I don't know what to do, because I like him as friend but at the same time I feel weird that with only 2 encounters we've become such good friends. He's far away and says he remembers me so well!Last week he told me he's being deployed so I wrote him good luck and wish to be in touch with him as usual. He replied that although he'll be very busy, if he has a chance he'll write and that he'll be back quite soon and definitely be in touch.Do you think I'm probably getting in trouble and is he trying to tell me something, or should not worry at all?
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reader, Dawnie  +, writes (30 March 2008):
 Why would you want contact with this married guy? You don't know him and he has kids too, you certainly sound as though you are attracted to him and him being married does not seem to bother you, find someone single who is able to be more than friends.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 March 2008): I am struggling with the same type of issue - Love the frindship, but can men be trusted, ...and can I???
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