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writes:I'm 16. I went out with this guy (17 y/o) for 3 months - May, June and July. Things were great in the beginning and he had been in previous relationships, but I hadn't. We didn't kiss or do anything like that.. I used to hug only, because as it was my first boyfriend and the first guy who truly liked me for me, I was shy and scared and he understood perfectly. However, in July he broke up with me telling me he didn't have feelings for me anymore, and that he really liked someone else.I really really really liked him, I've never liked anyone as much as him. And for the first time a guy actually liked me back. I never would've thought he would like me, but he did.So things didn't work out, he left me and moved on. He's in my school in pretty much all of my lessons, he's in my class everyday, so I have to see him everyday and he doesn't talk, acts like he cannot see me or hear me and he just lives his life and I live mine. I literally cry myself to sleep every night because I just cannot get over him.And I'm not able to go out and have fun with friends because I fractured my leg and i'm not able to go out to take my mind off of him.I'm trying to move on, but it's so hard when he's in most of my lessons and I see him everyday, everywhere I go as my school isn't very big.What do I do? It's already been 9weeks since he left me and I can't seem to get over him, my feelings are just not going away, they grow stronger and stronger day by day, even though we don't speak.You may thing I'm young and I have my whole life ahead of me and time to meet other guys, but I'm not the type of person to start meeting new guys to get over someone else.And yes I may be young, but I liked him since January but I never told him or anyone else and then he told me he liked me in May and I was so shocked and so happy because I've never had a guy like me before..And for the first time, the guy I liked, liked me back.I'm just stuck, he left me with no explanation and I need to know how to get over him.Thanks
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reader, 789456 +, writes (27 September 2008):
 I went through that before..it was really hard. I would cry whenever i think of him. It took me about 2 or 3 months to get over him. You should try talking to one of your close friends about it. It really helped me when i did that. It's not good to bottle your feelings up.
Someone is going to hurt you at some point in your life
its up to you to decided who is worth it and who is not.
i hope i helped..
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