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writes:My boy friend ignore me from last few day. we have 1.5 years. Now last 7th month he was in kolkata, and i live in siliguri. some time he talk to me like a baby, immature he is i thought. but in night when he talk to me, i am just sex toy for him. i feel very bad this type of incident. i dont know what does he want? last 1 year he was not recharge his mobile, he realised that i cant leave with out him, so i call him everyday, alway he take this benifit. when i m in phone with him he talk to the another person, then i feel very sad. what can do please help me.
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reader, lacrymosa_652  +, writes (2 February 2011):
 You need to stop putting your boyfriend before yourself and start respecting yourself more. Don't be afraid to put your foot down and say you're not happy with the way things are - that when you call him, you expect him to have a conversation with you, and if he's busy to tell you that, not just leave you hanging on the phone.
You say he talks down to you and just has sex with you - you don't seem to be emotionally fulfilled anymore in your relationship. Talk to him about how you feel, if he loves you he'll understand that you're not happy and try to change. If you talk to him and he still doesn't change, you may as well end things with him - you say you love him and can't leave him, but why stay with him and just continue to be unhappy? Learn to love yourself, and not just put your partner's needs before all of your own.
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reader, crummyscreenname  +, writes (2 February 2011):
I don't quite understand. you can't leave without him? why not? becasue you should leave him.
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