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writes: Hi, im in a little strife lol. in a nutshell... I recently confessed to my longtime bf i pecked another guy on the lips (i was drunk, i thought he was gay based on what a friend a while ago had said turns out he's not, he's not my friend anymore we havent spoken for months, we dont even say hi at uni, we never even had a thing for each other). It took several months to work up the courage to tell him, and when i did i was petrified but i couldnt harbour the secret anymore. He was extremely angry at me (fair enough), after alot of crying and drama, were going to try to work through it but now he wants to get this guy and he seems to be trying every avenue to get his details, including coming to lectures with me and wanting to call MY friends... I understand that he wants to confront him but it will cause so much trouble for my bf as well as me and it will be better if he just let it go...i admitted to my mistake and i've felt so bad im seeing the uni counsellor as its affecting my studies. I dont want to feel like crap forever, i'm scared of the thoughts i'm beginning to have about myself just to end what im feeling.
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reader, love_and_other catastrophes +, writes (26 April 2009):
love_and_other catastrophes is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni've tried to tell him he's going too far, my friend explained to him that we were told he was gay by another gay friend so i thought it was safe to hang out with him, even one of my bfs friends told him to get over it and that he's not perfect either. he's still angry which is fine, but i just want him to go around smashing people, its not right and would accomplish nothing..it'll makes things worse if anything.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 April 2009): Well he does have the right to be mad, but he doesn't need to go that far. You need to confront him; tell him nicely that he is taking this to serious. Then tell him that you REALLY love him and only him. Sorry if I was no help. I'm only 13.
Good luck!!
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