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writes:I'm a bit confused as to how to handle this.There's one girl who I barely know, only talked to her a bit, but from the times I have talked to her, and from talking to her cousin, I know that she does in fact like me in a more than just friends manner. Like I said, I barely know her, but from the conversations we've had she's nice and I think a relationship would probably go pretty well. The problem lies in, out of every time I have talked to her, there's several times when she's been too busy to talk. As of writing this, it's been a week since our last conversation. This is making it very hard to get to know her, and if she's too busy to even have casual chats online, I don't know if she'd have any time for a relationship. But there's also another girl, who I've known for a few years now. We've been friends for a while, and recently, she's been showing interest in hooking up. But I don't know if it would be a relationship hook up, or a one night sexual hook up. We did hook up for one night about a year and a half ago, and it never did lead to a relationship. But I'm not so sure about this time. And although I do get along with her, I don't know if I get along with her well enough to actually have a full relationship with her beyond just friends. We don't have a ton in common, and most of the time when we hang out it's just casual chat, or watching a movie, or playing a game, it's not as if she's my best friend who I get along amazingly with.Also, not as big a part of it, but there's a third girl who I was interested in for a bit, but who has a boyfriend. But she's been flirting with me for a while, and saying that if she didn't already have a boyfriend, then she would want me. But I'm thinking that she's just a close friend, and has no intentions of breaking up with her boyfriend or anything of the sort.Just want some advice as to how to go about this.
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reader, littlesuziepie +, writes (12 September 2008):
 Hi. I say just be there for all 3 girls and see what happens. Only time will tell. The third girl, do you like her at all? How do you feel about being with her? If she was single would she be first on your list? I am thinking you really need to just relax and ride it out. You may find that it doesn't even work out with any of the girls and someone else actually came along that sparked your interest more than the current 3. Life....ride it out and don't ask 2 many questions. Just go with it. And if any of those girls was THE ONE you would know it. Lots of luck.
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reader, littlesuziepie +, writes (12 September 2008):
Hi. I say just be there for all 3 girls and see what happens. Only time will tell. The third girl, do you like her at all? How do you feel about being with her? If she was single would she be first on your list? I am thinking you really need to just relax and ride it out. You may find that it doesn't even work out with any of the girls and someone else actually came along that sparked your interest more than the current 3. Life....ride it out and don't ask 2 many questions. Just go with it. And if any of those girls was THE ONE you would know it. Lots of luck.
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