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I'm bi, but I'd like to try a relationship with a man without hurting him

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Question - (19 April 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 19 April 2009)
A female New Zealand age 36-40, anonymous writes:

i consider myself bi, but like girls better. since 13 i thought i was gay, but part of me still like guys. but im ALWAYS mean towards guys im interested in. whenever im attracted to a guy, i'd be nice and sweet to him but when he falls for me i'd walk away immediately. then i realised i could be only attracted to them physically, not emotionally. i seldom watch lesbian porn cos i don't get turned on as much as straight porn. on the other hand, im very into girls... i fall for girls easily. im always nice to them and put in a lot efforts and emotion to build relationships with the girls.. seriously, am i abnormal??

i want try to be in relationships with guys, or at least with one of them cos i want to get to know who i am sometimes..

there's this really nice dude at my work place, he's generous and gentle and extremely nice to me..he asked me to be his gf few months ago, but i rejected him. im really tempted to say yes! but i know i don't love him..i like him only because he's kinda good looking and he's nice to me. in fact i've never been emotionally attracted to any man, just women. you get my point?? how do i try to get into a relationship with a man (to experiment) without hurting him?

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A female reader, dumdum5g United States +, writes (19 April 2009):

Try going out with this guy at your work place and see how it all works out. You do not have to immediately be girlfriend and boyfriend, you both can just start out as friends and take everything steady. You never know what might happen between the two of you and you never know, this guy might be able to please you physically and emotionally so just try it to see how it all works out. You might just have found your future-hubby so go for it!!!!

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