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I'm finally moving to where my girlfriend is! Am I making the right decision?

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Question - (5 September 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 9 September 2007)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I just don't know what to do. I've been dating my girlfriend for two years, and I love her a lot. We live 6 hours away from each other so we barely see each other, but talk every night and even fall asleep on the phone together. I'm madly in love with her but she doesn't know how to say no. She likes it when people touch her, and says it's because I'm not there that she lets things happen. I'm planning on moving in the next month or so. She says everything will stop, but will it. I love her so much and I don't want to lose her, but I want to be happy

as selfish as it seems. She loves me a lot and it shows, but I just want to know is she going to be faithful when I'm there because I don't deserve to get my heart broken again. Anything you say can help. Thank you...

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (9 September 2007):

You have to accept the fact that this leopard won't change her spots, maybe it's time to find a new jungle to run wild in, with a new found pride, there are plenty leopards on the savana. Choose a new one that has simlar spots to yours. Happy hunting, it half the fun!

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A female reader, Beckto United States +, writes (5 September 2007):

Beckto agony auntYou won't know till you get there. But, how far has she gone with other people? Light flirting? Not bad. Getting massages? Not so bad. Making out? Bad. Having sex? Really really bad.

It depends on how far she has gone without you there. If she's done stuff that doesn't seem right to you, you may not be able to trust her. And if you can't trust her, you can't have a romantic relationship with her.

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