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writes: Me and my girlfriend have been together for 5 months and everthing is okay, but she refers a lot of things to her best friend. It is okay but the fact her best friend isn't a very good best friend really annoys me and I feel she isn't very trustworthy. Therefore when they go out to parties together I often get paranoid as to what her best friend's influence can do to her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 November 2005): You need to learn to trust your girlfriend and her judgement. She obviously trusts her friend, else she wouldn't tell her things. All girls confide in their friends about their boyfriends - its what we do!!! The more paranoid you get the worse it will be and the more she will turn to her friend instead of you. If you are really worried about it, be open and try talking to her, tell her how you feel but make sure she realises that you do trust her. Let her know that she can talk to you
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 November 2005):
There is a large population of crazy women out there because of two reasons:
1. In high-school and college they past up the normal guys and went for the playas who jerked them around.
2. The have nutty friends who are always advising them to do crazy dramatic things as though they were on a mexican soap.
In my opinion if the gf has a lot of crazy friends, and you arent confident in her judgement in filtering out their advice, then thats a major stike. If you weren't that keen on her, then pass her up. Odds are you will save yourself a lot of pointless drama.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 November 2005): Give your girlfriend the benafit of the dout . Yes best friends play a verry big roll in our lives but is she loves you theres nothing that can change that . Talk to her with out the friend there . Tell her how you feel . Ask her what she sees in your future .
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