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writes:The man I am with now helped me through my divorce and through a friends suicide. We have been together for about 10 years. I am not sure why but I cheated on him. I want to leave the first gentleman for the second one. but I am afraid of what type of actions the first one will take. He has threatened me several time but other than verbally I have no proof of it. He tell me thing he will do to me if he ever catches me with another man or if he finds the one I cheated on him with.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 December 2010): You will not like my answer but I will tell you anyway: you cannot be too perturbed by his words because you are doing the wrong anyway. If you do not want him, just leave , you do not have to cheat as well.Cheating is never ever justified. You have been with this man for 10 yrs. He helped you through your divorce and a friend's suicide And this is how you repay him. Karma is a bitch, watch you don't feel the brunt of his anger when he discovers your cheating. I just think u are very ungrateful and u know this.LoveGirl
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2010): If you want to leave him, then just leave him but don't tell him it's because there;s someone else. Just tell him you are leaving him period, because you dont' want to be in a relationship with him anymore. then wait awhile before getting openly involved in another relationship.
I can understand why you would want to leave him, there is no excuse to get violent or threaten violence to someone even if they were to cheat on you.
If you need to, get a restraining order when you leave him.
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